i dont mean make someone feel true love in one hour..or make your ex love you again.. (i wish).. then again.. i dont! he was a lying, arrogant, immature, careless, disrespectful little player boy! as i found out > but he was my first true love. *sniff* anyway i want to move on.. and stop the love i have for him. so>>
what i mean is.. what are the things that melt a man's heart.. make him want to have a relationship with a woman..certain things that he will never forget about you, that will make him interested in you and eventually fall in love!
i want the real thing now.. just like i though i had it with my ex..
but with the right guy! i know i have so mush love to give and im really caring and i made him breakfast and was there when he was upset.. i gave advise, acted like a couple around his friends, watched football/beer with him, fell asleep in his arms, sent him cute notes, gave him little surprises ;), never asked for much apart from respect and time for me in his life.
2007-03-19 09:53:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys dont know ****..
for all you guys saying cook - as if its as simple as thar!
or that im a stalker or desperate.. "thanks" for the advise..
ofcorse its a long story to write oh here
and i was with him for a long time -he was my bf.. that means yes i did cook! and he came to me and wanted more time with me and got jelaous when i wanted to go out and do my own thing thats why i was what i was with him
i gave it my best and i was everything i can be.. and he knew how to make me fall so inlove with him and yet control me
and hurt me on a daily basis and get away with it.
i did do that igrone him thing before too many times but he came with letters saying i love you forever and ever and then the same dissrespect would happen the next day.
i gave him so many chances and all he did was keep me around with beautiful words and songs and kisses and sex.. coz he wasnt like that at the start i already fell in love and was just happy to have him no matter how bad he treat me .. sad end..
2007-03-19 23:28:46 · update #1
just truly be yourself, every man is different, I gave six years of unconditional love to my last boyfriend and he cheated on me. but Im not giving up on love, every man has his likes and dislikes. Always remember thats whats one mans trash is another man's treasure. A better man is in store!!!!
2007-03-19 09:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by wanwan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. There is no way to make a man fall in love with you. I think your best bet is to take it easy. Most guys are very turned off if a woman seems too clingy or does too much. Just be yourself. Every man is different and you have to be happy as well. It's not fair that you are the only one doing the pleasing. Do things that you would love to have done for you. Picture that this is your best friend asking you this question. I am sure you would tell her that it is impossible to make someone love you. Just be real and the right guy will appreciate all the great things that you did for your ex who seems to have lost out on a great girl. Hang in there. Don't rush it, it will happen when you least expect it. Have fun in the meantime and be happy in life. XO
2007-03-19 10:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl listen to yourself and really think about why he left.. I think you need to give him space you sound like a stalker, Im not trying to be mean but lay back a little I felt like this before my man left me for a week i let him go didnt call or bother him i act like i didnt care and what he came back. He was worried i found someone else because i wasent calling him. Have him be guessing have him come back to you and go out party drink show him u dont care and stand up for yourself some self respect and hell come back dont worry. I have so much to teach u email me lovehatejoy@yahoo.com, and i know how u feel trust me its not easy but if u want him u have to let him go.
2007-03-19 10:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by flaca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The strongest attraction I have experienced has come as a result of spotting a personality quirk in a woman, a really obscure one, that I also have and thought was unique to me. And then to notice a dozen others in the same sitting... This is my interpretation of "feeling a connection".
It's all based on vanity of course. Therefore, given that there's some degree of sexual attraction, the route to a man's heart is through his ego. *Show him his favourite parts of himself in you.*
This is, however, highly manipulative if practiced consciously. If I'm honest, I don't think you can engineer what you're looking for.
2007-03-19 10:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cynicus 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is something that develops, not "happens". Be patient and give relationships time to mature. While you are doing that be sure to heap on the praise, be playful, talk about current events, roll in the hay as often as you like and be of good cheer. Things will work out.
2007-03-19 09:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chr***! It's quite simple. LEARN TO COOK!
It doesn't take half an hour to cook a minute steak. And when you do the vegetables, just steam them a bit. Don't boil them while your watching Dr' Phil. Granted potatoes take longer but give me a break.
MY GOD that's all we want. No head games, no sweet nothin's. Just three square meals a day.
You don't even have to like our friends.
So come on ladies. GET WITH THE PROGRAM.
2007-03-19 10:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by $Sun King$ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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i dont mean make someone feel true love in one hour..or make your ex love you again.. (i wish).. then again.. i dont! he was a lying, arrogant, immature, careless, disrespectful little player boy! as i found out > but he was my first true love. *sniff* anyway i want to move on.. and stop the...
2015-08-23 08:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Celestine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up really sucks. Its hard, it hurts, its painful. I know - I'm going through it right now too.
But really, the only way ANY man is going to fall in love with you is if you are YOURSELF.
You are enough as you are - and you shouldn't even be thinking about changing for some man. Be yourself.
2007-03-19 09:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make anyone fall in love with yu. Just be yourself and htings will work out for the best. Heartache may come with that. You just have to be strong.
2007-03-19 09:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, you sound desperate. Men don't like desperate women. So, get busy in your own life, you don't have to have a man to be complete ~ do your own thing for awhile and if "he" comes along, then so be it. relax. be yourself. If a chemistry is there, then go with it, have fun, enjoy the moment. Also, men like to be with women who make them feel good about themselves, but in order to make someone else feel good, YOU need to feel good about who you are, right? Live your life, do your thing and please don't be desperate for a man, that will happen when the time is right. ok?
2007-03-19 13:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋