hi, there!!! I like this girl at the gym who works as a receptionist. She is 24 and has a little boy, and i usually chat to her for a bit when i leave the gym and she is sound. One day we started talking about her ex and she told me he was to controlling and she she finished with him and also the "Sex was crap, basically he wasnt giving her enough" lol. why would she tell a stranger about her sex life if she didnt like me ??? Earlier today i went to the gym and she was "sticking her tongue out at me". what to do i, does she like me?? should i get her number off her?? am just scared that what if i ask her and she turns me down then id be well embarassed cos id have to see her each time i go to the gym and she aint no random stranger who id see once then i wont. what do i do please help ???
thanks
2007-03-19 09:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well to me it sounds like she likes you... and i doubt that she will turn you down ... why don't you ask her to go out with you for a friendly drink or something like during the day so she don't have to abandon her kid and then ask for her number or something... and even if she says no which by the sounds of it she shouldn't it'll only be embarrassing for you if you let it... just smile and keep your conversations normal and how they used to be then everything sould be good!
2007-03-19 10:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's open man go for it. Start off slow like bring her a cup of her favorite coffee, smoothie or whatever. listen to her interest if she loves for example scary movies, eddie murphy tell her "oh say i was gonna see blah blah movie you wanna meet up? If you guys are leaving the gym together at nite see if she wants to grab some coffee or something walk her to the train or car. She telling you about the sex cause she wants to tell you what she wants and you suppose to answer like Baby if we was together it be all nite and all day. But you mention she has a child so when you ask her out bear in mind she may need a babysitter and can't stay out to late. Also when you guys are finally an item sho interest in the child remember when you date the mother you also date the child.
2007-03-19 10:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Faint heart never won fair maiden."
Has it occurred to you that perhaps she has some interest in you, too? Telling her personal information like she did means that she's at least trusting of you...maybe more than she's able to say and is just waiting for you to make the first move.
Ask her out for coffee or a drink. Give her sufficient time to make sure she has someone to be with her child--ask which day/time is best for her.
Take it from there. If you're concerned about being turned down, I have to imagine that you're new to the dating scene because guys are turned down all the time and have built up a certain resistance to it.
Success is only possible if you try. Otherwise what've you got?
Good Luck
2007-03-19 10:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by MJ D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure that everyone one here will tell you to get her number but be careful. Dont forget its her job to be chatty and nice. She may click with you and so may take this chatty one more stage, but that still doesnt mean she wants to make the beast with two backs with you.
What you need to do is pay a compliment to her...something to let her know that you think she's hot. Something personal but also something genuine and that you can back out of if she doesnt take to it too well.....
Then ask to meet her. Not for a cheesy drink or meal, just enquire what she's doing at the weekend. If she's going to a particular bar say that you and your mates are popping there and you could meet here there. don't be a creep and follow here all night, just meet her there, introduce her to your mates and vice versa and sew the seeds, see how it goes.
2007-03-19 10:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Girugamesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her for her number it does seem like she likes you and I think you are right most women would not talk to you about there sex or personal life unless they felt comfortable with that person so I think you should go for it you will never know unless you just ask her
2007-03-19 10:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by angiefaith23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, yeah i think she does like you. she is probably waiting for you to ask for her number she is kind of flirting with you (cumin from a girls point of view) but us girls dont wait forever she is probably to shy to ask for your number, i would just ask her, and i bet you she will give it you just give it a try you have got nothing to lose, you wont know unless you ask her hope this helps x
2007-03-20 02:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a think shes choking for a boning take the plunge m8 lol
2007-03-19 09:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by alan22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's waiting for you to make a move.
2007-03-19 10:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋