both w/ different fathers. my recent baby daddy wants me to move with him in another state, my first baby daddy doesn't take care of his daughter, but his mom plays a major role in her life. We all live close by right now, should i move?
2007-03-19 09:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe in this case you need to carefully look at what kind of Dad this "recent" guy is willing to be. If he wants all of you to be with him and is willing to treat the other girl as his own, then it might be a good move. Any plans to marry? I would want that for sure - it's too easy to back out otherwise - it will break Grandma's heart for sure, but you need to do what is BEST for BOTH GIRLS. Assure Grandma she can visit anytime and you will not deprive her in any way - she will eventually understand. OH - and please, no more babies out of wedlock OK?
2007-03-19 10:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in love with this guy, then sure move with him. you need to look out for your future. If this man is willing to take care of both girls equally and he loves you go for it. i know you will feel bad for the grandmother but maybe there will be some way you two can agree on a way to make sure she will be able to see them. in the long run it is your choice, search your soul and heart and im sure the anser will come to you.
2007-03-19 23:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by shelly l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your second baby daddy that you need to stay here for the sake of the first baby, and he should stay here for his baby's sake.
2007-03-19 17:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss with your daughter's grandma who does play a part in her life and see if she would be willing to relocate somewhere closer or if she would be able to visit on a semi-regular basis (monthly, bi-monthly) and you'll have to decide from there
2007-03-19 16:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move. the first guy is in no way helpful to you, when the 2nd guy is. then again i'm only a 7th grader, so my advice might not be the best.
2007-03-19 16:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you gotta think about what's best for your girls.
2007-03-19 16:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay or go to whereever you'll be happier.
2007-03-19 16:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur girl
2007-03-19 17:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur girls
2007-03-19 16:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋