At first everything was good, he would call all the time and you would go out on dates. Now, its different, he doesnt do that.When I gave him my virginty, and ask him how he feels, he says we should have done that a long time ago. he bought up sex really early in the relationship. Even when we're friends he was sexually toward me. He said thats not all he wants, but hes always asking me to come over for that reason. Then he said he could do it with anyone but he wants me because he knows im clean and never been w/ anyone else(hes a virgin too). He bought me a ring(well i kinda ask him to buy it), but he said he go it because he loves me. He said i love you very early in our relationship too. I think he stayed with me long enough to get some because i told him to wait, but he still was pressuring me. Now, he has something more important in his life, money and drugs.
2007-03-19 09:34:45 · 8 answers · asked by lostcompletely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will collapse for what happens when you get bored of the sex (and you will)?
2007-03-19 09:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was very patient in waiting for what he really wanted from you:sex. You don't say how old you are, but don't waste the rest of your life if all he wants now is sex. I would also be concerned that money and drugs seem more important to him than you.
I would first try and ask him to to take you out on another "real" date and see what his response is. If he keeps putting you off, I'd break the relationship off.
2007-03-19 09:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by susandiane311 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of," Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for fee." He has gotten what he wants from you. You should have stopped the relationship along time ago if you wanted more than just sex. He has been approaching you with this from day one. You have no one but yourself to blame for the way he treats you. A man will only do to you what you allow him to do.
2007-03-19 09:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it is time to keep your legs closed when it comes to this guy. This relationship or whats left of it, sounds like it's going no where, but down. Save yourself all the heartache and get going now. Trust me, things are only going to get worse.
2007-03-19 09:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to rid yourself of this jerk as quickly as possible. its one thing if you're ok with a sex and sex only relationship..but you obviously keep hoping for more. he's using your need for full out love to keep getting what he wants. if he can have any girl he wants then let him have at it...as for you close the muffin factory to him and go find someone else to bake with....preferably someone who truly cares for you and your needs.
2007-03-19 09:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by fllfigchk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT a relationship period.
why would you want to be with someone like that?
dump the loser
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cool...
2007-03-19 09:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, darling. It is obvious that he already has.
2007-03-19 09:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIS LOOSER BEHIND!!!!!!
DUMP IT AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!
2007-03-19 09:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋