My bf and I have been dating for a litlle over 2 months, and its a semi long distance realtionship, and he said that we never get to see each other, hes 16 so he can drive but im only 14 so i cant drive and he said that he thought we should wait untill i get older so it is easier and not as hard on us, because we make plans but then something comes up so one of us cant go, and he says its maks him angry and he htought he was making me angry and he said he thought it would be better if we waited untill we were both older and then try it out again, and he said he still wanted to hang out and go to the movies and come over to my house and stuff like that. Well we havent talked in a week and the night we talked he said he promised he still wanted to hang out and stuff but he never called and we havent hung out. I talked to my BFF and she said it doesnt sound like we broke up. what did he mean? did he just say that to let me down easy or did he actual want to get back together latta. HELP
2007-03-19 09:30:13 · 12 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should focus on ur education, boys are a dime a dozen and they'll always be around once we're around. Its nice u want 2 know about the world of boys but its a roller coaster so don't hurry into it. you have many years ahead, save ur self for "THE ONE," ur never 2 young or old 2 learn besides wen u start this early ur only adding up on ur #s (2 many men will know about u). Get urself in a position where u can say "2 d left" and don't av to worry about ur next meal
2007-03-27 09:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by sexysania01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's right to say you two should wait until you are older. You are underage in your state, I'm guessing, and he runs the risk of going to jail if he has sex with you. You don't sound like someone who knows you're underage or even cares. Luckily, he's smart enough to know what that means. You may just be hanging out so far and not in a sexual relationship but dating at 14 is playing with fire. So don't play 'boyfriend/girlfriend' until you are old enough.
2007-03-27 04:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think realistically he is trying to let you down gently. I know at your age all of this is so important to you, but you are still so young and there are lots of lovely guys out there for you to meet. Perhaps he wants to do a bit with his life before he gets too serious, sounds like quite a mature young man. You could still have him as your friend. One thing men dislike is when a girl comes on too strong and too heavy especially at a young age. I think girls take things more seriously than boys do. Take time to enjoy your life and don't get too rapped up with the boys, you have plenty of time for that.
2007-03-27 08:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should put your life on hold until you get a license, can you really not date other guys until then, you dont know who is going to come along in that time. It sounds like he may be making excuses to break up in a nice way, he's probably afraid of hurting you and that is sweet in a way. But you need to talk it out and find out what he's really feeling and if this is just his way of breaking up with you.
2007-03-20 07:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by JAEB81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he found someone else who lives close to his house...you need to find a 14 or 15 year old boy...16 is kind over your head
2007-03-27 07:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer a short tale besides the fact that if, enable this one bypass. She sounds perplexed as to what she wnats. She has you up and down like a yo-yo. You deserve greater effective. You sound like a real great guy and he or she is twiddling with you. If she informed you to ruin out, then do it. discover somebody else. this is going to come around lower back.
2016-10-19 02:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound so sweet. you dont deserve to be led on. its sounds to me like hes leading you on to let you down gently. you are only 14 and life will go on. think of the law if not anything else. he could very possibly get in serious trouble for dating you. if you love him let him go if he comes back later when your both of legal age then maybe its meant to be.
2007-03-27 09:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by JESSI M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age. He's 16? He's looking at everything around him and wanting it. Unfortunately, you are not there so he's not happy about it. Hormones raging. Best to let it go and move on to someone nearby.
2007-03-27 09:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by Will H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he met someone his own age. At 14 you need to worry about your future, your grades will determine your salary someday. He is trying to tell you that you are too young for him, although he likes hangin out as friends.
2007-03-27 00:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just making an excuse to let you down easily.
2007-03-19 09:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋