I have this impression, may be wrong, that if I end up with a caucassian woman she is gonna cheat on me. I have few instances where I intentially avoided "white women" from considering for a date. I am not racist but when it comes to dating I see them differently.how can I overcome this fear and be acceptable to white american woman?
2007-03-19 09:06:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pinky, I am not being pea brain sized, it is just what I hear and watch from folks around me
2007-03-19 09:14:54 · update #1
Betty..you are so wise, yeah whote folks kill the babies,and black folks keep them.
2007-03-19 09:32:03 · update #2
Just try not to think about the color of their skin, talk to them before going on dates and if they seem genuine, ask for a date. It's not only white women who cheat, that's just what is portrayed in American cinema. All types of women cheat, just treat women as individuals, I'm sure some might be cautious when dating you, because of some stereotype.
2007-03-19 09:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is being racist when looking for a spouse if you have a personal preference that IS NOT based on a sterotype. However, it seems that your preference is based on some theory that white women cheat. Personally I had never dated any race but african american men and sorry, it had nothing to do with the endowment theory. Now, I am dating a Hispanic man and find him to be just as wonderful as any other man I have dated. And based on his race I almost didn't go out with him. So, keep your options open.
2007-03-19 16:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Color has absolutely nothing to do with whether a woman will cheat on you or not. This sounds like a self esteem issue. Any woman could cheat on you be she Black, White, Brown or even Green. The person that you marry should be someone that you believe loves you for yourself. Not someone of any specific color.
2007-03-19 16:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by kalischild57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
betty is wrong.. it not that were aborting all of them . we just aint spreading our legs as much.. i know this by the people i work with .. i never seen such a bunch of nypo in my life..and as for you being a racist just because you perfer a certain race.. well that dont make you a racist.. it is kinda of like.. liking hamburger instead of steak .. or fish.. just because you perfer one over the other dose not mean anything.. there are a lot of white men and women out there that prefer to date a person from a different race.. it dont make them a racist.. they just know what they like.. i know a lot of black men who like white women and so on..it is all in who your attracted to.. for me it is mix mex.. btw i am white...and were i work.. i see more black running around than i do white.. but then again there is about a 60 to 40 ratio there
2007-03-19 18:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating at least 5 Caucasian women. All women are not the same no matter what race they are. Some may cheat others not. same with black, Spanish, India, portarican, ect.
Sorry for the spelling.
2007-03-19 16:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what goes on in my office, you are right. I would try one and see, though. Maybe she grew up in a chinese neighorhood.
White people do seem to have fewer controls or reservations about sex. It is a free for all. That is why black women have more out of wedlock babies. We are not aborting them at the rate that white women do.
2007-03-19 16:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of the fact that is it okay to marry a Pakistani if you're Arab? But I see what you mean. Actually, this is life. You probably have this sense of "racism" but not racism 100%. Every one is racist... you are, I am, she is, and he is. I don't know if you will overcome this fear, but remember that everyone is racist. And if you want to marry a woman who is 'caucasion' or 'white', then you shouldn't look at the history of their ethnicity. This is naturally an ongoing thought in us, but would you want to marry a white because her ethnicity appeals to you? No...you would want to marry a person who is nice to you, trusts you, you trust her...etc etc.
This is an interesting question, I hope I answered it =]
2007-03-19 16:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by FlipThePage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, you just have a certain want, and need. My husband would not date out of his race only because he prefers Latin women there is nothing wrong with that, and that does not make him or anyone else a racist.
2007-03-19 16:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think women cheat based on the color of their skin, or anything else for that matter. Women cheat just the same as men, and cheating comes in all sizes, shapes and colors.
2007-03-19 20:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date whatever kind of woman your comfortable with. Sadly, all kinds of women cheat. You should work on yourself to make it so that you're happy in your own skin - without or without a woman. You're more satisfying to women if you have your own s*** together and I think they'd be less likely to cheat if they think you're "god's gift."
2007-03-19 16:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋