i have been married for 8 years. Sadly in the initial yearsof my marriage i was v lonely and did not realize that i started hanging out with my husbands younger brother when he(spouse) was not around. i enjoyed the younger brother(YB) company but ... it seemed to grow everyday ... there came a time when we both touched each other ..(hair/..no kiss/sex etc)
i did realize my stupidity & forgot him. We all live under 1 roof .. and well he is married now .. to be a dad in Dec. two things:
1. 5 months before his wedding we had a relapse ....the same chemistry ...etc.. well it all began in 2002 i had kids but it was SHOCK that it happened again,....no sex /kiss..but obvious feelings.
2.well he is married i see him everyday .. but no matter what/how much i try to be at peace with him he makes sure that after 4-5 days he gets mean then after a cold war makes up . ihave set him free ... but he is messing with me i feel..WHY???
My hubby has no clue .. and i want it that way .
2007-03-19 09:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all stayunder one roof my spouses parents etc .. iknow im bad ..but i really have no idea how to make it easy . he is making it so tough for me... i cannot believe at one point of time i was in love with him.
2007-03-19 09:13:21 · update #1
Your problem has no solution but one. You and him cannot be living under the same roof. Tell your husband you married him and not his brother. Insist on your own home.
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2007-03-19 09:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep wondering why if you have been married for 8 yrs you are still living with a brother in the same house. Get your own place and remember the old adage "good fences make good neighbors." Your behavior was wrong, and as long as you continue to have 'relapses' you will be stuck.
Sorry, get your own place, for the sake of your marriage.
2007-03-19 09:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by drg20202004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious answer is that 2 families shouldn't be living under one roof. You're playing with fire.
2007-03-19 09:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by josh m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever talked on your dad approximately this cow? can not he see how disenchanted this heifer is making you? Why would not he step in and say something? She is obviously obsessed on the assumption of you being a lesbian....yeah she is a cow. heavily you would be able to desire to talk to an person...in case your father would not hear ...then communicate on your mom.
2016-12-19 09:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is struggling with his feelings for you but as he is going to be a Dad soon it is time for you to make the decision for both of you.
2007-03-19 09:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you cant help who you have feelings for --you have to think of the future, as far as it working out, if you even want it to, or just ending up hurt, and not being able to explain to your hubby why youre sad/upset
2007-03-19 09:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by archfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your friends and thats all it ever will be. Don't get caught up in a love triangle.
2007-03-19 09:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Pups 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number one, you should move
number two, you are a scuz if you can do that crap with his own brother
someone should tell your husband and his wife
idiots
2007-03-19 09:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus!!!!!! thats fu...d up...best cool it for good unless you want to lose what you do have with your spouse....
2007-03-19 09:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur ****** up go get a life stop cheating perv
2007-03-21 01:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋