I was dating this girl for nine months, i took here verginity, whatever, we were like Bonnie and Clyde. Then she moved a way we broke up, i still love her and i still talk to her. latley i got interested in her best Friend. She likes me too, but she does't want to mess up her relationship with my ex. Should i have her ask my ex for permission, should i purposely turn them against each other, i don't know i need help.
2007-03-19 08:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by luis c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was dating this girl for nine months, i took here verginity, whatever, we were like Bonnie and Clyde. Then she moved a way we broke up, i still love her and i still talk to her. latley i got interested in her best Friend. She likes me too, at first she thought i was just playin' her but i got her to realize that i wasn't. The reason she wont date me is because she does't want to mess up her relationship with my ex. Should i have her ask my ex for permission, should i purposely turn them against each other, i don't know i need help
2007-03-19 08:56:39 · update #1
i'm also tryin' to get my ex off me cuz i like her friend
2007-03-19 08:57:36 · update #2
most girls are not real freinds, that girl should know better and try to find someone else!!! She knows what u like cuz she talks to your ex.... thats why she knows how to get you and she did! She probably thinks shes so smart. I dont think your in love with your ex bf. wake up.
2007-03-27 05:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by *STAR* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're trying to get your ex 'off you' because you like her friend? You said you still love her and still talk to her. Have you talked to her about what she thinks your relationship is? You say you took her virginity - big deal, I guess, but you also said you were like Bonnie and Clyde (unless you were robbing banks together, I think you mean you fought a lot.)
Does this ex think you two still have a future? You ought to know the answer to that question - you should ask her. Don't offer to have a future with her; just ask her what she sees in her own future and talk about her, not you. Maybe she is dating someone and hasn't wanted to talk about it with you but now she would. In which case, you can listen to her, take an interest in what she is doing and then eventually tell her that you are kind of interested in her best friend. See what she says. Dummy, why would you have her best friend ask your ex for permission when you still talk to your ex? Jeez, are you feeling guilty and creepy like you are sneaking around since you suspect she may still have feelings for you? You want to avoid getting in trouble when if you care about your ex, you can still be interested in her happiness and be a good friend to her and date other people. But all that has to be what your ex understands, not what you try to get away with.
Her best friend is right to not want to mess up her relationship with your ex. Sounds like she's a better friend to your ex than you are!
2007-03-27 11:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're just out of luck. This will not turn out good. You say you still love your ex and talk to her- I'm assuming she still likes you at least a little bit if you were together for 9 months. So if you go out with her best friend, she's probably not going to talk to you anymore. And her best friend is probably going to stick to what she said and not make any moves because she doesn't want to mess up their friendship. So if you are completely head over heels absolutely must have this best friend, then i suppose your only real option is to split them up. I'm warning you though, it's a bad idea and you'll probably lose both in the process.
2007-03-19 15:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since your over with your ex then theres nothing wrong in having a relationship with her friends,but that would be great if you would talk to her friend and atleast inform her of your feelings with her friends just for the sake of respect
2007-03-27 12:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me its wrong because thats your exs friend. but if you really like your exs friend then both of yall need to talk to her even though she might not approve of it and if they are friends you dont want to break them up just think about it
2007-03-27 15:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Angie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on buddy
2007-03-27 11:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I think you should just go for it,
2007-03-19 15:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋