well im 16 going on 17 and me and my boyfriend have been going going out for a whole year and 6 months, well havent had sex , cause i want to save my self for marrige, well he wants me to give him head, ive been thinking of it, but would i be a whore.he wouldnt make me if i didnt want to but, i kinda do,is tht being a whore
2007-03-19 08:37:53 · 24 answers · asked by blonde_chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if it were to be between the two of you, then no one would no except yawl. Hopefully he wouldnt consider you a whore, and you know your not, so pretty much you wouldnt be considered a whore, especially if its with someone that you love and that you have been with for a while.
However, it is considered to be "sexual activity" and trust me, if you start doing things like that it will lead to other things.
Just think about that and decide what you feel is best for you and your relationship!! Good luck!
2007-03-19 08:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am a guy so my answer may be bias, but its still the truth.
in all honesty you are NOT a whore if you wanna pleasure your boyfriend in a SAFE way.
i know in some places there are 12 year old girls having pre-marital sex for money or drugs or whatnot, and some even younger, NOW THATS A WHORE
yes depending on your age, from what i can tell it doesnt seem like your "legally" an adult so your probably in school still. if you are and other girls hear about this then they probably will call you a whore and other nasty names.
i say your buisness is your buisness.
but hey at least your being respectful of your body and yourself to wait, so hey if you wanna "reward" your boyfriend, then go ahead.
2007-03-19 15:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even close to being a whore.
I'm guessing you don't know what a whore is....
A whore whore's themselves out for something in return. Generally money.
If you are doing this because you like your boyfriend then there's nothing whorish here at all. Go forth and enjoy!
Note: A slut is like a whore but doesn't want anything but sex. Usually you have to be doing many guys in a short period of time to qualify as a slut. Ok why is sIut **** but not whore? odd
2007-03-19 15:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blonde Chick. You are so ahead of the pack it ain't funny. Keep saving yourself for marriage. It will make your marriage so much more special, and oddly enough, you will have more relations if you wait.
The only thing you are doing wrong is stying with this guy so long when you are so young. Your first started dating him when you were fourteen? That is way too young to make a decision on what partner is best for you. If he is a great guy, go ahead and keep seeing him, but don't feel constrained to keep seeing him exclusively just because you are.
Some benefits of waiting until you are married:
1. No chance of getting pregnant and ruining yours and your child's life.
2. No chance of contracting a disease such as AIDS or Herpes.
3. No chance of your future boyfriend/husband looking down at you for putting out before marriage and they will, even if it was with them and they begged you for it.
4. A big chance of weeding out male scum that only want a girl for physical activities and couldn't care less about them as a person.
5. You will be able to go about your life saying you didn't have intercourse before you were married and your oldest child is over nine months younger than your marriage. I can and few of my friends can.
6. If it means anything to you, it would be pleasing to God.
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2007-03-19 15:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You've set a high bar by choosing not to have sex before marriage. Oral sex is sex, because you will learn intimate things about each other. It is this level of intimacy that you should protect until you meet the right man. It's not just the physical act.
Final advice, you need to find a new relationship or get married. Saving yourself for marriage is not for weak knees.
2007-03-19 15:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by stranger2ooo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow...whore is a strong word, do you know what it even means??? Of course you are not being a whore if you want to do sexual things with your bf!....just make sure it is something that you want to do, and that you are ready for. Think about possible consequences and reactions from your bf and yourself. Ask yourself if this is something that you might regret afterwards.
2007-03-19 15:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all a whore is someone who does sexual acts in exchange for money or other forms of payment. so it definately wouldn't make you a whore. I don't see anything wrong with giving him head...why not? when people are going out they are usually involved in a sexual relationship. I say do it and have fun.
2007-03-21 17:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by brandy_wessler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that will not make you a whore. that will show that you will do what it takes to keep your man. also you want to do it, so if youre okay with it and you want to do it then go ahead. no big deal, just make sure he is clean down there. if you like that, then maybe you can ask him for some head.
2007-03-19 15:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saving sex till marriage is saving all sex(oral, anal and vaginal). If you want to wait then tell him this is something you feel strong about it. Stick up for what you believe. I know it's not always easy but well worth it in the future.
If you do decide its something you want to do, be willing to live with that. I personally don't think that what others think should matter, but the truth is people will judge you.
2007-03-19 15:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Laurel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you may not be a whore but it really doesn't sound like you are ready 4 any of it-please wait until you know the answer in your heart
2007-03-19 15:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by darlene1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋