Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

2007-03-19 10:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. This is a TWO PART question.

GUYS: For those of you who expect your significant other to "forgive and forget".....how do you expect her to do that when you keep repeating the SAME mistakes?

GIRLS: Any advice on how to get your man to see that he is an idiot? (just kidding) Seriously, My husband has not cheated (that I know of)...but he keeps doing dumb stuff that requires him lying to me. We've been married 11 years and I've caught him doing pot in our garage (after he lied about it for months. I've caught him with every kind of porn there is (after he lied about it and even put his hand on a Bible one evening.) He even lies about goofy stuff like whether or not he bought caulking at the Home Depot or not. He'll say he did and then when I ask him where it is he'll get mad because I'm "nagging" him about it. Which is his way of saying "I didn't get it I just TOLD you that I did."

Everytime I get upset about his lies he says "get over it". HELP!

2007-03-19 10:49:23 · 2 answers · asked by guatemama 4 in Marriage & Divorce

okay last month i stole my dads credit card number so i could buy tickets to see a show that my friends were going to. it got worse, because i could not help myself and ordered some band clothes because all these people were wearing it. okay i love that band so much and wanted to see them and i might even get to meet them, i was working and thought i could pay it back later but they fired me for no apparent reason and now the debt is too much that i cant even pay it. my dad hasnt found out yet. and these stuff keep coming to my house and my mom is getting suspenseful[i dont know if i used the word right] i just told her its a band promotion. i feel ashamed of myself how could i ever do this? i felt like he would not find out, but he might and i am scared, he will get very mad if he finds out and i hate myself because i did it. i dont know what to do!!!!!

2007-03-19 10:48:52 · 30 answers · asked by yay 1 in Family

read my last question. i never said that i wanted to go out with the guy i liked for 5 years. i just asked if it is wrong for me to want him to break up with his girlfriend. his girl is a b**** and starts fights with ther girl all the time. and i just dont like her. plus he is to old for me and i dont want to get with him.

2007-03-19 10:48:39 · 4 answers · asked by Crazy♦Beautiful 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night after I told my girlfriend I got her mother pregnant she started to cry and dumped me like wth
>:(

2007-03-19 10:48:37 · 4 answers · asked by Kevin G 1 in Singles & Dating

both physically and personality wise? what qualities do look for? what is your personal image of the perfect woman with the perfect personality?

2007-03-19 10:48:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I live in a small/medium house and have A LOT of stuff. Most of the stuff is my husband's and he doesn't really want to give it up because he grew up poor and doesn't like getting rid of things that might be useful. Our garage is organized but is full. I hate having to clean around all this extra stuff in our house and I hate clutter. Here's what I've tried so far:
1. put his clutter in a box and ask him to find homes for everthing. This never gets done and we just have boxes of stuff.
2. I try to find homes for things but then he gets frustrated that he can't find his stuff.
3. I've tried making space for him to put his stuff so he can decide exactly where things go- it never happens.

I'm not his mother and am not going to yell at him to deal with his stuff. I don't yell or nag. I'm considering just getting rid of things we won't ever use. I honestly don't think he'll even notice. Is this wrong? I'm talking old calendars, shirts with holes....

2007-03-19 10:47:45 · 15 answers · asked by Erin H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

About 2 years I had an affair with a married man for a couple of months and we totally fell in love with each other, but he decided to stay married (which I didn't ask him to change) because of his daughter, which I not only understand but also support. So we decided to break it off and not talk to each other. About six months ago we spoke and we said that we still had feelings for each other and I told him that I wasn't going to torture myself for it, and we agreed not to act on our feelings.

We hadn't seen each other for a while a couple of months and now he has come back to work part-time in the same place I've been working as a full-time. I've been trying to avoid him. but it has become really hard... Does he just want to torture me? Why hasn't he stop working there (I mean he only comes for 10 hrs a week when I'm there)? I just don't get it!

2007-03-19 10:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by myliz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

no, this isnt just some little crush, im really religious, so i know that dating is for marraige. there is a guy at church. he is absolutely.. wonderful, lol. im 14, he's 17, thats a lot now, but im talking in the future. hes so cute, hes a good Christian, he is so sweet, hes awesome with little kids, they love him, he always laughs at my jokes, he wants to be a physicians assistant, i mean, what more could a girl want? except i dont think he would be interested in me. we talk and stuff, but i know i can get annoying sometimes, i dont mean to, its just my personality... idk if i should try for him in the future. what do you think?

2007-03-19 10:47:29 · 24 answers · asked by lovely 4 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone else find this happens to them?

I got given a guys number and text him and we started texting and calling,to be honest although i liked him i wasn`t that interested but he seemed to be and told me he was,but he`s now been ignoring me and not called or text and i`m beginning to miss it a bit!

It`s as though when i know he`s interested,it puts me off and i dont know if he maybe thought i wasn`t interested and has lost interest himself.am i weird or is this common?

The reason i ask is i was with my first boyfriend for 6 years and he was my first serious relationship and i cant remember anything before him if you know what i mean,advice appreciated!

2007-03-19 10:47:15 · 25 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

ok, im getting married in june, and getting all of my girls dresses together and mine. but one of my bm told my moh that she wasnt going to be able to get the dress, i have tryed to get a hold of her to talk about it but she wont reply back. and last night my mom asked me if we would want to get married in Florida. we are still thinking about it. and it would just my family there. i would like to have it here where i live, Arkansas, to have my friends and my fiance's family, but with my girls saying they can get the dress and then they cant they are just stressing me out soooo bad. and right now i dont know if i want to have the wedding on the beach or here where i grew up. what would you do? i am sooo stressed out. and with all of this the dress thing i still havent found a place to have a wedding. because i dont know if they can get there dresses. what should i do?

thanks to all answers.

2007-03-19 10:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Weddings

How do you know if your in love. Like, what are the signs???? Is it visible to the person who your in love with??

2007-03-19 10:47:05 · 4 answers · asked by Dancin' HOTTIE!! 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I got a new boyfriend last week and it has been pretty great so far! He is younger but only by a year! Well he has an email account and he said he emailed me and it didn't come through. My storage quota is only 3.7. I know he really cares about me but it's confusing! Am I over-reacting?

2007-03-19 10:47:04 · 4 answers · asked by xoLoveMaexo 2 in Friends

So me and this girl I really like have been chatting on msn quite a bit the last while. Im actually thinking of asking her out soon. We get along amazing in person but I donno, I just have a hard time coming up with new topics to talk about. Like we'll talk about how our day went and new things going on, but then Itll end with a "lol" or something that we just cant keep working off of. Now I see alot of people say "just ask questions", well sorry to say it but no one wants to just be realxing infront of their computer having a great conversation and then "So what are your plans for next year?" If someone was to ask that in person while you were hanging out youd be like.... ya... ok.... thats weird. For those people who talk to their bf/gf on msn alot do you guys just talk and talk and talk? Or are those breaks in conversation for 5-10 minutes every now and then as you do something else online? Just wondering if its just me...

2007-03-19 10:46:31 · 1 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me with no money and three kids and now all I know is what state he is in. No other info on his exact location but I need to file for divorce, can it be done for free and can it be done eventhough I dont know where he is? Some one please help!!

2007-03-19 10:46:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like think about it everytime u dial a wrong number the person always answers it, isnt it weird>????

2007-03-19 10:45:49 · 16 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 and my boyfriend and i have been dting for three years and he moved in about a year ago. We both go to the same school ,so we spend a lot of time together and he had a BIG problem with weed and he started to get clean up and he started to hang out with his old friends again and he started smoking again. so we started to fight a lot and stuff. About 3 days ago he moved out he said that he needed to get his life together and straighten up so he pack his stuff and went on his way....now i just found out that he went to his friends house and smoke the entire wekend.
So what would any one have to say about that.

2007-03-19 10:45:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my wife was thinking about swinging and we was on a web site and you could tell it was turning the both of use on . we had the best sex ever that night but every time she get mad at me she all the time say that she is not going to do it

2007-03-19 10:44:43 · 3 answers · asked by paul 1 in Singles & Dating

Sara has been dating Don for almost eight moonths. Latley Don has begun "blowing up" unexpectedly over little things. Last weekend, when Sara arrived ten minutes late for thier date, Don began screaming so loudly that people on the street stopped and stared. Later, Don called to apologize, promising it would never happen again. Don has just invited Sara to a party this coming Saturday. Sara wants to go, but she's afraid that the whole scene might happen all over again. What should she do?

2007-03-19 10:44:26 · 9 answers · asked by coolcat 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP, there is no other need to add anything except the sentence above. Unabelievable!!!i'm 47 and I'm in total shock!!!! about her personality and how she thinks she can manipulate others to suit her wants. any suggestions as to how I can politely tell her to F---- O-- without damaging my marriage.

2007-03-19 10:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by kat 3 in Friends

my husband and i have great sex. he lives in california i live in texas... i only see him so often. its strange because i think i forced myself to Love him. my father never accepted him since i was 16 when we met. he practically raised me since i was kicked out of my fathers house to be with him. im stuck beetween a rock and a hard place because i know i love him but im not IN love with him. he is everything to me and he takes care of me but at times i think did i force my self to love this man because he took care of me? it may sound all good but in all actuallity in our Boyfriend girlfriend relationship he cheated on me multiple times. as of now he talks to me with profanity and tells me that my ideas are stupid which i can NOT stand. i tell him all the time but he dont change. thats why i feel compelled to want to try something new. i dont know maybe its just all in my head.... i just need more respect because i know i deserve it!

2007-03-19 10:44:06 · 7 answers · asked by xoxohuney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i found out that he lves with his girlfriend. he beggs me not 2 leave him because he is crazy about me and i love him alot

2007-03-19 10:42:38 · 82 answers · asked by Hot Chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

ok diz iz guyanesegyal's boyfriend she iz feeling really depressed i need someway to cheer her up. anything at all to cheer her up please i don't like to see her depressed.well thanks for your help.

2007-03-19 10:42:14 · 13 answers · asked by Guyanesegyal 2 in Friends

where are all the ladies that own toe rings and loves to show them off? how many rings do u wear and how do u like to wear them?

2007-03-19 10:41:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, she left me sometime ago, and i think i got the point of she is not coming back!!! but now i feel like i know what to do to better bu ti wont at times i get lazy, and dont want to work on anythning. i work 2 jobs and try to go to school and oparty. so i have allot and i want to moive on but when i think about it i cant, and something tells me not to.. but what do i do i need help please. its like i am playing arround with my own mind!!!
any help? ladies....? anyone?

2007-03-19 10:41:47 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been so good. not done a thing about it.I don't want to leave my hubby.or start a side thing but one night. I never step out side my marriage.

2007-03-19 10:41:46 · 21 answers · asked by 110 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you forgive your b/f of 3 years if he kissed another girl?

the thing is (this is no excuse) but we were broken up but trying to work on things. I hung out with him that day and we argued because we were getting all of our anger out and by the end of the night we decided to work on things, well he took me home but i had a feeling he didnt go home, i found him in his truck kissing another girl, he was drunk (again no excuse) he said he was for a min and he is sooooo sorry and he knows now how much he loves me....i can see the pain in his eyes for what he did...would you forgive your love if it was just a kiss and you know he is sorry?

2007-03-19 10:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend ansd theres a boi dat likes both of us and now she mad because she told me call him 4 her and tlk 2 him so we flirtin and tlkin but noe shes jealous. Wat should i do 2 get her 2 start tlkin 2 me.

2007-03-19 10:41:42 · 2 answers · asked by J@N1C3E. 1 in Friends

My bff and I are in the same classes. One of our teachers assigned a group project. The teacher picked who was going to be in each group, and he put me and my friend together. There are three other people in our group, one of whom was elected Group Leader by the teacher. But my friend is always bossing everyone around and acting like she's in charge; she also seems to think she's the only one who contributes- she claims to have written our entire report without any help! How do I tell her nicely to stop being so bossy?

2007-03-19 10:41:40 · 1 answers · asked by Dr Fernando 4 in Friends

He picked it out, had it sized and paid for it. His ex had nothing to do with it and it wasn't a "set". We are getting married in September and he hasn't been able to find one that he likes. It won't match my ring but that doesn't really matter to me. I like white gold and he likes yellow gold. His "old" ring has white and yellow gold with three diamonds. It really is a nice ring but I'm not really sure how I will feel about him wearing it for "our" marriage. We live in a small town and run into his ex sometimes and I'm not sure how I would feel if she noticed that he was wearing the same ring. What are your opinions?

2007-03-19 10:41:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings