no, this isnt just some little crush, im really religious, so i know that dating is for marraige. there is a guy at church. he is absolutely.. wonderful, lol. im 14, he's 17, thats a lot now, but im talking in the future. hes so cute, hes a good Christian, he is so sweet, hes awesome with little kids, they love him, he always laughs at my jokes, he wants to be a physicians assistant, i mean, what more could a girl want? except i dont think he would be interested in me. we talk and stuff, but i know i can get annoying sometimes, i dont mean to, its just my personality... idk if i should try for him in the future. what do you think?
2007-03-19 10:47:29 · 24 answers · asked by lovely 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your values are a breath of fresh air! I can't tell you how refreshing it is to read a post from someone with values and self-respect! If you continue to hold onto that, your future is wide open. Who knows what the future holds? Only time will tell. You are both at ages where the potential of making alternate choices is a possibility, and you can not control the choices he might make. But if he stays true to his convictions, then in a few years, you could ask him to come over for family dinner and see what develops. Why don't you think he would be interested in you? Good men usually want good women. We are getting harder to find, and that could make you more attractive to him.
2007-03-19 10:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...you're 14. Dating for marriage is fine, but don't put so much stress on marriage! Also be sure to date for fun. You're not going to be able to know if ANY one is right for marriage if you don't realize there are other men you could date as well.
Also: he's 17. He's going to be going to college soon. Honestly, I'm sure he's great but what is going to see in you? You're 14.
The best thing I think you should is to lay off the dating for marriage. Joshua Jackson has ruined too many lives. That's all I have to say.
Dating 2 men instead of just 1 isn't going to make you less religious. It's going to show your maturity, actually.
2007-03-19 17:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u feel that way
i guess so
but she should get someone even better
and tells u that they luv ur personality
cuz when u get married
u cant act like someone else and not ur self
so i don;t think that u should go 4 him
cuz there will always be a better guy out there that likes u the way u r
and plus maybe this guy could ba a gerk at home
and act like someone he is not
tip: looks can be deceiving!!!
:((
just decide
on ur own
i would just recommend for u guys to be friends
by the way
did he say u wuz annoying?
2007-03-19 17:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by salad sauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 17 and 14 is still young. he might be a loser druggie by the time he is of age to get married. and i could say the same of you. not to sound bad. people change a lot from 14 to 25 and you might be looking at a totally different person in a few years....good luck though. sounds good for now!
2007-03-19 17:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by melissapinkfloyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be interested in you right now because you are young. That side of you that you call annoying is going to change a little bit every day as you get older. Plus...what you call annoying may actually be what your future husband considers endearing. For now...just keep him in mind as the kind of guy you would like to date sometime. Maybe it will be him, and maybe it will be a guy like him. He sounds like a good model to go by. :)
2007-03-19 17:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how it is i am dating an older man he sooooooooo wonderful just like the guy u like iis i think he would like u if u say u are annoying he won't care if he really likes u it seems u 2 have excellent chemistry ask him if he likes you at a good time. if u feel that u are ready to date an older man then go for it girl don't let anyone change YOUR feelings i have been wit my man for 8 wonderful months and i wouldn't trade it for the world.
2007-03-19 17:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by missy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, in the future you could try for him. Just remember that you probably meet more people and have different taste in the future. I would get to know lots of different people before settling for just one.
2007-03-19 17:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Krystina M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well your already annoying me but you should just let it happen i thouhg tyou had faith in your plan that god has for you if this is the case he will bring the person your ment to be with when your ready to be with the guy god wants for you
or everything could just be religious hooey and you should experiance young love even if it is a negitive thing
2007-03-19 17:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14. You shouldn't even be thinking about marriage at this point. Unless you are in one of those weird cults.
And just remember, if you think someone is too good it only means you think lowly of yourself. You need to fix that first.
2007-03-19 17:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're really young for a seventeen year old. and of course he'll seem like a steadfast christian in church, but he could be horrible everywhere else. And he could be really nice in front of everyone cause he's being watched by god.
2007-03-19 17:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋