Ive been so good. not done a thing about it.I don't want to leave my hubby.or start a side thing but one night. I never step out side my marriage.
2007-03-19 10:41:46 · 21 answers · asked by 110 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't be a fool ! you could pay for that one night for the rest of your life! and how would you like it if your husband steped out with 1 of your friends,if even for a night? adultry is never the answer. you must not love your husband very much to even think this way!!!!!
2007-03-19 10:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare cheat! You made a promise to your husband and you should have enough respect to honor that! I cannot tolerate cheating and just the fact that you are having these thoughts is making me sick. How about you turn those lustful thoughts toward your husband, you know, the man who they should be aimed at?? Sleeping with his friend will only cause problems on top of the problems already obviously present...if you are unhappy in your marriage then get a divorce otherwise keep your clothes on!
2007-03-19 10:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are,or how smart you are, But I do know to even think about cheating is a sin.
Why in the world would you want to cheat on your husband. Are you haveing problems in your marriage, do you have a good husband, do you have children, You really need to get to the bottom of why you are cheating in your mind on your husband. You are not in this marriage alone, Stop being so self centered. If you are not happy in your marriage,do something about it,spend your thoughts on your home,and your marriage Vows.
2007-03-19 11:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by doverslight61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a reality check. First of all I can understand you finding someone cute but you are probably at least 18 so you ought to be able control yourself. Lusting for another man is not only nasty its a sin. Now I'm not trying to sound judge mental but girl you need to be praying about the feelings you get for that other man. You are in a committed relationship. Although feelings change everyday your commitment doesn't. Don't lose your husband over your feelings. Like I said before pray for more control over your feelings. God listens. Romans 10:9 (bible)
2007-03-19 10:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now, look what you have stirred up....About all the answers you have received that I have read are giving you the "once over" so I guess I won't have to do it too. But what the heck, maybe I will. I think that one of the worst things a wife can do is cheat on her husband. I don't much care for a man who cheats on his wife either. And whats worse is that you are actually asking for us to give approval of your lust. Shame on you. I can't believe that you even posted such stuff. You really disgust me.
2007-03-19 11:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's your advice girlfriend STOP!! I'm 40 and lived alot longer than you according to the way you are presenting your self. i have been there done that in my 20s,you will devastate everyone around you. if u have kids get some help FAST ! if u do this and u get caught i hope u can deal with the consequences.u will be hated & labled 4 the rest of your life.is this guy worth losing everything in your life?hope u can keep your hands to yourself or u will get everything u deserve.
2007-03-19 11:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by cindy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has that feeling all the time when a good lokking guy comes around but look deep inside and see who you rather be with and then make your decision because i am sure in you heart of hearts you love your husband dearly and would not want to do anything to hurt him.
2007-03-19 10:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by sunny17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to spend less time thinking about the friend. You made a commitment to your husband because you love him, not just because you lusted after him. Don't break up a good thing for a temporary fix.
2007-03-19 10:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by dougandkate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you're asking? If it's okay to cheat on your husband with his friend because he's just too hot to pass up? Or is this an admission that you have absolutely no self control or common sense?
2007-03-19 10:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear girl, you are playing with fire and you will get burned. Stop the flirting with your husband's friend, it is immoral and not right. If I were you I would avoid any contact with him and just get this crazy idea out of your mind. It will destroy your marriage.
2007-03-19 15:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋