well, she left me sometime ago, and i think i got the point of she is not coming back!!! but now i feel like i know what to do to better bu ti wont at times i get lazy, and dont want to work on anythning. i work 2 jobs and try to go to school and oparty. so i have allot and i want to moive on but when i think about it i cant, and something tells me not to.. but what do i do i need help please. its like i am playing arround with my own mind!!!
any help? ladies....? anyone?
2007-03-19 10:41:47 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need another lady to take ur mind off her.
2007-03-26 23:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Part of being human. I agree that time is a great healer. Dont go into rebound mode though. If you are not over her then finding another woman will not be the answer. You need to focus on stuff that you enjoy.
I have a similar problem. I split with someone a while ago, he broke my heart. I met someone else but couldnt get him out of my mind.
Anyway, the ex has got back in touch and wants to get back with me but the other man wants to stay with me too.
I feel so stuck so have told both of them the truth!!!
They still both want me. I dont know what to do.
Sorry, this not helping you, except to say that I had just gotten over the ex (so it is possible), but now I dont know how i feel.
Hang in there!
2007-03-27 10:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Silverclarity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience, I can tell you that time heals all wounds. Right now you feel horrible, and maybe even like there isn't a reason to go on; but trust me, with time (provided you don't see her on a daily basis) her memory will fade and things will improve even more if you find a girl that is like or better than her. Just keep doing what your doing, and keep busy, the less idle time you have, the less time your mind will be able to wander.
2007-03-19 10:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by randelshudson 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am dealing with the EXACT same problem.Here are some tips.
1. Start exercise or do new activities with buds to get over her.
2.Next time you see her don't be so eager to talk to her,or she will think that you want to get back together.
3.Don't forget to bathe.
4.Soon she will know what she has lost.
5.MOVE ON TO THE NEXT!
2007-03-27 09:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by jada o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have to want to move on. When I went through this I had to focus on the hurt full stuff she did... I had to make myself think of other things when she would pop into my thoughts. I had to force myself to stay away from her. I wanted to still be her friend, but you cant do that until you no longer want her. It is a long hard journey you are on so don't let your guard slip. Fill your life with things that don't remind you of her.
2007-03-27 10:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dawwg_E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another Tear drop in the bucket..........FUCKIT! Life goes on sweety,its hard hell ya it is be we get stronger day by day and it eventually gets easier, you'll see BUT don't go back or it'll just get worse NOT better!!
2007-03-26 18:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~FliZo~ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋