Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I'm getting married in two months, but sometimes, I htink i'm making a HUGE mistake. He's wonderful, and sweet and 'perfect', but I just feel like my ex turned me on more...is that ok? do people who get married wonder about their exes sometimes, or is that a sign that you don't love him as much as you should? let me know

2007-03-19 14:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by ingrid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend mikcy is haveing a guy problem with my friend edward.she realy likes him and thay'ev gone out a tuns of times butt thay just cant stay to gether waht advice should i give her?

2007-03-19 14:38:26 · 4 answers · asked by MEGAN (HOTTIE) 1 in Friends

2007-03-19 14:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by BRIA A.K.A BLACKBUTTERFLY 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 14:37:48 · 20 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

I WANT US TO GO TO THE NEXT LEVEL BUT I DON'T WANT TO GO TO FAST OR TO SLOW

2007-03-19 14:37:22 · 5 answers · asked by BRIA A.K.A BLACKBUTTERFLY 2 in Singles & Dating

When I go to the grocery store and see a person buying 200+ in grocerys in food stamps and driving 07 vehicles and not working. me and my husband works and still cant afford this all the time. I feel like the welfare is for people with diabilities and for the elderly. For adults only.

2007-03-19 14:37:21 · 3 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family

Friends please tell me online chatting sites. I mean not messangers like yahoo or msn messanger....
Chatting sites where i can simply login and can chat easily...no need of any messanger ofr difficult settings.
Like one site i know is ALAMAK.COM where we can chat simply....Please friends share this information with.

2007-03-19 14:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by handsom_from_pune 2 in Friends

2007-03-19 14:35:46 · 6 answers · asked by lalia73 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sold him something and he paid me about half of it and he said he was gonna pay me next month.... well that was a few months back. I tell him everyweek to bring my money but he never does. I'm not a mean person so I dont wanna start problems. How can I get my money back?

2007-03-19 14:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Friends

lethargic, narcissistic, and trifling idiots? Are there any legimitaly decent guys left in this world or have they all died off?

2007-03-19 14:34:26 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 14:34:01 · 28 answers · asked by Furyfox 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I was talking with on the bus and a little at school told me she was coming over. We made out, she wanted my teddy bear which I told her was for my little sister. Then I found out she gave me an std. Sinse then I've avoided her. no big deal.

2007-03-19 14:33:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are really rude to me... and my boyfriend doesn't say anything... what the hell?

One of them kept repeating my name and kept on getting it wrong... and then she started singing a song about how our relationship is boring and how we haven't French kissed or anything... and how would they know that unless he told them that? Why would he tell them personal info like that? Gosh, I was only pissed off because he didn't say anything about it while they were being bitchy to me. WTF

And we just got back together yesterday... I refuse to French him because I do not believe in PDA and I haven't been alone with him yet... PDA (frenching) is just trashy...

2007-03-19 14:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by Sloane 1 in Singles & Dating

cuase i emailed my freind on sunday and didnt get a reply back yet

2007-03-19 14:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 14:31:31 · 12 answers · asked by L.O.V.E. 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok..I am in a really stuck position right now. I have a boyfriend but today one of my old crushes told me he likes me and he always had and bla bla bla. My problem? I love my boyfriend a lot, we have problems here and there ...and I really used to like this crush a lot a lot! My bf and I are kind of in an itsy bitsy fight because he says that he "cant be himself when hes with me but he has to be someone hes not." And then on the other hand i really liked this crush and its really hard for me to get over him and now he likes me!!!! what should i do! plz i need advice before i go insane lol!
Thanks!!

2007-03-19 14:31:20 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs.Blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

I just asked this wonderful girl out (first girlfriend :D) and I was wondering does anyone have anygood ideas for a random gift to give just because?

2007-03-19 14:31:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been like this for 9 months everyone thinks that we are together but we're not ......it's nothing official we always say ok we won't talk to each other anymore and don't talk for weeks and then one of us will text message or call and start to see each other again. how can i get out of this situation i feel like this guy has a hold on me or I have a hold on him because we keep coming back in each other's life's. no rude comments please.

2007-03-19 14:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with someone who says that I was too emotionally distant. We each own homes about 15 minutes apart and she has 3 kids. I told her when we started dating that I like to have some 'me' time. So I'd split my time during the week, alternating spending a night at my house, the following night at hers. We would spend the entire weekend together, and we worked together for eight hours a day. She broke it off because she said I didn't spend enough time with her. I think she's probably lying at worst and codependent at best. Is it unreasonable to want a little me time? Does her position make sense to you?

2007-03-19 14:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3 in Singles & Dating

So i was thinking about relationships last night and honestly relationships are made to reproduce to keep the world populated because thats why God made man & a woman right? So what is a real relationship supposed to be like, a guy and girl that get along and get married and blah blah or is it really all about sex?

2007-03-19 14:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by AiR 2 Breathe™ 1 in Family

2007-03-19 14:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm going through a low in my life, and i can't help but pull away from my fiancee'. I moved to nyc to be with him, and left a wonderful life/job behind to teach in a crappy school. He does not support me leaving (thinks that would be immature and selfish) before the contract is over, and recently stated that he thinks since i've been such a sourpuss, I should spend more time with him, and the wedding plans, and work. Meanwhile, a whole side of me, the free-spirited, singing side, is dying. My family and him think I should just give up my silly dreams of singing and settle down with a good man. Meanwhile, I resent him for taking me out of the life I loved. Tonight, I came home, pissed off as usual, not wanting to talk to anyone, and he keeps asking me what happened...i just want him to go away!!! help!! is this normal?? I'm doubting weather we should get married.

2007-03-19 14:29:10 · 2 answers · asked by ingrid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

oK... so I'm in middle school like most of u guys know... I have 4 different people telling me that someone likes me... How do I make them tell me?... Please gib me a good answer.. thanx

2007-03-19 14:29:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay, i like this guy, and he likes me back. we aren't official yet though. he's away this week. okay here's the confusing part....i think his brother likes me to!!! they are both gorgeous! and i think i flirted last night w/ him when we all hung out. i don't want to get baack to the guy that is away. i mean i like him, but i flirt w/ his brother when he's not there.! help! what can i do? i'll see him like 3 more times before his brother gets back..how can i keep from flirting? it's so easy to flirt w/ either one of them!!! but i miss him SO much! (my soon to be bf)
please help!!!

2007-03-19 14:28:58 · 5 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well.. there is a girl i like and everything we are kinda on and off friends ever since i told her i liked her, but on friday her and her friends were bein "mean" to me, it didnt bother me to much, but she called friday night (first time she has ever called) and said she was sorry and everything and we talked for a good 20 mins.. then she imed me on aim on saturday, and she ussually never ims me first and she was really cool and nice. But today at school, she wasnt realy interested in talking to me, and i dont really understand why, was she just being really nice because she felt bad?

2007-03-19 14:28:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this friend who is in eleventh grade. We are both rather quiet and shy. We IM eachother all of the time, but when we're at school it's like we're strangers. I never know what to say but, hi how are you? which is really lame. He's shy, but I want to talk to him... I am miserable at starting conversations though. Any easy solutions?

2007-03-19 14:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Singles & Dating

How could you tell if your girlfriend has been cheating on you? The 1st sign! just wondering how some know.....

2007-03-19 14:27:23 · 9 answers · asked by Punk_Rockin' Chick 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anything positive come from taking a "break"? Do people actually get back together after the break. Have any of you guys and girls had breaks, and have any of you reconnected after them? Thanks.

2007-03-19 14:27:09 · 12 answers · asked by deus82 3 in Singles & Dating

I am supposed to move in with my girlfriend on 2 weeks. I am having cold feet and do not want to do it anymore but we have already found a place and started packing. It would crush her if I just came right out and said it so I was hoping one of you creative types had any inventive solutions to my predicament.
Thanks in advance!

2007-03-19 14:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, me and my girlfriend have been together bout 2 yrs now, and the woman can't ever consider my feelings on anything. She is faithful but thats but it. She just does whatever never thinkin bout how i feel bout it or how I'll react, and when i do get upset she honestly doesnt know what I'm upset bout no mattter how many times i explain it which then just makes me even more upset.

I tell here how all this makes me feel and no result. She is loyal and nice and when things are good there good! I honestly dont think she means to do what she does or even realize just how she is, but still im getting down to my last nerve left to put up with this behavior. Please all advise is welcomed!

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2007-03-19 14:24:38 · 3 answers · asked by Big Daddy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships