ok well.. there is a girl i like and everything we are kinda on and off friends ever since i told her i liked her, but on friday her and her friends were bein "mean" to me, it didnt bother me to much, but she called friday night (first time she has ever called) and said she was sorry and everything and we talked for a good 20 mins.. then she imed me on aim on saturday, and she ussually never ims me first and she was really cool and nice. But today at school, she wasnt realy interested in talking to me, and i dont really understand why, was she just being really nice because she felt bad?
2007-03-19 14:28:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well.. right after i wrote this she signed on aim and imed me right away and she being pretty nice and cool .. idk girls are so confusing
2007-03-19 14:37:57 · update #1
ok wow.. when she signed off.. she ussually says gtg cya and signs off right away.. but this time it was a gtg .... cya tomrorow then an xoxo ... ok well i guess everything might be better??? idk im so confused with all this..
2007-03-19 14:53:00 · update #2
This is a easy one. she dosent want her friends to know . Talk to her after school and in a few days let her know you know whats going on. give her a chance to deal with it. and she might do things a little differant to make you feel better . if not and you want to be treated like a secret lover ohh well i wouldn't theres someone out there just take your time you will know when its right.i heard this saying theres not a handfull of women out there theres a landfull of women out there.let the search begin.
2007-03-19 14:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by xtreemdeepinu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe she apreciates the fact that u like her and all but she is embarrased to be with u or something at school. U kno how some ppl are? Like when they are nice one day and when they are around friends they think they are all cool and ignore u. Mayb when she is in school she feels like she needs to be cool. Im not saying ure not cool u are probably really cool but maybe she just feels that way!
hope i helped sorry if i ever offended u
2007-03-19 21:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's either that or she's starting to like you. If that's the case then she probly feels more comfortable talking to you on the phone and computer than in person and maybe a little shy because she's not real sure how to act around you.
2007-03-19 21:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. Anyone who is ever mean to you isn't worth pursuing. She called you because she felt bad but she isn't interested in you on a romantic level. Find someone is is always nice.
2007-03-19 21:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girls are like that...they have very distinct feelings and they shift alot. One day their willing to have sex and the next day they cant even say anything to you.(NO OFFENSE GIRLS). I bet in a couple of days everything will just clear up...you have to be patient.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-19 21:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by GO BENGALS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she felt guilty
you should probably ask her whats going on if she seems really distant for a while
something like, 'anything bugging you lately?' or something - maybe shes just confused about how she feels for you
good luck!
2007-03-19 21:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay I'm going through the same thing the girl is i think she might be embarrassed to like you. well in my situaton i dont like him but it sounds like shes beeing mean to you because her friends are around but in the inside shes really sweet. keep on trying buddy hang in their
2007-03-19 21:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Grace W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋