Have you noticed the mass majority of the male population is nothing but.......?

Question

lethargic, narcissistic, and trifling idiots? Are there any legimitaly decent guys left in this world or have they all died off?

Answer 1

Yes, there are decent guys in the world, but my question to you is, where are you looking where you keep running into guys who are either lethargic, narcissistic or an idiot? Not every guy is like you describe. In my humble opinion, you're either not looking in the right places or you have a serious problem with men in general.

Answer 2

No, the 'mass majority of the male population' is not 'lethargic, narcissistic and trifling idiots' ... but most of the 'legitimately decent guys' left in the world are 'married' or in 'committed relationships' ... I know, because I'm married to a truly 'good, decent, loyal' man ... and all of his 'good, decent, and loyal male acquaintances and friends are also married or 'committed' ...

Answer 3

I have a wonderful man in my life, been together for a little over 4 years. Not gonna let him go but I hope you find one similar to mine in the large crowd of lethargic, narcissistic, trifling idiots. Good luck!

Answer 4

I have a friend who's a counselor and once asked him, "Did you ever refuse to counsel anyone?" He said he had. It was a man who had been divorced at least twice, and he wanted to know how he could find a woman who could act like a woman.

This goes both ways, you know. Some of us get tired of meeting women who had no time for serious relationships until they realized time was running out. It's no compliment to realize that you're getting sized up for the role of "sperm donor with paycheck." And while I can easily deal with not getting a virgin, or even getting a woman with a child, I have to draw the line at a woman who only took a stand and left a bad marriage but only decided it was a bad marriage after she'd had four children with him.

And to make it worse, there are many women who consider themselves the Queens of emotion. All of you want to know how men feel, as long as they are feelings that you approve of. Your own feelings are, of course, always justifiable and acceptable. That isn't how it works.

It's a shame because although I have rough edges, most people think I'm a nice guy. I got tired of fighting that war, though.

Answer 5

It sounds like you have gotten your hearth broken to many times, but yes there are decent guys out there. I have a wonder full man in my life, he is a great husband and a wonder full father. When you start a relationship, listen to your instinct, you know that feeling, take it slow don't give to much, wait, look at all the signs, you'll find that person that deserves your trust and love. And when you fall down just remember that your perfect match is out there waiting for you to find him.

Answer 6

I have noticed that, yes. :-)

Our gender sucks. Basically we're pressured from birth to fit society's image of a "man", which is the whole player thing, not showing emotion, etc etc.

And some of us are just dumb.

I do know a good amount of nice guys though in my group of friends. And trust me, they complain just as much about finding a nice girl (I used to complain too, but then I found a nice girl, which I'm quite happy about).

Anyway, the point is, look hard, and you'll find nice guys.

Good luck!
-AOS

Answer 7

The brainwashing of society has caused this effect. Chivary and romanticism are dying off. Most blokes think they can just grope a woman without working for it nowadays. Back in the day we had to give roses, write poems, and open doors for the ladies in order to score.

Answer 8

look at yourself before throwing accusations like that around. what do you like in a guy? you want someone that looks like a model/actor, sharp dressing, well to do on money and job, nice car, materialistic things like that? if so, then you make the pool of guys to choose from a whole lot smaller, and guys like that know they can have anyone they want, cause the majority of ladies like those very same qualities so they can be lazy, idiots. look at a normal guy on the other hand, one that, although may not have all the things you are looking for will make you happier in the end by treating you like the real lady that you are, and will show his appreciation for you, rather than take advantage of you. i like to consider myself, one heck of a guy, but with all the years of enjoying beer, i have develped a bit of a beer belly(not huge but noticeable), i dont have a high paying job, but its a steady job that i have been with for 4 years. My truck, yeah, its a '98, nothing flashy, but gets me around. but the number one thing, is that if i have something good in my life i take care of her, and appreciate her, to the point that she never has to question my feelings for her. there are a lot of guys like me out there, with their fair share of imperfections(then again everyone male or female have those), that if a lady would be willing to just overlook or accept those imperfections maybe, just maybe they will get to know the guys for what he really is. a good guy. good luck on the search though...

Answer 9

No, there's no more, people like me got 'em all!
Seriously, if I can find one, you probably can too. Change the circle you hang with, your "majority" is obviously based only on the guys you know.
I could list a dozen really decent guys right off the bat easy.

Answer 10

No, funny I haven't noticed that, but that could have a lot to do with how I treat them. There are scores of decent guys out there maybe your looking in the wrong places or you need to change the way you treat the ones you hook up with.