HOW do u tell him i think it's time to start in the bedroom and not in the resr of the house???

Question

I WANT US TO GO TO THE NEXT LEVEL BUT I DON'T WANT TO GO TO FAST OR TO SLOW

Answer 1

just tell hem

Answer 2

Ok, your question was a little weird.

If you are talking about asking your boyfriend to have sex with you, then let e ask you some things:

How old are you?

Old enough to have sex?

Are you ready to have sex?

How old is he?

Is he ready to have sex?

Etc, etc..

You know where I’m going right?

Well, I’m not gonna say “do not have sex if you are under 18” blah blah blah. I think those answers are very stupid and retarded. Whoever tell you that, don’t pay attention, they don’t have a clue about real life.

The main thing here is for you to know if you are ready for sex, and if you understand the consequences to have sex. I am assuming of course this is your first time.

In reality, nobody can stop you from having sex even if you are under 18. The idea here is to help you understand what comes with sex and how to deal with it.

If your boyfriend is also young, I can tell you for sure that chances are about 99.9% that he will jump over you the first time and will try c u m in no time and you will stay there asking to yourself “Now what? Was this it?”

You guys should talk, and if both of you are “virgins”, meaning you both haven’t had sex before, then you two can actually research about together, and take things slow as he will be as nervous as you. In that case you might be able to control him and together you could do very good things for each other.

Now, if he is an “expert”, then be careful as he will probably try to do it his way, and usually “his” way is not “her” way and could end up in disaster (for you).

Still, you gotta talk to him, and be honest and let him know what you want, how, when, and set limits and a safe call, that is, for you to be able to call it off at any time if you feel uncomfortable or afraid and have second thoughts and he must comply.

Now, make sure whatever is the case, that you understand all the consequences and the responsibility to have sex. You need to understand what are STD, how you get them, how to avoid them, etc. Same with pregnancy. You must consider what happens if you get pregnant. No matter how safe you are, still, the only way to stay 100% safe, is not to have sex. So you must consider the case, so it doesn’t get you by surprise if it happens.

Always use protection, no matter what, no matter if you are on the pill, and no matter if he is also a “virgin”. You only have unprotected se when you have settle down and can trust each other as much as you trust your own mother and father.

So if you have considered everything, know the risks, and you are ready for it, then go ahead, talk to your boyfriend, and take things slowly each step. Unless your boyfriend is an asshole, he should try to make things good for you, and help out to make you as comfortable as possible, and always respect you and your decisions (good or bad) towards sex and the relation in general.

Now don’t forget, is not all about you, is also about him, and more if he hasn’t been for real with anybody else. Be aware of his feelings, his desires, his fears, and his limits. Because he is a guy doesn’t make him a sex freak, so he should have some limits too.

Good luck, be responsible, and have fun!

Answer 3

I would think he would be very happy with that, Just tell him.
It won't be too fast if you have been doing it in the back of the house.

Answer 4

guide him with your hand, let him touch you. slowly at first, and over a few day period.tease him a litte. let him think hes getting some, then slow it down. believe me, a few days later and he will throw himself at YOU. =]

Answer 5

for most guys there's no such thing as going to fast.