They are really rude to me... and my boyfriend doesn't say anything... what the hell?
One of them kept repeating my name and kept on getting it wrong... and then she started singing a song about how our relationship is boring and how we haven't French kissed or anything... and how would they know that unless he told them that? Why would he tell them personal info like that? Gosh, I was only pissed off because he didn't say anything about it while they were being bitchy to me. WTF
And we just got back together yesterday... I refuse to French him because I do not believe in PDA and I haven't been alone with him yet... PDA (frenching) is just trashy...
2007-03-19 14:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by Sloane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, is your question why didn't he say anything to these jealous female friends?
Perhaps because you are trying to control everything. Perhaps he is frustrated because you allow certain activities and deny others. Perhaps the reasons for you breaking up and getting back together are far more complicated than you know. Perhaps these other females friends have told him that they would allow him to French kiss them.
As long as you get pissed when things do not go your way, you suffer from a princess syndrome. Perhaps you never allow him to be your knight in shining armor.
You really need to learn how to communicate with him. It might also be worth while for you to examine his behavior and how much of it you really believe is trashy (low class). Believe what you wish to believe. but problems in relationships are always the fault of both people involved.
2007-03-20 03:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Your a good person, don't, I repeat, don't do this to yourself. Trust me those ladies are there for back-up. I can't explain it any better then that... it doesn't mean he sleeps with them... o no, it does mean that they are his emotional protectors at the very least. Not to say he is an emotional guy just that if he has an issue with you, its going thru them first. This is only going to hurt you. Even worse if he has history with them, then there going to be out to attack you just because insecure people like to play that game. Ether way don't he is already showing that he gives them just as much power in his life as you, if not more. Love means action, and what actions is he really take for his love for you? One he is failing at in spades and why I tell you to leave this be is: COMPASSION.
2007-03-20 03:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First talk to your b/f and ask him to keep your "private" life private.
As far as those girls are concerned - you're right, they're jealous. They probably liked him and he's yours. If they can scare you off or get you to break up with him, then they're back in the running. Ignore them! If you let it bother you, they'll end up winning the little "game" they've been playing.
2007-03-20 03:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋