Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

2007-03-18 16:17:20 · 19 answers · asked by 2 REAL 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi All,
My Sister was tragically killed 3 months ago. She was engaged to be married this year. After she died we all consoled her fiance. Now I have found out that he wants to announce his engagement to this new girl in 3 months. I am still hurting tremendously from losing my sister. I know my sister is in Heaven and doesn't care about what is going on down here on earth. But for some reason I feel a loyalty to her and like he (her fiance) is betraying her and our family. She loved him so much. What are your thoughts? Thanks for listening.

2007-03-18 16:17:11 · 28 answers · asked by me 1 in Family

2007-03-18 16:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but you can't go back there. i just graduated college in december and i miss it so much. maybe bc its the first place away from home i've lived. how do i get over this feeling?

2007-03-18 16:15:57 · 6 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together since january 23, 2007 and we are not intimate i think hes ready to be intimate but just wants to wait for me and im ready but i dont know how to tell him, we began talking in the summer of 06 then we stopped and now we talk again. i also want to know if im rushing our relationship because i really care about him and love him but i just dont want to lose him

2007-03-18 16:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by Lue Lue 2 in Singles & Dating

I have bought plane tickets to visit this guy friend of mine overseas. I should be staying over for a few days. I admit I have feelings for him. I am not sure how he feels. I know guys are not supposed to be trusted when it comes to this, but I do not think he will attempt anything. I am fine with going but received mixed reactions from my family. Should I or should I not go? Also, I have friends there and they might talk behind us. He could be treating me as just friends because he already has a gf. Btw, he was the one who's asked me to go over so many times. I am prepared to refund my tickets... I even thought of visiting a tarot reader to find out. Please let me know what would you have done. Consider also the fact that the guy is someone you really like. Thanks.

2007-03-18 16:14:45 · 11 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married on July 7, 2007, and was wondering how many other people are. I keep hearing how popular that day. Please only real honest responses is not don't even bother.

2007-03-18 16:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by Destiny D 2 in Weddings

I love my boyfriend a lot, but my mom thinks I need higher standards and it's not fair!!! : [ I don't want to seem like a spoiled brat because I'm complaining it's not fair but it isn't. My boyfriend is Puerto Rican and I'm caucassion/ white whatever you want to call it, but since I'm going to college and he might not she worries for me. Theres one thing you don't know I'm sixteen and he's eighteen so we're still young doesn't that make a difference? I hate it that my mom said I need higher standards because I'm so successful and I don't need someone to get in the way of that because I take voice lessons and I want to pursue a career becoming an Opera singer. My mom brought this conversation up twice about needing to have higher standards, but the thing I don't get is she said he's cute, polite and considerate but I still need higher standards can you help me on this topic?

2007-03-18 16:13:04 · 14 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating

just the feelings of getting older and how your future is going to look.. us single women have only ourselves to take care of us. no husbands pensions, etc. it's scary to me. and am wondering how all of you deal with it.

2007-03-18 16:12:25 · 3 answers · asked by dog whisperer 3 in Singles & Dating

once before, i was torn between two girls and it really sucked. so now i like a girl who likes me and another guy. cuz i'm leaving and i don't really know her too well, i told her that although i wanted a chance with her, i was willing to just be her friend. but that just seemed to make her sad. so i asked my other friend for advice of what to do. he said the best thing to do was to annoy her into not liking me anymore, that way she feels good about herself but stops liking me. is this the way to go about this?

2007-03-18 16:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been talking to this person from the UK on the net for some time now. We both have web cams and have seen each other, w/ out doing anything inappropriate of course, we just talked as if we were in a normal conversation. We were first friends, but after a week of talking we really started to fall for one another. So, my question is, is this possible?

2007-03-18 16:11:31 · 8 answers · asked by kase_brot5 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband came to see my son tonite(we hadn't seen him in a week)My son & I are moving 4 hrs. away in less than a week & he only spent 3 hrs. w/him tonite. We ate at my son's favorite place, but him & I barely talked. He acts like I'm the one who did wrong. Maybe he didn't like being accused of cheating & now he wants to act like he doesn't like me whenever he was trying to act all sweet up until I accused him 10 days ago. How could he be mad at me whenever I had reason to accuse. Isn't buying Victoria's Secret lingerie (not my size-he said it was for me but returned them..yet i have the receipt & tags) enough to accuse & my son told me they went out to eat w/a"girl from daddy's work." I tried to be nice tonite & asked how he's been & he said "alright." & didn't ask me the same. I asked where he's been staying & he said "different places". I told him he could stay w/us if he wants & I won't pick a fight. I said that for my son..but he chose not to. What is WRONG w/him?

2007-03-18 16:11:23 · 9 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

see, i don't want to see her anymore but she kept showing up even in the most special place when im with my friends.. help! i've been trying to avoid her.. but she doesn't have any clue..

2007-03-18 16:10:53 · 19 answers · asked by vodka 2 in Singles & Dating

Help!!!
I like this guy but he has a girlfriend but his girlfriend is a pain and doesn't deserve him.

2007-03-18 16:09:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am having problems with my boyfriend. Like he doesn't listen at all. Like, when I start talking about things I care about or something to relate with him.. he just blocks me out... seems all he wants a squeeze here and there. He acts like a child. He cries when his parents ask him to clean his room... he gets moody towards his parents, doing launry and stuff like... I fear if I move with him I'll be taking care of him. I dont know if i should break up with him... just b/c I fear i'll never find anyone.
I break up with him.. I lose alot... I don't know what to do?

2007-03-18 16:09:46 · 3 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Singles & Dating

This has nothing to do with girls or being social, im outgoing with all that and good with girls. But how come im afraid to dance, even if its with just a few friends, i just feel like scared or stupid-looking when i dance. Im also shy with other things similar, like when I go to a concert and everbodys moving their hands up and down and shaking and crap, I feel stupid doing too so I just like stand there and enjoy the concert. Im also shy about being video taped, and singing/rapping things like that. How do i fix this?

2007-03-18 16:08:38 · 8 answers · asked by rahdigga3 1 in Singles & Dating

their advertisements? I hear lot of people say that looks don't matter, that it's what's inside that counts. Is that true, or do most of you just say that so as to not appear so superficial?

2007-03-18 16:08:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee plays this stupid roleplaying game on the computer almost 24/7 when he is home. He never wants to do anything with me anymore. He says its more fun than doing anything with me. We used to play games together, watch tv and all kinds of stuff but not for the last 2-3 weeks. He won't listen to me, I think it is ruining our relationship. I don't know what to do. Please help...

2007-03-18 16:07:50 · 20 answers · asked by lucky777fairy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

" Example "...A woman meets a guy...talks for a bit...he asks her out...she accepts as there seems to be mutual interest. One phone conversation and one date later guy asks "Why is a woman as you still single"? Woman replies "I've met some great guys...just not that special ' one ' who I feel blends with my heart". Guy replys..." Well, maybe you've met him already ?".

Is this a 'common' line for guys as this is the third time this phrase has been heard from different guys.

Maybe he is the the " one "...maybe not. Buy why would a guy make such a bold comment without the two having known each other long. . . less than one week? . . . Wondering.
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Any insight ?
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2007-03-18 16:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 16:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by ryanssdfisufd 1 in Singles & Dating

That most of the time, good things come when you least expect them?
I really believe in this but truly is this the case for the majority?
Thank you so much for any help you can provide! <3
It is truly appreciated! :-)

2007-03-18 16:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Friends

2007-03-18 16:05:43 · 2 answers · asked by LadyLista 1 in Singles & Dating

Everything about them...they are truly the most beautiful creatures on Earth. They are God's gift to man. I cannot express it enough of how much I love women.

2007-03-18 16:05:02 · 16 answers · asked by Ck 1 in Singles & Dating

Some of my friends are kinda ugly and they dont have great personalities. Yet, they have a lot of self esteem.

2007-03-18 16:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by buttnut 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I broke up because she said that I needed to be single. I quit my job(without a plan)to be a happier person. She says that I need to be a little more responsible, figure out what I want to do with my life, and be a little more selfish because I always put everybody else before me. Okay, so if I do all of those things and improve myself, am I really doing it for me if I'm doing it because I want to be with her? She hasn't been a ***** about any of this, she isn't seeing anybody else, and she tells me that she wants me to be okay but whatever happens with us will happen. When I was talking to her tonight and I hugged her, she was hesitant to hug me but when we hugged she just pulled me into her and didn't let go for the longest time. What am I supposed to do? Where is my life supposed to go now? I'm so confused and I'm really really trying to move on and straighten things out but I just don't know how? HELP!!!

2007-03-18 16:02:42 · 13 answers · asked by Patrick E 6 in Singles & Dating

I am 39 weeks pregnant and My mother inlaw wants to come over on wensday and stay till the baby comes. She doesnt have a liscense and will only be bringing $100, she also smokes(only outside) and leaves messes everywhere and I think she smells like cat pee but maybe its just hormones that make the smell and make me so irked that she will be rushing to the hospital with us and it wont be personal any more, by the way she only lives an hour away there isnt any real reason for her to come right now. So is it e being a brat or am I being reasonable?

2007-03-18 16:02:38 · 2 answers · asked by cuetee220 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you know. just looking for love, caring, companionship....but not wanting to marry... would that be make a person soo bad? . especially if you're a woman? and how do you do that?? could you just say "hey i wanna have a relationship with you, is that ok?".. how would i guy react to that!?

2007-03-18 16:01:50 · 12 answers · asked by chronically Rejected 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 16:01:28 · 14 answers · asked by Just T.Daley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Will guys cheat again If they did it onec.will they stop or keep on cheating?

2007-03-18 16:01:23 · 7 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a student so I cant spend a bomb but I still want to try and make it special for her. I have already given her the usual purse, sandals and earrings so can anyone suggest anything different? Also I am horrible at drawing so I cant draw her a card or anything. Please help! Thanks.

2007-03-18 16:01:16 · 4 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships