Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

A friend is simply someone we get along with and like being around, and trust. There is NO harm in having much younger friends, or much older. Those who limit themselves to age miss so much of the world. A relationship is one thing, a friendship another. The age differences, with the walks of life these friends have had, may be very helpful to us, in any circumstance. I have many friends both much younger and older, being 18, I have thirteen year old friends to 30+ year old friends, and anywhere in between. My uncle is 50ish, and he is one of my most trusted friends, granted he has relation on his side, but a valuable friend none the less. Why do some consider this age difference bad?

2007-03-18 16:30:19 · 4 answers · asked by Lost Ranger 2 in Friends

She dumped me because i got her best friend pregnanyt like wth

2007-03-18 16:29:10 · 14 answers · asked by Kevin G 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know the feasability of a destination wedding. the costs, what you get ect. would it have to be formal attire or would a nice dress and suit work?

2007-03-18 16:28:30 · 6 answers · asked by true_gentleman_southern_style 1 in Weddings

2007-03-18 16:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by milk_and_oreo_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

he was an asshole and didnt deserve it and im stupid the guy i love forgave me he says but i just cant let it go its been a year and im still crying about it omg what do i do?

2007-03-18 16:28:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we dated for a while and loved eachother alot, but broke up on good terms. im still attracted to him, and hes still attracted to me. we both wanna hookup but the fact that he's single changes things. hes sort of a big shot and all the girls love him. so i'm not sure if i would be just another hookup or someone special. is this dangerous due to the lack of strings attached????

2007-03-18 16:27:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its hard to find a girl because I am of a different culture than everyone here. They don't want to date my culture.

2007-03-18 16:26:35 · 7 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

Im about 15 and im not sure what would be going to far with asking my girl friend for.
Any suggestions?

2007-03-18 16:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by hell 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend jeff had a heart transplant a month or so ago . but it failed now he is on lifesupport and they think he might not make it.he asked me to marry him not to long ago i said yes. i dont know what i would do if i lost him.can you find it in your hearts to pray for him.thank you

2007-03-18 16:25:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey guys i really like this guy, and I'm not sure if he likes me. Here's the story. When i was in fifth grade he came to school and eeeeeeeeveryone had a crush on him. The popular girls were my friends, but I never really liked him. They did. Then my first dance came up and to my surprise he asked me in front of the whole entire class. I was kinda surprised for i had no Idea that he liked me, i mean, the only 'Stimulating' conversation i had with him is When we were fighting over a (ruler was it?) I was so young i drew all over him and he finally said sorry because he spilled crayola all over my shirt. He hugged me but my teacher made him do it i didnt know it meant anything!
SO anyways, I said ok to the dance and we didnt slow dance or anything but we danced a lot in the middle of the stage. My 'friends' were so upset that he didnt ask them, the next day at school they totally ignored me, should i have said no? I mean i didnt want to hurt his feelings.

2007-03-18 16:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! I am 20 years old and my boyfriend is 25. We've been best friends for a year and we have been dating seriously for a little over a month. He is the most amazing person to me, and we spend almost every day together. The only problem? He moved to the US from Mexico and doesn't speak English. I speak Spanish and English so we can communicate. The only thing is my family and friends can't communicate with him and they do not like him with me at all. They throw a fit every time I go out with him, and they like to play 20 questions every time. My friends are always very rude to him and my family doesn't like that he has a child and that he doesn't speak English. I understand that these are huge factors, but I love him with all my heart. I am lost and miserable without him and they act like it's no big deal if I just stopped seeing him. He always treats me really well, respects my decision to wait fpr sex, yet they still despise him. They try to make me feel guilty.

2007-03-18 16:24:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 16:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by dirtydane75 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-18 16:24:17 · 9 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

Everytime i get on the internet it seems that we have no hope.we are only young and seem like everytime we turn on the t.v,listern to the radio,watch a movie or read a book or mag,no matter how hard were gonna try, were gonna end up devorced,unhappy and alone..i know that not EVERYONE is like this but were at a higher risk cause were young...Has anyone known of a couple who have honestly never cheated,lied,had an affair or whated to leave each other...? Is there any hope for young couples there days?

2007-03-18 16:23:33 · 14 answers · asked by lilly_bud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 16:23:30 · 7 answers · asked by emma 3 in Family

Just now the guy that i like asked me to go to the rodeo... problem is, i scheduled a babysitting job at the same time a couple weeks ago. i'm not sure if he knows i like him or not, because we've been friends for a while now. I tried to get my sister to take the job but she wouldn't. So now i've just resigned myself to sulking miserably.
what would yall have done in this situation, and if something like this has happened to you, what was it?
thanks

2007-03-18 16:23:01 · 3 answers · asked by Jen Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

An ex and I ended things very badly. We we were very close. it was special. However, something happened and he became very cold and hrtful to me. Much was involved including a child he had with someone else, before we met. I helped him thru much of this. Anyhow, we exchanged hurtful words and have not spoken in over a month or so. I didn't expect him to call me, although I hoped he would. But everyday, it ate at me, the things I said to him and the way I behaved. So tonight, I called him and I got his voice mail. I left him a message and told him that I was sorry, and that no matter what, as a friend, I only wanted him to be happy and I should have backed away, knowing a child was involved. I will admit he was wrong about much, but there was much confusion involved. I dont know what he thinks, but I feel a sense of relief. Was I stupid? Should I not have called? I also said that I don't expect to hear from him and its ok. And I think I will be, if I never hear from him again. I just

2007-03-18 16:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Right after having read replies to my questions regarding this guy who gave me his number and told me he was interested then stopped calling and stuff i`ve decided that he`s changed his mind.

So now my problem is,i see him in his work at least twice a week and i`m usually a jeans and trainers kind of girl but my friend thinks when i go to his work on saturday i should make more of an effort and get a bit more dressed up than usual,this will prob make me feel better and give me more confidence to face him but at the same time i don`t want to look like i`m trying to impress him and i don`t want the other guys he works with to think it either.So what do i do?How do i act if he hasn`t contacted me before i see him?advice appreciated,thanx

2007-03-18 16:22:31 · 18 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 16:22:21 · 3 answers · asked by C M 3 in Friends

If you were to analyze all your past crushes, can you find common features?? (like appearance, personality, turn ons)
Is there any pattern in your crushes? Like for example I had all my crushes in autumn and no crushes in summer...
Thank you!

2007-03-18 16:22:02 · 9 answers · asked by yojik 2 in Singles & Dating

While cigars and lighters may work for a couple of guys, there are six guys total and most don't smoke/wouldn't appreciate cigars. Also, what's an appropriate amount to spend per guy? I'm thinking $50 - $100?

2007-03-18 16:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by Alberto 3 in Weddings

2007-03-18 16:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by Proud Mommy! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 16:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by closeinphilly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been thinking about getting it peirced down there, but my boyfriend says it'll look disguisting. I was just wondering if all guys thought this was really gross or if there were guys out there who think it's hot. Not that it matters really, I'm not getting it done for the guys, I want it for me. Just lookin for some opinions.

2007-03-18 16:20:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I broke up because she said that I needed to be single. I quit my job of almost six years because I was miseralbe and I knew that it wasn't what I should be doing. I didn't quit because I am lazy or I was depending on her (we live seperately with roommates). She told me I need to be a little more responsible, figure out what I want to do with my life, and be a little more selfish because I always put everybody else before me. The things that she has asked me to change are things that I want to change. Being responsible, living alone, finding out what direction I want to take in life. Okay, so if I do all of those things and improve myself, am I really doing it for me if I'm doing it because I want to be with her? She hasn't been mean about any of this, she isn't seeing anybody else, and she tells me that she wants me to be okay but whatever happens with us will happen. I'm not afraid of being alone anymore, I just really love her and I feel lwe are right 4 eachother

2007-03-18 16:19:58 · 7 answers · asked by Patrick E 6 in Singles & Dating

I also should mention that she is my neighbor she came over to my place to hang out for the 1st time and the both of us were laying down in my bed but notting happened we jus talked then she had to leave to go home to go out.I walked her back to her home and said goodbye then i went in for the kiss to the lips but somehow i got her cheek.

What does this mean her?are we in a relationship now?

2007-03-18 16:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by riskyrich 1 in Singles & Dating

what does this mean?

2007-03-18 16:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is cute but i have a major crush on his best friend!! i know this all sounds kiddy but i love his friend more
than him help!

2007-03-18 16:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should you do if you just don't feel that excitement for your boyfriend anymore? It seems like i don't like him as much as I used to and everything that he does annoys me. I tried going on a break but he wants all or nothing. I'm scared that once we break up, i'll miss him. Is there anyway I can get that "crush feeling" back?

2007-03-18 16:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would hold on for 3 yrs on and off mostly off.
If he didnt really care about you???
We dont have sex so its not like im giving sex he cant live with out or anything. Most of the time i think he cares. But sometimes i dont think he does that maybe its a game to him. Plz tell me what you think???

2007-03-18 16:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Singles & Dating