would hold on for 3 yrs on and off mostly off.
If he didnt really care about you???
We dont have sex so its not like im giving sex he cant live with out or anything. Most of the time i think he cares. But sometimes i dont think he does that maybe its a game to him. Plz tell me what you think???
2007-03-18 16:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So do you like him. Does he like you. It sounds like you both need to move on. Have a good break, go and get yourself a hot guy, have a flirt, you will soon find out if your on and off guy likes you.
2007-03-18 16:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, many healthy relationships can exist without sex. It's not the corner stone to every good relationship, and if you feel like you should continue to wait, then do just that.
Though it's true that most guys would like sex, the fact that he's not expecting it from you shows how that's not the main focus of his dating you.
3 years "mostly off" doesn't sound too stable, but if you are happy and would like the continue, then you should.
Ask him how he feels. Talk about it. Try and make your relationship work so you can be mostly on.
2007-03-18 23:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by jaytotheackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lost, A lot of guys think if they are not getting any there's no since on seeing you.It sounds like he fits the description. If you are asking this question your not sure yourself. I would move on and try to find a nice guy that will wait until you are ready to have sex. There are still nice guys out there that do respect women. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-18 23:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not having sex with you he's probably having it with someone else. Thats probably why he sticks around cuz he's not losing out on sex since he's getting it elsewhere. Guys are like that. I think you should just move on cuz you know he's doing someone else.
2007-03-18 23:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guy keep relationship going by having sex.
2007-03-18 23:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes, because in psychology, i learned that man are much more deprived of sex that his partner doesn't even know it. you guys should do a mutual agreement. he seems like a shy guy, youre probably gonna have to make the move.
2007-03-18 23:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by sappiyas k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. i tend to shy away from on and off relationships, simply because if he was really concerned about it, it would be on and stay on. that's all. it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't care, but that's all right. it may also mean that he's been with someone else when you're not "on" so to speak.
2007-03-18 23:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ph yeah, all guys neeeed sex, no matter how they say they dont. hes just trying to be nice and tellin gyou hes waiting on you but in reality, he i depraved
2007-03-18 23:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by ImaYam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋