My girlfriend and I broke up because she said that I needed to be single. I quit my job of almost six years because I was miseralbe and I knew that it wasn't what I should be doing. I didn't quit because I am lazy or I was depending on her (we live seperately with roommates). She told me I need to be a little more responsible, figure out what I want to do with my life, and be a little more selfish because I always put everybody else before me. The things that she has asked me to change are things that I want to change. Being responsible, living alone, finding out what direction I want to take in life. Okay, so if I do all of those things and improve myself, am I really doing it for me if I'm doing it because I want to be with her? She hasn't been mean about any of this, she isn't seeing anybody else, and she tells me that she wants me to be okay but whatever happens with us will happen. I'm not afraid of being alone anymore, I just really love her and I feel lwe are right 4 eachother
2007-03-18 16:19:58 · 7 answers · asked by Patrick E 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow o.k. this is what I think. It was her choice to give you that space to let you grow, I bet she's waiting on you to do it to, and if it was all things you wanted to change anyway then wanting to be with her is just motivation to achieve what you want and there is NOTHING wrong with that. I think that you are sweet and wish you luck, things will work out.
2007-03-18 16:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well improving yourself is always good no matter what and maybe she just opened your eyes a little but you quit your job cause she said so without having a new one in the bucket first that is bad I say you are on the right track but you need to make sure the train is going where you want it to go first maybe take a few days to really find out what you really want from the next few years don't call or talk to her other than saying you won't be talking to her for a few days to get a few things straight in your life then find out what you want write them down if you have to.
2007-03-18 16:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any thank you to place a share on it, countless issues come into play whilst getting pregnant, time of ovulation, how long the sperm stay interior of her and so on. you will in basic terms could wait till her next era is due and attempt. i'm particular this wasn't the respond you have been finding for thus sorry
2016-10-02 08:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by kuhns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she wants you to be more selfish. I have never heard anybody in the female population say that. Wow.
I think you need to go out and have some fun, dont worry about girls or relationships, enjoy YOURSELF. Go flirt with some chicky babes.
2007-03-18 16:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make these changes in your life then do it for yourself.
If you do it for her it wont help anything in the future or the relationship.
Even if she doesnt take you back .. you will be a better person for the next love in your life.
2007-03-18 16:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it ounds like you have answered whatever question you were trying to ask but if you love her and want her back then tell her and see what's her response
2007-03-18 16:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I ain't sayin' she a gold digger, but she ain't hanging wit no broke......"
2007-03-18 16:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋