Right after having read replies to my questions regarding this guy who gave me his number and told me he was interested then stopped calling and stuff i`ve decided that he`s changed his mind.
So now my problem is,i see him in his work at least twice a week and i`m usually a jeans and trainers kind of girl but my friend thinks when i go to his work on saturday i should make more of an effort and get a bit more dressed up than usual,this will prob make me feel better and give me more confidence to face him but at the same time i don`t want to look like i`m trying to impress him and i don`t want the other guys he works with to think it either.So what do i do?How do i act if he hasn`t contacted me before i see him?advice appreciated,thanx
2007-03-18 16:22:31 · 18 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shake what your mama gave ya!!! Girl flaunt your stuff! don't over do it, BUT DO IT ENUFF!!! He will regret the day and once you see how hot you really are then you won't even be worried about that loser!
2007-03-18 16:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go the other way to show him how totally not interested you are. Go to work wearing a bin bag or something, it will be the last thing he's expecting and it'll make him see how uninterested you are which will make him interested again which will turn the whole thing on its head and you'll be both more confused than ever and you'll be wearing a bin bag. Then, if he comes in the next day wearing a bin bag it will either mean that he, too, isn't interested or that he is also showing how uninterested he is because he actually is interested. Its got to work.
2007-03-18 16:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bacon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you speak to him, think of him as some geeky guy from high school that liked you but you didn't like back. Talk to him as though you see through him paying more attention to the people around him.
After a while, you'll forget about anything that happened or didn't happen between you.
He is a 90 day warranty man. Like a cheap appliance, when the 90 warranty expired, he was useless.
2007-03-18 16:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by SunnyMoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand the 'game you are trying to play' ~ if he's not already interested.........!
Is it that you are trying to dress to impress and get him interested? And what then? Walk away!
Having re-read your explanation a few times now, I may have a better understanding of what you've written, but not your aim.
And, unless you give is a look at you and of the inside your wardrobe, how can we offer up any advice as you really have (seemingly) already answered your own 'statement / question.'
Sorry, b ut I'm a really confused Sash.
2007-03-18 17:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say jus be ur self cuz that's what counts maybe his just attracted to u in your jeans .What if u dress up and he thinks u might be trying to hard to make an impression, jus take it slow be yourself. U can look cute in jeans if u have the right top and accesories, if u do want to dress up don't over do it look cute but don't send the wrong message, good luck
2007-03-18 16:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bluey07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are never make a false impression go as you feel comfortable i havent warn anything but jeans and trainers since i was 16 i am now 34 its not what you are its who you are so get out there and go for it
2007-03-18 16:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by TS100N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like playing games, but it's up to you to draw the line on letting someone play with you like that. I wouldnt waste your time analyzing his thoughts and behavior because he's probably playing with you again by acting coy you can do better than him. Find someone who's not on that childish BS and is a real man.
2007-03-18 16:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's gonna be tough, really tough but you try to act as you did before. smile if you want, say hi if that's what you used to do but don't change your style of dressing. i went through something like this recently and it takes a few days but then you realize it's over... never meant to be. so let it go; there are plenty of other fish in the sea... you'll see; i did.... you'll be fine; promise!
2007-03-18 16:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by sonata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to dress up to impress him nati.If he liked you, the way you dress wouldn't change how he feels.Most guys anyways like our girls to look natural & not have that "fake" look -you know like you're trying to hard? He should like you as you are.
Fwiw, i love my gf when she's schlepping around in an old pair of jeans & one of my old sweatshirts.
2007-03-18 16:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix yourself up when you go to his work, if he makes a comment just make up something like you are having a nice dinner with someone. You could say oh you don't know him or you could just say you are going with your friends or parents for a special occasion.
2007-03-18 16:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by cat12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋