Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

I am a mother of 3 kids, working. My husband travels quite a bit, so I handle all the house matters alone. On top of that, even running a small business to supplement the household income. I cook very well. I am not ugly. Really wonder why my husband keep saying i am stupid and useless....it really hurts my pride and upset me. When i asked him, he simply says I am oversensitive. He will pick up a quarrel. It's depressing!

2007-03-18 16:59:17 · 41 answers · asked by sonali 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I commit to the guy I've loved for three and a half years (three of which were spent in a serious relationship with him), or distance myself from the relationship to allow for more opportunities to experience others? We care for each other a great deal, but I long for something new. On the other hand, no other relationship seems to compare to the happiness I feel when I spend time with my first love. I don't want to lose him all together; but I want to be open to something new. Is this even possible? Should I stick with what I know to be good? I'm a sophomore in college and I first dated this guy in eleventh grade.

2007-03-18 16:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by Swedish Meatball 87 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a fourteen year old guy and I like my sister's best friend. The girl is twelve. Is that ok?

2007-03-18 16:58:38 · 3 answers · asked by armycaptain92 2 in Friends

this boy past by and said hey new york or if he sees me down the halls at school he yells new york new york!!! what dose that mean

2007-03-18 16:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by Gengta Bitch 1 in Friends

I was dating my daughter's music teacher. and I thought he dumped me about month ago. I was angry and sad for awhile but, I have overcame the pain of losing him.
I had to continued the lesson with him for my daughter meanwhile.
I am friend with all his music network which makes me difficult to strive in the music community without talking to him. and m fact he is very high quality teacher which I will not be able to find one like him.
but, I feel ackward to be there on her lesson days.
what should I do?

2007-03-18 16:57:44 · 1 answers · asked by pain in the neck 1 in Singles & Dating

We're both 18, almost 19. He's in the army. We've been dating for 1 year. They never let him out of the house during the week, even though we leave school at noon. All he does is sit at home. Is it normal to control your kids that much, or am I over reacting? It seems to me that since he is an adult and enlisted in the Army that he should be able to make his own decisions. What should I do? It bothers me that our time is so limited.

2007-03-18 16:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 16:56:51 · 11 answers · asked by reddie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We've know each other for a year now. We met each other last year through a store that he manages and I usually shopped in b4 he came into the picture.
Anyways over time we've become close, but the thing is we spend time with each other instore never outside the store cause he works days and i work evenings anyways.... My 21st is coming up and Im making a guest list and Im not sure if I should invite him.
1:I do have feelings 4 him, but I hide it 2:We have a close bond. Hes very open with me. Ive never been able to talk 2 someone the way I talk with him. I mean when we talk instore we like talk 4 like 1-2 hrs just talking about anything and everything yknw?? Customers could be walking in and out and we'd still be just talking away like no one else in the world existed just us two anyways.

Should I invite him or not?

2007-03-18 16:56:35 · 4 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

and now he keeps trying to get me to have sex with him all the time...it was magical the first time but now its really getting annoying...so what am i supposed to tell him???

2007-03-18 16:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Allen J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 16:55:54 · 11 answers · asked by moist body 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friend Nita have been friends for about 2 years now and about 1 year ago we moved to Idaho together and I eventually moved back cuz I was unable to find work. She has a boyfriend who lives in Alaska and they never talk to eachother, but she thinks she loves him. I know she doesn't love him though cuz she doesn't really like talking to him. On the other hand she spends hours a day on the phone with me. Since wednesday we have spent 15 hrs on the phone together. So do I tell her I love her or not tell her anything? Also how do I tell her?

2007-03-18 16:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by brutus maximus 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you be willing to send your wife and 4 year old son 4 hours away to be with another woman? I'm not sure that is what my husband is doing but that's what it seems like. Would it be worth it to you? To me that is basically giving up his son to be with her.

2007-03-18 16:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My step father (who I call Dad) passed away and I have a brother and then a step brother and step sister. My brother and I had the same mother and my stepfather was like my real father. My mother and him were married for 40 years before she died. The step brother and step sister's mother and my dad were married for short period of time. My brother and I were left majority of inherientence and now my step brother and step sister aren't speaking to us which hurts. Dad did this because he felt they didn't come around often enough. Also, half of his money was our mom's money. They think we should share our wealth with them. What is the right thing to do in this situation?

2007-03-18 16:53:29 · 9 answers · asked by Lockformer 1 in Family

2007-03-18 16:52:58 · 4 answers · asked by cutchlow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-18 16:52:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Sooo I like my friend for a long time already, and almost everyday she would call me and we would talk for a couple of hours. I like her a lot, but she can't date because she's muslim and im non-muslim. However, friday i texted her to see what's up and saturday i texted her that i missed her and she texted me back late late at night saying she just came back from her family's gathering and shes really tired and she said plz dont expect me to call everyday... Soo im feeling kinda hurt from that and I don't know how to respond. i just texted her back i know i understand. How do I go to approach this? I really like her and she tells me literally everything in her life and I would be willing to convert to islam if she really does like me, but I'm afraid to tell her because everything i tell a girl that i like her, it fails...

2007-03-18 16:52:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sooo I like my friend for a long time already, and almost everyday she would call me and we would talk for a couple of hours. I like her a lot, but she can't date because she's muslim and im non-muslim. However, friday i texted her to see what's up and saturday i texted her that i missed her and she texted me back late late at night saying she just came back from her family's gathering and shes really tired and she said plz dont expect me to call everyday... Soo im feeling kinda hurt from that and I don't know how to respond. i just texted her back i know i understand. How do I go to approach this? I really like her and she tells me literally everything in her life and I would be willing to convert to islam if she really does like me, but I'm afraid to tell her because everything i tell a girl that i like her, it fails...

2007-03-18 16:51:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

has your wife ever farted in your presence if so what did you do or say? why? same question for the women.

2007-03-18 16:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by N E G R O P L E A S E 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here’s my story. I’m a high school senior and I had a crush on this girl in my class since about the middle of my sophomore year. It wasn’t until this past summer that I told her how I felt, she then told me she felt the same about me. Well this summer, she moved, and now she lives about 2 hours away. And in spite of that fact we decided to try dating. And we went out for about 4 months.
At first we got to see each other every weekend, but then she started playing basketball, and I had wrestling, and she got a job; so we started not being able to see each other for weeks at a time. Eventually she decided that we should break up; she told me that she just couldn’t take not seeing me every day. And at first I thought maybe she was right. We decided to take a break from talking for a while.
After about a month I realized I wasn’t getting over her, and we started talking again. At this point wrestling and basketball were over, she quit her job, and now I have a car. So I thought maybe we’d get to see each other more often, and maybe we should give it another chance. But before I got to say that she told me she has a new boyfriend. Now they’ve been dating for about a month, and I can tell she really likes him. I want to be happy for her, because she really is the best person I’ve ever known and she really deserves to be happy. But there is a big part of me that wants them to break up, because I’m still hoping I can be with her some day.
I can’t stop thinking about this girl, and I honestly can’t find any flaws within her. I know nobody’s perfect, but she definitely is the closest thing to perfect I could imagine. So, my question is how can I fall out of love? How can I bring myself to be happy for her and her new boyfriend?

2007-03-18 16:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and that you will never never ever do it again, or if you do, of course there were no intentions of hurting him like that again..argh coz i feel really stupid right now. and it wasnt even THAT big a deal cept if i was in his shoes i would just be a little upset. this isnt a very helpful question to answer...

2007-03-18 16:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by bii. 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend meagan is dating tyler and he really likes her and hes talking about marrying her and they have only dated for 2 weeks and he always says i love u over and over again and i think its alittle werid what should i tell her 2 do

2007-03-18 16:49:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She had been into some relationship in the past, now we are serious into our relationship and planning to get married, I have heard from her and her family lots of stuffs about her past. Most of the stuffs are problem brought by her relationship with her ex's and one of them even cause her leave her parents and find an apartment for her own and it has cause lots of pain to her parents as she was only 23. She was uncontrollable that time due to their influence.

The problem i have right now is those ex's of her keeps on calling her and asking her out for drinks and meet up someitmes even barrowing money and worse is when we are out on a date. I am not happy with that and was telling her to get rid of them as they are not the type of friends that can do good for her and even for our relationship. No matter what i told her she still thinks that they are good friends and will keep them.

I have my trust in her but i do not trust her ex's who still wants to be with her. How to take it?

2007-03-18 16:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive never asked a girl before, had a gf or even kissed one before...and im in high school, i know its pathetic. Ive liked this girl for so long and enough is enough! I'm gonna ask her tomarrow, any words of encouragement or any ideas on what to say because i have no idea.

2007-03-18 16:48:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find myself attracted to them I don't know why!! Its killing me!! It seems to happen to me before I go to bed, in my dreams while I'm sleeping.

2007-03-18 16:48:29 · 13 answers · asked by hotjunior222002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like girls always say pretty and guys always say cute. Do they mean the same thing but guys feel weird saying something is 'pretty?'. How are 'cute' and 'pretty' different? Just curious.

2007-03-18 16:48:26 · 9 answers · asked by Alexandra F 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents still think I'm to young to go out with my friends or go overnight with them!!! PLEASE HELP ME! I hate to be their "little girl" forever!

2007-03-18 16:48:05 · 8 answers · asked by purpleprincess29 1 in Family

my best friends parents are gettin divorced. what should i do to make her happy?

2007-03-18 16:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by nikki h 1 in Friends

I had a friend a few years ago. We made some mistakes by saying things to each other, but I actually feel somewhat guilty about the things I said. Because of those mistakes, our friendship ended. I know he's probably over what happened, but I have always hated what I said to him. Should I contact him and apologize for my actions? I just hate knowing that I did things to end a nice relationship. I don't care if we don't become friends again, I just hate having this chip over my shoulder.

2007-03-18 16:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by Brig 1 in Friends

Would you be willing to send your son and wife 4 hours away to be with another woman? That is like giving up your son, basically. I don't know for sure that's what my husband is doing but it sure seems like it to me. Would it be worth it to you?

2007-03-18 16:47:29 · 6 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex came back into town for spring break. He didn't call me to hang out until saturday night, he left today. Anyway, on saturday I thought we were just going to hang out as friends. He invited his boys and was acting very discusting/mannish with them in front of me.
Then we get to this party and for like 2 hours he's being friend-y. Then all of a sudden he steals my cigarette and forces me to play fight with him to give it back, at which point he kisses me, suprisingly I kiss him back.
Then he told me that he told his father that I was the only person he's ever dated that he's had a strong connection with. He told me that he thinks about me alot. He even asked me what I thought it would be like if he didn't go to UCF last august.
He's very touchy feely the rest of the night and after I drop him off at his house I think about how much I really haven't gotten over him, and how much we CANT be together cause he's in college.
I cry the rest of the way home. What are his intentions?

2007-03-18 16:46:54 · 8 answers · asked by Whitnae 3 in Singles & Dating