My ex came back into town for spring break. He didn't call me to hang out until saturday night, he left today. Anyway, on saturday I thought we were just going to hang out as friends. He invited his boys and was acting very discusting/mannish with them in front of me.
Then we get to this party and for like 2 hours he's being friend-y. Then all of a sudden he steals my cigarette and forces me to play fight with him to give it back, at which point he kisses me, suprisingly I kiss him back.
Then he told me that he told his father that I was the only person he's ever dated that he's had a strong connection with. He told me that he thinks about me alot. He even asked me what I thought it would be like if he didn't go to UCF last august.
He's very touchy feely the rest of the night and after I drop him off at his house I think about how much I really haven't gotten over him, and how much we CANT be together cause he's in college.
I cry the rest of the way home. What are his intentions?
2007-03-18 16:46:54 · 8 answers · asked by Whitnae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't want sex from me, I offered it to him and he refused. Which confused me the most.
The next day he doesn't even answer my calls.
And no he wasn't drunk.
2007-03-18 17:03:57 · update #1
Sista Girl, I think he's not sure what he wants...so give time some time. Encourage him to go to school, because, if time, surprises you, and you guys really get together, then you both will be the stronger for it. Time will tell you rather or not you were made for each other or if it was just something that happened in course of you growing up. Either way, you will appreciate each other in the long run. Sista Girl, you need to get busy taking care of you and find out what you really want and deserve. And Girl, don't settle, okay.
2007-03-18 17:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, I think he might still have feelings for you too, but he was still acting shady by not calling you untill the day before he left. Try and keep in touch with him on a regular basis(on the phone) and see where it goes from there, it can work out long distance if you are BOTH committed. Just be careful not to become his booty call everytime he comes home. If he has no interest in talking to you while he's at school then he is only interested in one thing, so you should drop him if that's the case.
Good Luck
2007-03-18 16:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex, he doesn't want you back, he just wants a roll in the hay and move to the next one. If you give it to him all the time then keep expecting him to ask for it all the time. He doesn't want a relationship. Just sex.
Also how much was he drinking?
Is that what you want? If not, tell him to get lost.
And try dating him without sex. If he wants sex on the first date, well then you have your answer.
2007-03-18 16:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im guessing he probely was showing off in front of his friends. and when he play wrestled you he just wanted to feel you. he most likely does like you and just doesn't know how to act around you
2007-03-18 16:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by kitty17 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex!
2007-03-18 16:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants layed on vacation
don't trust any thing he told you
2007-03-18 16:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by TEBOE7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To get you into bed.
2007-03-18 16:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by cat12 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
don't know ask him.
2007-03-18 16:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Guru 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋