Should I stick up to my parents' decisions?

Question

My parents still think I'm to young to go out with my friends or go overnight with them!!! PLEASE HELP ME! I hate to be their "little girl" forever!

Answer 1

I don't know how old you are.
But here it is.
Your goal is to spend more time with your friends.
Typical teen desire.
Even preteen for that matter.
Your parents want you to remain safe: (physically, emotionally, socially and in some cases, spiritually).
You can both win.
1. have your friends stay the night at your house.
2. go out with friends and have the parents meet beforehand.
3. start with a very short outing. Maybe you and your mom goes to the mall, you hang with your friends for a couple of hours and she does her shopping. You make a plan to meet back at a certain place and then do it. Make sure that you are on time.
With some parents, you must show them that you are able to make good decisions. The best way to do this is to be honest about what happened while you were gone and how you handled it.
Now, if the friends you want to hang out with are not the kind of people that you parents would approve of:
(maybe they smoke, drink, have legal troubles, use bad language, etc), then, you need to find better friends that you parents will trucs.
If your parents trust the child's parents, they might be more likely to let you spend the night.
Tell your parents that you understand their concerns and try and find a compromise that will wrk for both of you.
You can also use the phone:
Maybe you get to go to a friend's house, but you must call at certain times to let them know that you are okay.
If there is not adult supervision, then, don't be surprised if they don't let you go.
THat is protection.

Answer 2

Unless you are over the age of eighteen, your parents are responcible for you. I am sorry, but I agree with their decisions at this point.

You are going to have to wait until you are older to go out with your friends or evernight with them.

You will always be your parents little girl, no matter how old you are, but you will get to make your own judgements and decisions once you are 18.

Have a good night.

Answer 3

Depending on how old you are...

When I was 15 I used to go to my friends place get dressed up and head out with some blokes we just met, fortunately for us they were OK!

Now that I think back, I realise how dangerous it was for us to go out at night with people we had just met off the street....going to party's and places that my parents STILL have no idea about......

Be careful, trust your instincts and always have money and a way to get home....best to let your parents no where u will be!

Answer 4

If you are still living under their roof, eating their food, wearing the clothes they bought for you, then you need to listen to them. Trust me you will thank them a few years down the road, you do not understnad right now. But they are doing their very best to protect you. Many children do not have parents like yours, you are Blessed to have such caring parents. Respect them and I trust you'll make the right choice.

Answer 5

It depends on how old you are. You are probably at an age where you want to be independent, but your parents are just looking out for your well being. Listen to them and don't rebel, I'm sure they know what is best.

Answer 6

how old are you i see where they are comming from there are alot of sick people out there and your mom an dad dont want to see you raped or killed or drunk or abducted a lot can happen in a few hrs just think about how much they care an love you to think they will set rules like that and in there eyes you will always be there little girl

Answer 7

Well, I think you left out how old you are. It is hard to advise you without that information.

Answer 8

How old are you