and that you will never never ever do it again, or if you do, of course there were no intentions of hurting him like that again..argh coz i feel really stupid right now. and it wasnt even THAT big a deal cept if i was in his shoes i would just be a little upset. this isnt a very helpful question to answer...
2007-03-18 16:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by bii. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OKAY! here are SOME details: he thinks that this guy was flirting with me and stuff but relaly everybdoy was smackin eachoters stomaches just for fun you know i know its not a very girly thing to do but come on everybody was doin it to me. we were havin a lil bit of fun until i noticed something was wrong with my bf. he finally, finally told me that one of his friends were touchingme a bit too much. (this sounds like such a childish story)
but the thing is that he says this isnt the first time something lik this happened. so idk.
the hurt is still in there you know..
and he still brought this up after he came over. so im guessing it really hurt him. or something.
help..please.. ;) hmm..
2007-03-18 17:02:04 · update #1
What did you do? If you cheated on him, I wouldn't take you back or accept your apologies.
And saying your sorry and wanting him to accept it, is just you being selfish. You only want to feel better about the situation. If you really loved him, you wouldn't have done it in the first place.
Give him time to find out what he really wants. And don't force him or he'll back right off and quit apologizing. If you said it once and he hasn't accepted, you'll just harp the apology at him and he'll only say he'll forgive you to shut you up. And that isn't want you want.
2007-03-18 16:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Be Truthful.
2) Give him a Heart Felt Apology.
3) Never, Never, Never, Do It Again.
4) In The Future, Be Very Careful To Show Him That His Feeling's Do Matter To You.
2007-03-18 23:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bii... some times there is no easy way... you have to sit down and talk to him.. take him some flower.. yup... they work even for guys..tell him.. that you can not take back the hurt but if you could that you would in a heart beat.. and that is will never happen again.
Good luck
2007-03-18 23:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do something to hurt someone and decide to apologize, you have to be prepared for them to not accept your apology. everyone reacts to situations differently. something that may not seem like a 'big deal' to you may be huge in his eyes. be sincere that you are sorry, but dont ask for another chance...let him decide to give you one. and if he doesnt' make that decision, accept it and move on. you want him to be happy right? if he can't be happy with you, then are you thinking about him or yourself?
2007-03-18 23:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by simple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly like the way you did just now. Call him and tell him.
2007-03-18 23:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him out to dinner and a movie, your treat, and talk to him.
2007-03-18 23:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for all the juicy info, you didn't even say what you did that was so bad. If it were my boyfriend I would apologize, get him chicken wings, and beer. Then have make-up sex. Works everytime.
2007-03-18 23:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cook him a really really nice dinner
2007-03-18 23:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by leighwalker2006 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you did ?
2007-03-18 23:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about what?
2007-03-18 23:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋