Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

She said she woke up and had no clothes on, and there was a used condom on the floor...She KNOWS I don't like her drinking, and I feel it was partly her fault for drinking, but NOT her fault for getting raped..(If in fact that is considered rape correct?) I feel all funny and sick inside, and she was drunk the next day and called me a few times and said some things that really hurt, then she called me tonight and is really regretful/sad/sorry about the whole situation, and I'm so confused...I love her but yet I don't and I feel like she's the only one who could ever care for me...She won't turn the guy in either, she doesn't want to get the family in trouble (apparently it was her friends brother that "did the deed")...Should I even get back with her? She says she loves me, and I believe it, but I feel completely different towards her now...I kinda do love her...but knowing someone else had his way with her bothers me...What the hell should I do? I'm so confused. (Suicide NOT an option

2007-03-18 17:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by A7X_45 1 in Singles & Dating

get up each day? Why do you enjoy living?

2007-03-18 17:09:25 · 8 answers · asked by bvan_25 2 in Friends

Just wondering if it works I know some have fake ads to lure people to them.

2007-03-18 17:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 17:09:08 · 4 answers · asked by BKelly237 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi! I am 20 years old and my boyfriend is 25. We've been best friends for a year and we have been dating seriously for a little over a month. He is the most amazing person to me, and we spend almost every day together. The only problem? He moved to the US from Mexico and doesn't speak English. I speak Spanish and English so we can communicate. The only thing is my family and friends can't communicate with him and they do not like him with me at all. They throw a fit every time I go out with him, and they like to play 20 questions every time. My friends are always very rude to him and my family doesn't like that he has a child and that he doesn't speak English. I understand that these are huge factors, but I love him with all my heart. I am lost and miserable without him and they act like it's no big deal if I just stopped seeing him. He always treats me really well, respects my decision to wait for sex, yet they still despise him. They try to make me feel guilty.

2007-03-18 17:08:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 35, he is 45. We have been together for almost 4 years. No children - no need for them. We have gone through quite a lot together.We have been there for each other.Sex was always good. Different cultures,social and economic status and backgrounds. We found a way to survive differences.The basic staff was there: love and understanding when it came to really difficult staff, we could talk and resolve problems with no fuss. THE PROBLEM WAS that we could not survive daily childish problems.Sometimes I would feel that I am his mother, not his companion.Sometimes went on to be many times and then on to be most of the times. Then fights took over, sex bent over, we broke up. We tried so many times to make peace.Now it's been months we are away.Today I called him, we dine out, he told me how resentful he feels towards me,said:"we both made errors, but I paid for both of us".I asked if it is ok to stay in touch.First he says yes,then no,then he leaves crying.We both did.End of story?Is it?

2007-03-18 17:08:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it ok to where a white dress after getting marred the 3rd time around? I know it used to be, that a person could not do that, becuase the dress means purity and being a virgin. but now days I have known others to where white again. But is that proper?

2007-03-18 17:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by six_blueangels 2 in Weddings

Ok so Im just wondering because all of a sudden there was a sudden spike in guys liking me do you guys look at face first or mind? and whcich do you guys perfer a smart girl thats cute or the dumb blonde who looks fine as hell but doesnt know what 1 plus 1 is. Im just curious, also what do you guys like the most on a girls body not the two main things her butt and up stairs what about her eyes nice legs something like that.

2007-03-18 17:05:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

name three things-that you cant give to a black man---1----.2------3---

2007-03-18 17:04:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 17:04:44 · 39 answers · asked by Barbara B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of ten years has on his best days been "disinterestes". I've tried every trick in the Cosmo book. Nothing seems to work. Last night (a Saturday night) I tried being agressive. He smiled, and said he was tired.


I'm thinking of having an affair. Is that a bad idea? I've hung in there with his disinterest for 10 years.

2007-03-18 17:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by SunnyMoon 5 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I don't fit in with my family, When something is wrong with me like when I am sick I panic and my mom doesn't like it when i panic because she thinks that i am hard to handle when something is wrong. I think that she should set me up for adoption since I worry. What do I do?

2007-03-18 17:04:37 · 5 answers · asked by kimberly a 1 in Family

2007-03-18 17:04:15 · 6 answers · asked by Danny Tanner Owns You 3 in Friends

2007-03-18 17:03:46 · 18 answers · asked by Murray 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just kidding....no really....what is your bra size??

2007-03-18 17:02:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

don't think hard just want your quick response and gut. So no long answers please. more females, girls, women OR more males, boys, men.

Just in general, in whatever age range. Thanks.

2007-03-18 17:02:56 · 2 answers · asked by 3120007 1 in Singles & Dating

now what should i do? I cry every night wondering if he would run back to me but no? but everytime im at my sisters house and when she is in another room he'll star loven on me?

2007-03-18 17:02:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my friends cousin apparently made a death threat to me saying that he will bring his gang to my house to destroy my house. Later on, my friend said "I guess we ain't friends no more cause my stupid cousin". Then he said " so you don't like me no more because my parents don't like you?" Before his cousin made a death threat to me, he told me his parents don't like me and disapprove of me which is unreasonable. He doesn't want to let me in to his house. Since then, my parents found out about this conversation and now made the matter even by not letting my friend into my house. Later on, my friend made a reply to me saying "your parents hate me? tell me honestly and well don't even bother cause I know you are lying because of how my parents feel about you." I'm not the person who made these comments saying I cannot be friends with him. Now he blocked me on AIM. He spoke to me on AIM. What would you do if your friend had this behavior, against you , doesnt want to know the truth?

2007-03-18 17:02:47 · 7 answers · asked by saikojay 2 in Friends

I have a friend who was very close to me in 8th grade and this year we went to high school. She totally changed herself and she dresses as a barbie doll these days. She doesn't hang out with us at lunch anymore, but withh new people. She still acts as my friend but I feel very distant from her. Is she atucally my friend? Should I still be her friend?

2007-03-18 17:02:26 · 3 answers · asked by isranirockstar 2 in Friends

for those of you that dont know my story ill post it below and u can catch up. . but anyways . . . she last contacted my in mid december until this week she sends me an email that just says .. . . "just wondering if you are done hating me yet?!?!lol ". . . . . why do u think she is continuing to try to contact me when she is still with the guy she left me for and i have no responded to her since june?

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ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

2007-03-18 17:02:18 · 14 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 17:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out last week that my husband is cheating online!! I have been a FAITHFUL WIFE. I DO NOT BELIEVE IN CHEATING FOR ANY REASON AT ALL!! I didn't think my hubby would ever do this. I was SHOCKED!!! Also, he's supposed to be a Preacher, too. Anyway, Preacher or not, he is supposed to cheat!! So, now I ask, what should I do? I want to do what God would want me to do. But, I CAN NOT & WILL NOT PUT UP WITH CHEATING. I would ALWAYS wonder if he's cheating on me if I stay & we try to work things out. It would be hard to trust him!!! I am confused & hurt by this!!!! I am a good wife, too!!!! I have a Biblical right to divorce him. It is adultery. So, I need Christian advice. I know it's up to me as to what to do. But, a little Christian advice wouldn't hurt.

2007-03-18 17:01:46 · 22 answers · asked by goodgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 17:01:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just turned 17 and she just turned 15. We dated for 28 days and then everything went sour. On what would have been us being together for one month exactly i find out she is dating my best friend. should i be mad? i felt like i wanted to bust him in his face.a week later he called me and told me that he needed help because everything bad that could happen to him was happening to him (thanks to a best friend with alot of other friends ;) ) after that we somewhat became friends again but inside me im still hurt/very mad over him and my ex. He had already paid half of what i was asking for a vehicle and there was no papers at all showing that he paid me anything on the car. Should i give him the car? should i tell him to screw off? Me believing there is a differance between friendship and business i took his money and gave him his car. After the deal was through should i ever speak to him again? should I call war with him? or should i let the whole situation go?

2007-03-18 17:01:18 · 12 answers · asked by blewtsi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-18 17:00:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 17:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by Tata B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 17:00:30 · 9 answers · asked by Carmen H 1 in Singles & Dating

i really want this guy. he is too handsome and too athletic and he is my ideal guy. But the prob is he is my friend. I wanted him to know that i have a crush on him but I'm too shy and i don't want to break our friendship with that "crush" thing. What will i do so we will still be friends but he knows that he is my crush?

2007-03-18 16:59:48 · 5 answers · asked by purpleprincess29 1 in Friends

I have a girlfriend but we are not married, and we make love, but we do love each other,..,.,.,

2007-03-18 16:59:47 · 15 answers · asked by erickson d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Men, how do I get my b.f. more interested in being intimate when he never really was in the first place? We really love eachother but I want more and I want him to benefit from it to. Advice would be appreciated.

2007-03-18 16:59:23 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating