One of my friends cousin apparently made a death threat to me saying that he will bring his gang to my house to destroy my house. Later on, my friend said "I guess we ain't friends no more cause my stupid cousin". Then he said " so you don't like me no more because my parents don't like you?" Before his cousin made a death threat to me, he told me his parents don't like me and disapprove of me which is unreasonable. He doesn't want to let me in to his house. Since then, my parents found out about this conversation and now made the matter even by not letting my friend into my house. Later on, my friend made a reply to me saying "your parents hate me? tell me honestly and well don't even bother cause I know you are lying because of how my parents feel about you." I'm not the person who made these comments saying I cannot be friends with him. Now he blocked me on AIM. He spoke to me on AIM. What would you do if your friend had this behavior, against you , doesnt want to know the truth?
2007-03-18 17:02:47 · 7 answers · asked by saikojay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know what I should do about him, because he is actually a friend that I knew the longest... Plus, now it's like he built a wall that's blocking my way to reach him. One day he's good with me and then the next day he doesn't even want to know the truth or maybe he can't handle the truth... I actually wonder why he blocked me on AIM. It's almost like he can do whatever he pleases and I can't. What should be done about him ?
2007-03-18 17:03:27 · update #1
What would you do to maintain this kind of friendship?
2007-03-18 17:05:00 · update #2
call the cops for one if you are getting death threats that is a good sign to get the law involved an about your friend looks like he got his family saying to stay away take that as a hint an look for new friends
2007-03-18 17:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sad situation but I think I would cut my losses and find other friends. If the parents don't like the choices their children have made they usually have a very good reason for it.Death threats are not to be taken lightly either. Do your parents know about the death threats? They need to know.As you grow older you always lose friends. Some move away and we lose contact, others just don't care enough to keep in touch. Try concentrating on finding some new friends and let this whole situation have some time to settle.
2007-03-19 00:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you have lost a great friend, but you have learned what you want from a friend, right? It doesn't sound like this bloke has it. There are other people in the world, and it sounds like your alleged friend is just jerkin ya. So go make new, positive friends, and ones who don't have relatives in gangs.
2007-03-26 22:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Too Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u call the cops, it will only make matters worse! Not with the law, but with his supposed gang. What does he claim? Anyways if u can, at the least, find someone else to be your homie! If he wants to be like that, then **** him! He doesn't deserve to be your best friend if he don't even wanna talk to you! Well, I hope you listen to my advice. LATERZ!
2007-03-20 20:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Eddie E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would have to accept the situation for what it is. You say you have tried to rectify the situation but he doesnt want to be friends, so just let it go then. Maybe in time, he will want to be friends with you again. bettyk
2007-03-26 22:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by elisayn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. quit being friends
2. ignore them or if they keep sending you threats, get the law involved immediately
2007-03-26 21:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Karate Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is looking for excuses not to be your friend or his parents are behind all this
2007-03-26 15:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by lovelizabeth@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋