2007-03-18 17:03:46 · 18 answers · asked by Murray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im having that delima im not sure in way i feel like it is and i feel like i dont. as long as your not kissing or touching them then no its not cheating.
2007-03-18 17:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't cheating. But it could lead to it, if the strippers are in a generous mood and it is in the character of that particular stripper to take home patrons.
Frankly I don't see a reason to go to a strip bar if you are married. You could go to a regular bar and drink, play darts and pool. If you want to look at naked females and especially touch, go home and do that with your wife.
My husband has been to a strip club during a bachelor party. It was a special occasion and a one time thing. He had a good time, but not THAT good. I'm glad he went, if only to experience what one of those clubs is like.
2007-03-19 00:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going to a strip club when involved with someone is just asking for trouble. You may go with good intentions, but things happen there. I do believe it is a form of cheating. You shouldn't need that if you are with the right one.
2007-03-19 00:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you think it would bother your girlfriend, then it is probably close to, if not, cheating.
For me, if I'm with a basically good guy who would only go to the strip club under duress due to pressure from others, and he'd feel guilty or uncomfortable the whole time, I tell him I would never leave him if he went, but he should know my preference is that he doesn't go. If the guy is a scumbag who gets off on strip clubs, then I don't date him. If I have to make it a rule to feel better, he isn't the right guy.
2007-03-19 00:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by alma_jolie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it all depends on whether or not you plan to keep your hands to yourself or not! If you are just looking, then what's the harm? However, if you have trouble keeping your mitts off, then maybe you and your pals should hang out somewhere else.
Another possible tip: Check with your significant other a few days before you plan on going to the strip club...that way, they know your plans and are able to give you their feelings towards the situation!
2007-03-19 00:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by AllieAR81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless the things you DO at the strip club become cheating, including getting felt up, even through clothes, physically touching genitalia of strippers, and getting any sexual action, such as oral sex from strippers.
2007-03-19 00:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but doing this should not be hidden, it should be openly known by ones spouse or significant other, my wife knows every time I have gone to a strip club.
2007-03-19 00:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going to a strip club is not cheating.
You know what to do & NOT to do...as long as you follow the guidelines as to not messin with anyone.
However you wanna be honest with your significant other about where your going...if your not it can come back to bite you.
2007-03-19 00:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhh NO .. that's the furthest thing from cheating ... girls at the strip club don't want you or your body or anything about you other than your $$$$$$$$.
2007-03-19 00:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's just some harmless fun with friends, besides some studies show that when men get home from strip clubs they want to have intercourse with their wives.
2007-03-19 00:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Shannon A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, unless you do something incriminating. A good relationship should have trust, you should be able to have you own freedom and time with your friends while being trusted by your partner to do the right thing. this works both ways of course. I dont see why this should be a problem.
go out and have fun!!! live your life the way you want to.
good luck
2007-03-19 00:10:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋