for those of you that dont know my story ill post it below and u can catch up. . but anyways . . . she last contacted my in mid december until this week she sends me an email that just says .. . . "just wondering if you are done hating me yet?!?!lol ". . . . . why do u think she is continuing to try to contact me when she is still with the guy she left me for and i have no responded to her since june?
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ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
2007-03-18 17:02:18 · 14 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously...Tell her to buggar off and leave you alone.
My motto, been there, done that. Don't go back.
2007-03-18 17:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum 'christian' adult men have a huge status in the church they bypass to and carry that more beneficial than some thing else they could have. Does he belong to the Christian adult men's association? Does he attend the Christian adult men's Fellowship Breakfast? those are social communities for him and he has status there that he wouldn't have everywhere else. he's meant to be the accurate of the relatives and the priest of the relatives. to this stuff he will lose status at the same time as he admits he wouldn't have finished administration of his relatives and also you. you're his water mark in the church. He won't be able to produce you as his artwork in progression if he has no administration over the problem of the homestead and also you as his spouse. you're leaving him and the homestead does no longer make a mark on his and the youngsters' existence and the position they are going to ultimately be in eternity. His behaviour determines that. i'd say out of your diatribe that he's pushed you out and now you note what he's doing and beauty how his male acquaintances have not informed him to freshen up his act. Dr. Phil says dad and mom ought to get their acts at the same time and quit the extramarital affairs as an instance the youngsters some type of sturdy homestead existence. Dr. Phil is the specialist.
2016-12-02 05:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by deamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants this new guy but she wants you to be there pining for her..log every time she contacts you.(lots of details: time, date, what was sd during conversation).then call her back and record the call...tell her...."Do not contact me ever again in any way....phone,cell,email or im....or i will press charges against you for telecommunicating harrassment." It would be even better if you could tell her this in person with witnesses present...after that if she contacts you again, contact your local police and play the recording..show them your records of when she contacted you and they will file a warrant for her arrest...that's if you want it to stop.....personally, I don't think you should give her a second thought.....she left you....you deserve better than that....if it annoys you ....press charges...Good Luck!!
2007-03-18 17:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by backwoodscountrywoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must realize what she has done and wants you back or she is trying to keep you on the back burner incase her and the new guy do not work out. I would text her and tell her too little too late. Good luck
2007-03-18 17:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is possibly trying to set you up to be used and lied to. I'd worry about that if she has a history of being a jerk. If not maybe you can rekindle the relationship and win her back.
2007-03-18 17:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by hjhprov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still cares for you very much and she probably always will. But i think the best thing to do is ignore her, unless you want to be friends with her, or want her back. Maybe just ask her straight out "What do you want" ? ? ?
2007-03-18 17:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's trying hard to be your friend or she's trying to get you back. Maybe she was with that guy to make you jealous. She probably sees what she lost and wants you back.
2007-03-18 17:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mecpl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she isn't willing to let you go completely in case her new boyfriend bails on her.She probably is regretting letting you go and has too much pride to tell you.If I were you I'd go on like you are without responding. Until she e-mails you and has gotten over her new fling she made her bed let her lie in it.
2007-03-18 17:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's acting like a 3 year old. Change your e-mail to block her, get a new cell phone #, and move on.
2007-03-18 17:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares, block her from contacting you. The world is too big to worry about what was already infront of you, go find your next ex-wife
2007-03-18 17:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by intimadatein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe that guy is her backup ...
she wants to be with u but if u say no
then shell stay wit her guy to make u jealous...
that kindov sucks but if he has the guts to do that hes not a real friend.
best of luck!
2007-03-18 17:07:17 · answer #11 · answered by someebeooddyyy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋