Is it ok to where a white dress after getting marred the 3rd time around? I know it used to be, that a person could not do that, becuase the dress means purity and being a virgin. but now days I have known others to where white again. But is that proper?
2007-03-18 17:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by six_blueangels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Traditionally, white was meant to symbolize purity. This meant that in previous eras a woman could not wear a white wedding dress if she was "unpure," i.e. not a virgin. However, times have drastically changed, and the symbolism behind this color has faded. Nowadays, you can wear white, off-white, peach, red, and almost any other color (there is still a big no-no towards black, however, which is still strongly esteemed as the color of death or of mourning). It is completely within the realm of etiquette to wear a white wedding dress, even for a third marriage. Everyone should respect that it is your day and that it is your desire to wear white- after all, it is only a color. If someone has the audacity to mention your choice of color, simply sit him or her down and explain the symbolism of the color white. Tell him or her that the color white, to you, represents purity, and, on your wedding day, you hope to convey the symbolism of the purity of your love to your future husband with the color white, and it is not intended to be symbolic of the purity of your body. You are in now way being improper by desiring to wear white!
2007-03-18 18:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by lilmissmiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman deserves to wear white on her wedding day. The concept of proper or propriety is rapidly falling by the wayside in the American way of life. Manners and habits of politeness are behaviors to engender comfort and ease in others around you. On your wedding day especially, wear what YOU will be comfortable in and anyone who is impolite enough to make a rude comment about your purity, your new husband should throw them out of the reception with the help of the best man...that's what they are there for.
2007-03-18 17:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by comedianwit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wear a white dress. This day and age nobody would hold it against you. A lot of brides are not virgins when they get married, but they still wear white dresses. I really would not worry about it! Most people won't even think about it when they see you looking beautiful in your white dress.
2007-03-18 18:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by hhhh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but nowdays most people don't care. I certainly wouldn't wear a veil if I were you -- or at the very least not over your face.
A white tea length or short suit or dress would be more proper than the full on gown. Maybe just a circlet of flowers for your head.
just myho.
2007-03-18 17:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by ArmyWifey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its your wedding, wear what YOU want. Frankly I believe you get your virginity back in the divorce settlement, {read the really small print} your father might not want to give you away again, but your ex could!! I vote for the rules to go the way of the roles...and make our own! Congrats girlfriend and do it till you get it right is my motto..I'm on number four, so far hes a keeper.
2007-03-18 20:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by not-so--dumb--blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can wear what ever you want.
If it is your first wedding and you want a pink gown, go for it. If it is your third you can wear white. . . Most of the time first time brides are just as likely to NOT be virgins as a 3rd time bride.
2007-03-18 17:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Rocka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wear what you feel most beautiful and comfortable in. If you are worried about it you could always wear a champagne colored gown that still has the look and style of a traditional white gown just a darker shade.
2007-03-18 17:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you presenting yourself of pure heart to your future husband? If yes...then go ahead and wear white. A person may be experiencing their first marriage or still a virgin when being wed...yet are they pure of heart and love for their future husband? I feel that is where the pure white should be reflected.
2007-03-18 17:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of the older people might think so, but now-a-days its totally acceptable. Just like you can wear white after Labor Day. It's your day, so enjoy it and wear what you want!
2007-03-18 17:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by dolphincutie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
White only became traditional after Queen Victoria wore white, before then Brides wore whatever colour they liked. Wear what you want, it's your wedding after all.
2007-03-19 01:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋