i really want this guy. he is too handsome and too athletic and he is my ideal guy. But the prob is he is my friend. I wanted him to know that i have a crush on him but I'm too shy and i don't want to break our friendship with that "crush" thing. What will i do so we will still be friends but he knows that he is my crush?
2007-03-18 16:59:48 · 5 answers · asked by purpleprincess29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah... I remember way back when, when I had that problem. The thing is, I told him. And it ended up he liked me too. So we started dating and for the first maybe 2 or 3 months things were great. And then, I guess you can say, we became more distant. I mean he didn't really talk to me like he used to. My best friend had a better relationship/friendship with him than I did. We would sometimes go days without having a decent conversation and I truly missed it. It seemed like he didn't miss me though. And I guess over a a period of time, I stopped missing him as well. I was so jealous of my friend. I would seriously kill for what I used to have with him. Even if that meant ruining our relationship then and just becoming friends again.
Just be careful. In my story it kinda did ruin our friendship.
2007-03-18 17:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by alexis.=) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can never happen your friend ship will never be the same if you brake up you will never be able to be the same around him what if you get with him and he hurts you and then gets a new woman could you be around that i know i couldnt i would not ever get up a friend ship put your love on the back and keep the friend ship
2007-03-18 17:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to be friends first then fall in love. Tell him how you feel, and also tell him you don't want to ruin your friendship.
2007-03-18 17:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation i dont kno wht to do either. but i told him that i liked him a while bac and me and him have still been good friends he even calls me nick names. jus tell him and he might be ok wit it. i still like him i dont think he knows but i think i might tell him again tonight. i'll tell u wht happened tomorrow.
2007-03-18 17:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if he would like to go to a movie or get a bite to eat an do it a few times he will get the hint you like him
2007-03-18 17:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋