I just turned 17 and she just turned 15. We dated for 28 days and then everything went sour. On what would have been us being together for one month exactly i find out she is dating my best friend. should i be mad? i felt like i wanted to bust him in his face.a week later he called me and told me that he needed help because everything bad that could happen to him was happening to him (thanks to a best friend with alot of other friends ;) ) after that we somewhat became friends again but inside me im still hurt/very mad over him and my ex. He had already paid half of what i was asking for a vehicle and there was no papers at all showing that he paid me anything on the car. Should i give him the car? should i tell him to screw off? Me believing there is a differance between friendship and business i took his money and gave him his car. After the deal was through should i ever speak to him again? should I call war with him? or should i let the whole situation go?
2007-03-18 17:01:18 · 12 answers · asked by blewtsi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you should be mad. And isn't there an unwritten rule or something. Dude, not cool, how could you? But the bestest friend can get through everything. Don't worry, if your ex and your friend were really meant to be then they will stay together, and you shouldn't be mad at that---forget that she was ever your girlfriend. Sorry that was a little mean. But whish them happiest and get it over with! Sorry if that didn't help.
2007-03-18 17:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let the whole situation go, you are to young to be caught up in such drama. There will be other girlfriends and really 28 days is not that long at all.
Your girlfriends did the wrong thing, so did your friend. But if your girlfriend could leave you easily for someone else then she obviously was not the right girl for you. It would of ended whether your friend was there or not.
The best revenge is to succeed and be happy.
Hang in there.
2007-03-18 18:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You waste a lot of time hating people"
I truly believe that. By NO means am I asking you to be buddy-buddy with hime. It was a betrayal. One of the worst a friends can do to another. I think you should tell him how you feel and then figure out if you want him as a friend or not...and tell him.
It's understandable if you want him out of your life, but if you don't...then, don't!
Don't do something like screwing him over the car thing because you are a good person and shouldn't let him f*** with your morals or make you into a bad person.
2007-03-18 17:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by libbyocto14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not to be rude, but you are still kids so have fun don't lose your friend because of a girl. its not like she is your wife. and dont be like that about the car. but if he only payed 1/2 tell him he has to pay the other 1/2 first because he isn't reliable anymore. good luck Hun. and most likely after high school you wont see him anymore anyway so enjoy what time you do have to be a kid.
2007-03-25 03:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by luvnlifelol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should hav gotten papers that he paid for the car
and let it go i mean everything was going sour
the LORD works in clever ways
just let the situation go anf if u cant than im sorry but u might have to talk it over with ur ex if yal still talk!!!!!
2007-03-18 17:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by monnie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you friend about your feelings. Let your friend know how much this is painful for you.
However, since it is now your EX, then anyone should be able to date. Be strong about it and move on with your life. Someone else will come along for you.
2007-03-18 17:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have every right to be mad about, but don't let it get to you though. Be the more mature one and just let it go. By you dropping it shows that your the better person and more mature one then what they are. And if she truely cared about you she would have never done that to you. And also if he was a true bestfriend he would have never done that to you. But i hope my advice helps you out
2007-03-25 18:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by key to your answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats funny when i was 17 me and my best friend dated the same girls all the time.I would date her we would all hang out and when it was over he most likley go out with her for a while we mixed it up alot. im older now and threre is now a code of honor to follow.
2007-03-18 17:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Eric B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. It's just a girl you dated -- and now its over. Your friend's your friend. You'll have many dates, and as time goes on, this incident will lose its meaningfulness.
2007-03-26 13:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be SOOOOO mad if I was you!!! But I wouldn't call a war because girl/boy friends come and go but friends are forever....unless they get married, then yes call a war. =)
2007-03-25 14:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋