Men, how do I get my b.f. more interested in being intimate when he never really was in the first place? We really love eachother but I want more and I want him to benefit from it to. Advice would be appreciated.
2007-03-18 16:59:23 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u have told him u need more sex and he wont give it to you, take matters in to your own hands. this is a win/ win situation. If he sees u doing it he is probably going to get turned on and might offer to finish the job for you, or be happy to watch then have a go of u when ur done with yourself. If he doesnt want to have sex with you u can still pleasure yourself. Go to a sex shop, if u havent already got toys, and get yourself a vib, preferably with a clit tickler. if u have never used one before u dont know what your missing and if u have, well..... i dont know why u dont just use it more often.
2007-03-18 18:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk is always the best...talk about fantasies, things you'd like to try, roll playing...maybe he has some fetish that the two of you could try.
2007-03-19 00:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Grand Poobah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont, when the time is right for both of you then it will
be special. the benefits will be worth it when the time is right.
so dont rush it.
2007-03-19 00:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he'll show it. talk to your boyfriend,tell him how you feel.listen to what he has to say about the relationship.communications the key.
2007-03-19 00:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by sam jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going down should fire it up, ask him what his fantasies are
2007-03-19 00:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by intimadatein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋