Me and my friend Nita have been friends for about 2 years now and about 1 year ago we moved to Idaho together and I eventually moved back cuz I was unable to find work. She has a boyfriend who lives in Alaska and they never talk to eachother, but she thinks she loves him. I know she doesn't love him though cuz she doesn't really like talking to him. On the other hand she spends hours a day on the phone with me. Since wednesday we have spent 15 hrs on the phone together. So do I tell her I love her or not tell her anything? Also how do I tell her?
2007-03-18 16:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by brutus maximus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if i spend days on end with a guy who wanst a bf when i had a bf.. that means i liked him =]
and i would break up with the guy taht i wasnt really talking withh and ask u out.. seeing as she thinkss that she loves him i would just tell her ur feelings for her i mean you really dont have anything to loose. just dont make her feel obligated too break up with someone she might really love. =]
just tell her ur feelings and how you feel and.. hope for the best meaning she feeels the same wayy about you!
best of luck. my wishes to ya.!!
2007-03-18 16:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her. if you two both have moved to idaho together and have been talking on the phone for half a day, you two have something going on. obviously, her long distance relationship isn't working if they don't talk to each other. just tell her how you feel and that you will always be there for her.
2007-03-19 00:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for some quiet time, just the 2 of you.
Go out to a park, turn off your cell phone, and just talk.
Give her a smile that starts slow and continues a long time. Keep eye contact with her, and smile like you really mean it.
Open up to her about your feelings.
2007-03-19 00:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't if I were you. Sounds to me like whether she loves him or not, she thinks of you as only a friend. You might just embarass yourself and ruin your friendship. Take your time, wait to see if she ends it with him.
2007-03-18 23:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait and see if you and her get any closer first. telling her you love her too soon could ruin you guys' friendship, so just see where your relationship with her goes, and then act off of that.
2007-03-19 00:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by st_gurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her. Unless you want to be "just freinds" and nothing more, ever.
Don't tell her over the phone
2007-03-19 00:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by lol200hp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you think its about time you guys ?!@*&^
And if she says no then move on, but always keep your love for her on the backburner (JK)
Gâ£â£d luckâ¥
2007-03-19 00:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You speak English. She speaks English. So just tell her. I am sure she will understand. Smile!
2007-03-18 23:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋