how can i keep sex from being boring with my husband? what can i do to keep it fun?

Answer 1

First, on the first and third week of the month it is up to you to come up with a date of some type, on the second and the fourth it is up to your other to come up with a date. The big thing is you should never repeat the exact same date twice in a six month time period. If you follow the "not repeat" idea your dates will be more fun. A date could be...a long walk and a picnic lunch...wash each others car(s) and then each other and take it from there...go to the drug store and look for a card to give each other and exchange the card there, read the card, put the card back, then go to an auto showroom and pick out a car for each other but don't buy them, then go to the mall and pick out clothes for each other but don't get them, the look for sexy things for both to wear and BUY THEM! These are but a few of the cheap date ideas you can have fun with.

Second, you can have a date at homelike...put down a tarp in the garage and our sand on top the tarp...put two lawn chairs on the tarp or better yet a blanket, put something to drink in an ice chest...next some things to read to help you both relax...put on your swim suits and drink your drinks maybe even eat some snacks...talk a bit and then make love on your private beach.

Third, save up your cash and pick out an area within a short driving distance...go on the internet and one finds a place you can stay overnight while the other finds places to eat and things to do... get in your care and get away for the weekend!

Fourth, bring new ideas, toys, and positions into your sex life. Have a fantasy night where you share an exiting dream or idea you heard about and try it out. I got my wife a toy from www.durex.com and wow does she love it. Go out on the internet and do a search on sexual positions like this site (an adult type site animations only not real pictures) http://users.forthnet.gr/ath/nektar/kma/... and you might find out some new ways of doing the same old thing. Remember to always have a “safe word” to say if you want to stop what’s doing on so the mate will know you are not playing but don’t like it and want to stop. I hope I did not upset you with these ideas!

Fifth, what ever you do don't do it for yourself, do it for the other! The thing that makes a relationship so special is the seeds you plant in the others heart and not your own. My wife and I have been together for 34 years and she is the joy of my life. I find that with a lot of love, some special times, and a lot of laughs I find a new woman sleeping next to me every night that look as cute as the woman I said "I Do" to 34 years ago. I just can't wait to see what she will become tomorrow. May you both have that kind of love, blessings to you both.



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Answer 2

Are you worried about it being boring for you or for him? If it's you that's bored, teach him exactly how to please you...men aren't really born knowing what makes a woman feel good, and most are willing to learn.

If you're worried about him getting bored, just be willing to try new things with him...new positions, oral sex and anal sex (lots of lube required for that one, and you have to relax for it to work) if you don't already do that, maybe get some sex toys, watch porn together, try blindfolding each other or tying each other up, share your fantasies with each other, pull him into the bedroom (or another room if you don't have kids yet) for a quickie when he gets home from work, send him text messages at work telling him how hot he is and what you want to do when he gets home (but only message like that on his personal cell phone, NOT his work computer)...I think the couples who get bored are the ones who stick to one position, who have certain days that they have sex on, who think sex can only happen after dark, or who think that some sex acts are taboo or inappropriate. My husband and I have always felt that anything that brings us pleasure (that doesn't involve other people) is acceptable and allowed in the bedroom, and after ten years of marriage our sex life is hotter than ever!

Answer 3

Strip teases are always good. If he returns home from work meet him at the door with full clothing. Make him drop his bags and walk him to your bedroom. Start stripping with good backround music. Stripping him down is always good also. To make it even more fun, use oral. Your tounge is the best use. Move it around in your mouth when your doing oral. He'll like it.

There is also sex tips in sex books for adults. If you enjoy or never experienced watching porn; watch it with your husband. Try new sex postitions and have laughs with it. Sex is not a bad thing. When you ahve aged it doesn't mean your wildness has.

Answer 4

Find out from him what would make your sex life more fulfilling for him. He may have fantasizes he wants to share with you but may be afraid you'll think there to kinky? But what ever they are, if there are any, at least try them out, you may like them more then you know. Also fulfill your fantasizes with him. Why be scared and ashamed of it when it's with your husband. It's not like anyone will be there watching you. Do some crazy stuff yourself. Like buy some sex lingerie, [see through] and have it on when he get home.

Answer 5

Role Play is a great idea.

Some roles and cues follow...lol

School Teacher and Student: "I think you need to stay after class for some private tutoring."
Flight Attendant and Passenger: "Coffee, tea,... or me?"
Homeowner and Plumber: "Hurry, I need you to unclog my pipes!"
Police Officer and Burglar: "Spread 'em!"
Firefighter and Frightened Citizen: "Let me get my hose and put your fire out."
Former Surgeon General and School Student: "Let me teach you how to masturbate."
Photographer and Subject: "Why don't we try some with your clothes off...smile."
Star "Trekee" and Star Trekee: "Beam me up Scotty, a Klingon's invading Uranus!"
Madonna and Adoring Fan: "Get into the groove, boy, you've got to prove your love to me."

Answer 6

in line with possibility she desires some counseling, became there any sexual abuse in her previous which you're attentive to? My spouse became like that, as she has elderly, she seems to be peaking now, to a element the place i'm having a confusing time retaining up together with her. i think of you're able to ask her bluntly to objective and make greater attempt to make issues greater effective. If she isnt keen, in line with possibility it's time to seek someplace else. this could be a mutual ingredient, no longer i visit for you just to make you happpy! sturdy success Bro, It sucks! Been there accomplished that!

Answer 7

Don't have sex. That's it. Go to starbucks and get hyper off of a frappuccino and then go see a movie. more PG that way.

Answer 8

Bring some hot chicks home to share.

Answer 9

Two words: role play

Answer 10

Watch football with him. Get a strippers pole in your bedroom.