once before, i was torn between two girls and it really sucked. so now i like a girl who likes me and another guy. cuz i'm leaving and i don't really know her too well, i told her that although i wanted a chance with her, i was willing to just be her friend. but that just seemed to make her sad. so i asked my other friend for advice of what to do. he said the best thing to do was to annoy her into not liking me anymore, that way she feels good about herself but stops liking me. is this the way to go about this?
2007-03-18 16:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO THAT IS JUST DUMB. YOU HAVE TOLD HER HOW YOU FEEL SO IF SHE RESPECTS YOU SHE WILL ACCEPT IT AND MOVE ON.
2007-03-18 16:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by karena k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, No it isn't. You want to be honest and tell her the truth. You wanting to be friends should be okay with her since you are leaving. If she seems sad to you just leave it a long and hopefully she will be happy just being your friend. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-18 16:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that what you really want? I think you should let her feel sad now as she likes you. It's only natural. Moreover, you can still remain as friends and do know when you may need to contact each other again. Just leave it as that.
2007-03-18 16:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you just making it worse.. If you really like her then you should promise her that your going back for her.. There no doubt that the girl wants you too.. But be sure that your really going back for her because if your not going to do that she will hate you.. That you don't know how to make that come true.. Good luck
2007-03-18 18:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. thats horrible! you should tell her she should go out with the other guy who's going to be there with her. long distance relationships aren't that fun. im sorry since you like her :'( but you'll find someone you really like and who likes you soon :) good luck!
2007-03-18 16:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is...
the the will of desity take you on the right path.
my manipulating her emotions and doing what you assume is the "right" thing to do for her sake is chauvinist and selfish. don't insult her capacity to handle emotion!
if you like her, proclaim it for the world to see and let her make her decision.
2007-03-18 16:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by Babumoshai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Karma. That's what your *** gets for trying to choose over two girls. Your *** just got whipped.
2007-03-18 16:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. NAH! no dont do that.
i dont think you want her to stop liking you right?
2007-03-18 16:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by bii. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noo... that is totaly immature... dont listen to ur friend!
2007-03-18 16:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by inlove 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart thinks
2007-03-18 16:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋