my boyfriend and i have been together since january 23, 2007 and we are not intimate i think hes ready to be intimate but just wants to wait for me and im ready but i dont know how to tell him, we began talking in the summer of 06 then we stopped and now we talk again. i also want to know if im rushing our relationship because i really care about him and love him but i just dont want to lose him
2007-03-18 16:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by Lue Lue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, SEX won't keep your man!!! THere are always hoes out there willing so if you think you'll lose him if you don't give it up then you are wrong. If he is respectful then he will wait for you. If you are truly ready then invite him over when no one else is there. Engage in kissing and allow temptation to do the rest! But never feel that you have to. Listen to the song by Lyfe Jennings- S.E.X.
2007-03-18 16:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you are rushing things is if you aren't ready but are still going to do it! but you said you are ready right? so its ok... you just have to really want it because you can regret later on! also please don't let him pressure you. i don;t know if he is but just don't!...... and well if you are ready for it don't tell him, just say you would like to go to a romantic place, and you know things will get hot so just this time don't stop it! go with the flow.... but just remember, you be the one to take protection, because he might not know he will need it :) but seriously be sure of it!! ok well good luck with that!! :)
2007-03-18 23:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by gaby5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't rush it but slowly get intimate with him.
2007-03-18 23:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really your choice on if your rushing it or not, and if you both want it just let him know and take it from there, being creative really helps.
2007-03-18 23:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just write him a sweet note. Hope it works out.
2007-03-18 23:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should buy condoms first, then u should just push him on the bed and start doin it w/ him, or give him some condoms and tell him to suck it, and if he doesnt u do it urself
or u can tell him and maybe he will, if u dont know what do do i suggest u use my advice..............
2007-03-18 23:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Hope G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the q is: do u want to be with him for the rest of uru life???
2007-03-18 23:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Bunny Luvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋