I have bought plane tickets to visit this guy friend of mine overseas. I should be staying over for a few days. I admit I have feelings for him. I am not sure how he feels. I know guys are not supposed to be trusted when it comes to this, but I do not think he will attempt anything. I am fine with going but received mixed reactions from my family. Should I or should I not go? Also, I have friends there and they might talk behind us. He could be treating me as just friends because he already has a gf. Btw, he was the one who's asked me to go over so many times. I am prepared to refund my tickets... I even thought of visiting a tarot reader to find out. Please let me know what would you have done. Consider also the fact that the guy is someone you really like. Thanks.
2007-03-18 16:14:45 · 11 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would go with just friend intentions in mind, that way you don't get hurt if he isn't thinking that. I would think of it this way, the best part is you get to visit somewhere new and see new things and have new experiences. Go have fun!
2007-03-18 16:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by cat12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust him?That is the most important thing in this situation.If you feel
comfortable going to visit him then I say go.The right guys can be trusted you know.
What kind of friends do you have who would talk behind your back? I wouldn't call them friends if they do.
If he's treating you as just a friend i say that's good.You have no worries.Maybe you don't trust yourself since you have feelings for him. Just remember he has a girlfriend.
I wouldn't bother with a tarot reader.......Just trust your own instincts.
If nothing else....you can enjoy the vacation overseas and it was nice of him to ask you. I think you're making too much of this.
2007-03-18 16:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt depend on the advice of a tarot or psychic because they are not worth the money to help you decide on a choice that should clearly be your own. I would also take into consideration that he is in a relationship with someone and you visiting could cause issues so your choice is to not go or if you do go to stay in a hotel near where he is because his gf wouldnt be too comfortable with another woman staying in the house around her man. I would also keep the feelings in check because if the guy you like is with someone you want to be respectful of his status and you wouldnt want your man to have his female friend staying and you learn she likes him because it would be weird. I would still go, but I would consider staying in a hotel near where he is.
2007-03-18 16:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO!
Whether or not you have feelings for him, if you trust him not to try anything, and he has a girlfriend, do what is right for you. If you didn't think going was the right decision, you wouldn't have got the tickets. You can't live your life based on what everyone else thinks, your family included. You never know what you might miss if you don't go, and you will probably regret it for the rest of your life if you refund those tickets.
2007-03-18 16:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by jhostman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of those are the two ethical and criminal themes. a ethical difficulty has to do with what a society famous to be morally suitable and incorrect. A criminal difficulty has to do some thing this is defined by making use of regulation and can be legally enforced or prosecuted. All 3 of the stated themes meet the two off those standards.
2016-12-18 17:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by andie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say when in doubt...don't. Your instincts are telling you to stay home. Make it safe...have a gf go with you. Then you get to enjoy the guy and be safe. She can always entertain herself for a little while if you need some alone time. If he has a fit with that idea....stay home, his motives are in question! A taro reader is just another way to be crooked.
2007-03-18 16:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Great Grandma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with staying with a guy as long as you can control yourself. If you can't, maybe you should stay in a hotel. They have those overseas, right?
2007-03-18 16:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! This has nothing to do with your question, but rather with a previous question you asked, entitled 'This would mean...?'
You had asked me to elaborate on the episode of Family Guy i mentioned.
Well, here is a youtube clip of it:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=tWbz2Dp-gQM
Again, the episode is title 'He's Too Sexy For His Fat'.
Bye!
2007-03-20 17:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will tell you this....if he has a g/f and wants you to come over to see him then her is Trin to get in your pants...and you will probably never see him again.....so do not waste your money on the tickets if he wanted to see you so bad then he would come see you!!! am i right...and if he makes up some excuse for not being able to come to you then he has nothin to lose either you come and he gets laid or he gets laid from his girl ...he is in a win win situation and you are in a lose lose situation right now...think about long and hard homie
2007-03-18 16:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for him & he is already seeing someone...your setting yourself up for heartache.
I would remain a distant friend and maybe someday if he is available you can tell him how you feel.
Until then I would just lookout for yourself and try to move on with your life.
2007-03-18 16:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋