Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

I have not seen my girl friend in about three weeks. And we both have missed her a lot. When she gets back next week I want to go do something with her. From a girls point of view, what is your idea of "the perfect date"?

2007-03-17 06:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by burn409 2 in Singles & Dating

I wanna show them what a REAL MAN is. NORTHERN guys are the true man, that why we whooped those southerner's @ss to heck in the civil war.

so how do i ask one of them out?

2007-03-17 06:19:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is currently deployed and laid it on me again!! He wants a divorce! =( I am so heartbroken I honestly thought he had changed! We was doing better than ever or so I thought Then he asked me to chat with other woman which has been an issue for us for a long time now! I finally put my foot down he got mad and then the next convo was he wanted a divorce! I am so confused and dont know what to do! I have been trying to give him his space and when we talk its more friendly because I never want to talk about whats going on! I dont know wether to beileve him or not It could be so many things! He said he doesnt love me enough to spend the rest of his life with me! This is the man I do everything for cook clean massages making his plate for dinner sex atleast once a day!! I just dont understand! We get along very well except for the computer issue!! I need some insight plz!!

2007-03-17 06:19:49 · 23 answers · asked by Sheri 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend been crushed lots with love and stuff and now likes this gurl that is in a grade higher then him and might get hurt again so what should i tell him if he askes "do i have a chance with her?" i meen he might but just to be safe!

2007-03-17 06:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Mcduck 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 06:18:24 · 3 answers · asked by nick_webhacker 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister is having a wedding and there is a debate on the time for the reception, who is right 2 or 3 hours

2007-03-17 06:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by e_sylve 1 in Weddings

Well i dont know what to do, i told my best friend i really liked this lad we are really close and my friend goes up to him and cuddles him and kisses him and sits on his lap right infront of my face then she comes up to me and says are you alright ? you look a bit upset.. and im thinking to my self "ur spose to be my best friend stop rubbing it in my face and being a total B***H!... please help

2007-03-17 06:16:50 · 9 answers · asked by Babypk2k7 1 in Friends

He has been gone now for 6 months after trying for 3 years to get him out of our joint home. It was a nightmare time as he was a serial adulterer, an alchoholic, jobless, and with no friends. He was also abusive although not physically.
He doesnt phone our son hardly sees him, he even showed scant interest in his school report when I rang him today.
He pays no maintenance but very gives me a few pounds when I ask for it which I dont do very often.

He has now said I am being very shi**y not letting him see our son although I have never put any obstacles in the way of access at all and have always openly encouraged it. His way of thinking is that he can come over at a pre arranged date and spend time with our son then stay the night and go home next day. It takes him only 40 minutes to drive home so thats not the issue.
It took me so long to get him out of the house I dont want him here overnight any more.
Am I being awkward or is he?
Sorry to be so long winded,

2007-03-17 06:16:12 · 31 answers · asked by ? 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 06:16:04 · 2 answers · asked by southernsoul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 20 and so is he. I am a virgin and dont think he is. I dont want "wait till marriage answers". How long should I wait to sleep with him if I want a serious relationships?

2007-03-17 06:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend hook up all the time and hes way out of my league. But i like him so much. but i dont think hes looking for a girlfreind, even if he was, i dought he would want to be with me. i just want him to like me and i donno how to get him to do that. Well i know he likes me because we have hooked up before but i dont think hell ever want to date me. I think...

2007-03-17 06:15:58 · 4 answers · asked by missC 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband offten get in these argument that i'm never happy. i'm pregnant with our second child and yesterday i was having really bad stomach pains, felt sick on my somach, a little fever and an acking body. and i told him this and he said oh ok and continued what he was doing. and later i asked him to rub my stomach and back, but he had this look like i don't want to. where we are it was cold and raining. which was no problem because the cold air makes my body ack, and i didn't want to have my other child in the rain. later his sister and brother where going out with some friends, and he asked me if i wanted to go out with them, and i said no. and he had the nerves to ask me WHY NOT. i said because i've told you all day that mt body hurt, but you act like you don't care. which that lead into an arguement. now this isn't the first time he has not paid attenchen to me when i'm sick. but if he's sick i'm there for him. is it me or is he in the wrong?

2007-03-17 06:15:38 · 7 answers · asked by erilso 2 in Family

Are the majority of ur current friends,

From School.......... From Work?

2007-03-17 06:15:31 · 8 answers · asked by ♣Kermit the Frog♣ 4 in Friends

lastnight i went out with my mates,one of my close friends happen to be a guy who i think likes me. anyway,i enjoying my self lastnight then my friend got a call from her mum saying she has to go home. we were going to stay round our friends house that night and me and her were gonna share a bed. so instead i had to share a bed with my guy friend. and things got a bit hot under the covers. we were cuddling alot and he was touching me all over and i kept holding on to him,heb tried to kiss me but i pulled away. and then this morning we just acted as nothing happend. we both wanted it last night but neither of us were going to make the first move.and now i dont know how to act round him anymore. also he told me he loved me and that i was hot! i dont know what our friendship means anymore. does he really like me? do i like him?

2007-03-17 06:15:26 · 1 answers · asked by oooops! 2 in Singles & Dating

i would terribly dislike it.
would like to get more opinions...

2007-03-17 06:14:13 · 9 answers · asked by meethu 2 in Singles & Dating

help please!!!

2007-03-17 06:14:03 · 21 answers · asked by caramel chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

My Mom and Aunt come over and eat any junk food in my house. The devour everything like a pack of locusts. If I have no junk food, they will rip open bags of chocolate chips. My aunt is diabetic and will eat so much sugar in one sitting she will throw up. My Mom does the same thing at my sister's house, even eating all the candy they were saving for a holiday. How could we solve this problem?

2007-03-17 06:13:52 · 3 answers · asked by Candy H 2 in Family

How did you break him of it .

2007-03-17 06:13:36 · 10 answers · asked by maxiumdamage 2 in Singles & Dating

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp.

She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.

She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.

2007-03-17 06:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I tell if my boyfriend (age 16) is happy/unhappy with me? Are there any signs that teen guys give if they would like to be with someone else?

2007-03-17 06:12:59 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad and my aunt have been fueding for years. So that mean I can't see my awesome cousins. I can't talk to my dad about it because he's sensitive. But I want to see my cousins. Talking to them on instant messanger isn't enough. I feel like I've been dug into a corner. I'm trapped. What do I do???

2007-03-17 06:12:54 · 3 answers · asked by Alex D 2 in Family

How can I meet some women?
I mean: what must I do, where must I go, and tell me exactly what can I say to start a conversation with some girl or some girls? With details, please. Don't forget to give me details.
Help me please. I don't have friends that are too close to me, or that understand me, and the ones that I could count as friends are not very close to my heart, and they don't know me very well.
I am very lonely because of this.
I live in Europe, and I have to say: if you tell me to read some self-help book, you don't help me at all; I can not find American books very easily...

I thought maybe you could help me by describing something that you are sure will work.
But you have to understand, (I repeat:) I don't have friends, I am shy, my face looks like I am 18, and actually I'm 23 years old. I am a thin guy. I would not know what exactly to say about me, in the meaning: ugly/nice/cute etc... most girls say I'm "ok", or if I insist "cute", or something...so I'm unsure of that.

2007-03-17 06:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by new in town 1 in Friends

Then I found out that she knows my girlfriend. What should I do
to straighten everything out with my girlfriend since she knows about everything now.

2007-03-17 06:12:31 · 15 answers · asked by Michael G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 06:12:21 · 6 answers · asked by Megan 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf of 4 months slept with another guy and amazingly I forgave her only to have to let it go abt 10 days ago because she said her feelings for me change everyday (she may like me one day and have no feelings for me the next).

sent her a txt sayin if you show me your remorseful then id love to b friends. But if your not remorseful about sleeping with another guy then I dont want an apology because you are not worth my time.

I talk to her the 1st time since then and she swears to me that she has told me she apologized, which is untrue. I still think abt her and want to b with her and she says "Sry you feel that way" and then finally she says "Sorry I can apologize, because I dont do apologies."

I am still around her alot and I cant stop thinking about her. My questions are

1 Was the txt too harsh
2 Should I tell her I forgive her completely, and move on (still friends)
3 Should I keep my distance cuz I heard from someone she didnt care abt me wnting a apology.

2007-03-17 06:11:08 · 12 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Singles & Dating

I lie down and pray
That everything would go back
To the way it used to be
Where we looked into each others eyes
And knew
We were each others everything
Why can’t we go back?
Where everything seemed to be perfect
Where you would hold me keeping me warm
And saying everything will be alright
Why can’t we go back?
To when we stayed up late
Telling each others our fears and saying our love you’s
Now it seems like my worst fear is here
Where I have to find a blanket to keep warm
Where I have to tell myself everything will be alright
Staying up late with you not here
Living my fear
And know one to say my I love you too
And I just lie down and pray
That everything would go back
To the way it used to be
Where we looked into each others eyes
And knew
We were each others everything
-ME

2007-03-17 06:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by Faith C 2 in Singles & Dating

Although we've known each other for a long time, we've been doing this "friends" thing since the holidays. It began as a hug, then we went out as friends. Then one day, he began to give me a kiss on the cheek when we hugged. I've sat back and let him lead but have responded when he has taken another step so he knows I feel the same way. He came into my office a couple of weeks ago and spent an hour in my office talking - and telling me about his faith. I don't practice the Muslim faith but our belief systems seem to be very similar - I just haven't had the oppotunity to tell him about mine. Surrender, Accountability, Peace are all very important to me. He tells me to call him, but when I do he is busy, will call me - but doesn't. He tells me he wants to find "a good woman" - I think I am a good woman and care for him deeply. I know "dating" is different in the Muslim tradition than what I am used to. How do I show him that I am a good woman without offending him? Help me understand.

2007-03-17 06:09:03 · 8 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4 in Singles & Dating

well i posted on here a week ago how my guy friend said he loved me and that was all cool...i decided to tell him how i felt so i said have you ever thought of me and he said yeah at times but i am talkin to someone so i said what do you mean at times so he said yes i did like you before but i am talkin to someone at this time so i told him today thanks for being honest and i wish you and whoever the best so he smiles and says i dont think me and her are gonna work out so i laugh and say wow why so negative and he says well i dont think so, i know were not so i said well you know who to call so he says i will, i will...so where do i go from here
does he really like me??? whats goin on help lol

2007-03-17 06:08:48 · 5 answers · asked by nativebeauty22 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband dearly, and no i'm not having an affair. The problem is that I'm just not as interested in sex anymore like I use to be. He obviously can't understand this, nor can I explain it, to his satisfaction. How can I make him understand that just because I dont have the same sex drive anymore, its not because I'm not in love with him anymore, cause I am. I just seem to have lost my sex drive for no apparent reason or is there a reason medically possibly for this change?

2007-03-17 06:08:38 · 30 answers · asked by Invisible Pink RN 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE to move..I paid my ex boyfriend of 10 years $30,000.00 to buy him out of our house and STUPID me got nothing in writting and he took me to court and my 2 sons and I have to sell and move out by June. I, 2007.. also do NOT get any of the equity. I also put alot of money into fixing up the house the 10 years we lived here...new roof, window, cement drive..etc...I could go on and on..I KNOW>>ME DAH! anyways anyone know anyplace that rents to people with pets for we have 2 dogs. It would only be me and my 14 yr old son. My oldest son is going off on his own. THANK YOU!

2007-03-17 06:08:29 · 1 answers · asked by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 in Family