2007-03-17 06:12:21 · 6 answers · asked by Megan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my view if you are talking about a living male there is a 95% chance he will cheat on you sooner or later and if he is not doing at this moment he is probably thinking about it. I think the longer you are with a guy the easier it is to tell if he is telling lies and usually when you get to this stage and cannot trust him anymore you have to say goodbye. I have probably only met 3 guys I would totally trust in 27 years and even one of those betrayed me after almost 10 years of seeing him - all the time he was cheating on his wife anyway and I guess I should have realised what goes around comes around. Anyway, once I realise I can not trust a guy (be it after a first date or 10 years) it ends the relationship. If you are in doubt about whether he is being faithful your intuition has a 99% chance of being right so best finish with him.
Yes - this contribution is depressing but it is life. Sorry.
2007-03-17 06:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Skyblue Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion better dont try to find out. if you find him that he is cheating on you, you are the one who is going to get hurt. only bother about how he is with you. if you feel he not respecting you r not loving you then you take a decision about what to do. let the things come to you, you dont try to find out. because you r the one who take the pain.
2007-03-17 13:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by sangeetha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. Talk to him and see what he tells you. Look for inconsistencies. If things aren't resolved you have to cut him loose. It's making you miserable
2007-03-17 13:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're asking, it doesn't matter if he is or if he isn't. You need to find a boyfriend that doesn't make you want to ask this question.
2007-03-17 13:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...u kould tell straight away....wat evr he dont do anymore w/u or to u,his not sweet,he wont talk, he wont want to b w/u..or just cut u like staright away,wont pay attention to u....etc....hope this helps!
2007-03-17 13:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begg them to tell you the truth, and say in a nice voice
" Please, i want to trust you"
You might also see by there face expression.
2007-03-17 13:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋