my friend been crushed lots with love and stuff and now likes this gurl that is in a grade higher then him and might get hurt again so what should i tell him if he askes "do i have a chance with her?" i meen he might but just to be safe!
2007-03-17 06:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Mcduck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every relationship comes with a certain risk attached to it, and I'm sure he's aware of it from his past experiences. Just let him go for it and support him. If it doesn't work out then he can look elsewhere, but it's better to have tried that to regret.
2007-03-17 06:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by L ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, we all get hurt, and if we let the hurt rule our hearts then we will never find what we are looking for. Every partner we have we worry about this, but if we don't take a chance then we will never know if it will work out or not. Just tell your friend that he should keep looking for the qualities in a woman that he finds really attractive and go from there. Always tell him to try to keep the communication going because this is the most important part of a relationship. If you can't talk to your partner what can you do? How do you know if anything is wrong. partners can't read each others minds, thats why its so important for communication. Take care Heather
2007-03-17 06:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to show the gurl she's the 1 for him
2007-03-17 06:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with saying how much you care about him, and that it would hurt you if you saw him get crushed again. "Hey look, I'm worried about you and I hate to see you get hurt by these girls so be careful bud." Something like that, good luck to your friend.
2007-03-17 06:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has no chance whatsoever (thats how it sounds) just say ' i'm sorry but to be honest, not really, your a great guy, and girls tell me your good looking to, i just think its never gonna happen, she wants to go out with older guys, she'll settle for guys her age, but she'll never go out with someone younger than her.' try and get him talking about other girls, suggest girls who he DOES have a chance with, and maybe ty and tactfully set them up if they like each other.
dont say its because of his looks or social status, stick to the age thing!
2007-03-17 06:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by bojanglestothemax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
older girls with younger guys arent too good. the girl will almost always break his heart just because she can. she has that power in the relationship if she's older. i'd advise him to be careful.
2007-03-17 06:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth
2007-03-17 06:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by narjess a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, no one on Yahoo Answers can do that for you.
2007-03-17 06:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ [þæ] ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that he might but he also might be crushed. that wouldnt sound as bad as HELL NO!
2007-03-17 06:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol little kitty love.
2007-03-17 06:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by rres32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋