I am 20 and so is he. I am a virgin and dont think he is. I dont want "wait till marriage answers". How long should I wait to sleep with him if I want a serious relationships?
2007-03-17 06:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU SHOULD DO WHEN YOU FEEL THE TIME IS RIGHT... SOMETIMES IT TAKES MONTHS AND SOMETIMES IT TAKES DAYS... IT ALL DEPENDS HOW YOU FEEL WITH HIM, HOW CONFORTABLE YOU ARE. I MEAN SOME SAY WAIT UNTIL AFTER A FEW MONTHS SO HE CAN TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY OR EVEN YEARS.. HONESTLY IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE GUY ANDHOW HE FEELS FOR YOU.. IF HE JUST WANT YOU FOR THAT HE WILL STILL USE YOU NO MATTER HOW LONG HE WAITS BUT IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU HE WILL STAY EVEN IF YOU GUYS DO IT THE NEXT DAY. I'M TELLING YOU THIS BECAUSE I'VE HAD SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS AND IT DIDN'T MATTER HOW LONG WE WAITED THE LOVE WAS STILL THERE! I HOPE YOU GET WHAT I'M SAYING.. OK GOOD LUCK
2007-03-17 06:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by gaby5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the time is right then do it. There is no magic number I promise you that. Only answer is "if the time feels right to you"
By the way I surely wont say wait til marriage I think that's the wrong idea. After all what if you marry the guy and find out your not sexually compatable? Then your not going to be happy are you. You wouldnt buy a car without a test drive, I suggest you test drive your man before you make a commitment..lol
2007-03-17 06:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Serious relationship is not base on sex.
You dont want "Wait till marriage" answer. Then sleep with him now..you're going to do it anyway.
2007-03-17 06:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by hygrade4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man! This is serious!
Since your still a virgin I would wait several months. Giving up your virginity to someone who you don't know well can be devastating.
Ask yourself "do I love this man enough to let him hurt me?"
As at your age hurt may be what you encounter. Be careful that hes not out to just get in your pants, just because you are a virgin.
2007-03-17 06:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a set time for when you should sleep with him. As corny as it is - listen to your heart. Don't just sleep with him to lose your virginity or keep him around. When you're ready to have sex with him, you'll know.
If he is interested in a serious relationship, he'll wait until you're ready. And if he's not willing to wait, then he wasn't worth it anyways.
2007-03-17 06:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that your a virgin- wait one million-2 years in the journey that your no longer-wait a minimum of 6 months i comprehend it appears like an prolonged time yet once you do it any faster he will prob. think of your elementary and a wh0re!!! no offense! yet dont rush into issues. that way whilst the 2d does come... it extremely is going to be plenty extra effectual mentally and bodily mentally- when you consider which you wil have bonded and related with the guy extra bodily- when you consider which you have been waiting for this 2d for a lone time and additionally you would be excited and frisky and leap precise into it! additionally you would be extra comfortable in attempting (new issues) and such!!!
2016-10-02 07:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by gilboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin, then make sure he is worth it, don't lose it to just any guy. Wait 6 months or longer...if you think he is the one, then whats the rush?
2007-03-17 06:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't done it yet? Amazing in this day and age. That would be a special gift to him. Most girls give there virginity to a guy around Christmas time.
2007-03-17 06:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you. one can not tell you how long, you need to wait. When the time is right for you, then you will know.
2007-03-17 06:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i still say after marrige but if u want it to get serious u have to keep him waiting until ur engaged
2007-03-17 06:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by URworstNITEmare 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋