Me and my husband offten get in these argument that i'm never happy. i'm pregnant with our second child and yesterday i was having really bad stomach pains, felt sick on my somach, a little fever and an acking body. and i told him this and he said oh ok and continued what he was doing. and later i asked him to rub my stomach and back, but he had this look like i don't want to. where we are it was cold and raining. which was no problem because the cold air makes my body ack, and i didn't want to have my other child in the rain. later his sister and brother where going out with some friends, and he asked me if i wanted to go out with them, and i said no. and he had the nerves to ask me WHY NOT. i said because i've told you all day that mt body hurt, but you act like you don't care. which that lead into an arguement. now this isn't the first time he has not paid attenchen to me when i'm sick. but if he's sick i'm there for him. is it me or is he in the wrong?
2007-03-17 06:15:38 · 7 answers · asked by erilso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Is this the life you wanted? You wanted to get married to this man and have his babies? If so, then don't complain.
If you chose freely to live the life you have now, it's your own responsibility.
Maybe you both are still young and he wants to go out. Why shouldn't he? But he should understand that you weren't in the mood at that time. Some more understanding and tenderness might be appreciated.
Good luck.
2007-03-17 06:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Hanya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you can have another child. Try to be flexible. Next time so OK, I'll go, but I don't feel well so let's only hang out for just a little while. Making him stay in like that is not fair. However, he needs to be sweet to you right now. Maybe if you complain less he will hear you more when you do complain.
2007-03-17 06:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant with his child, he should want to make you comfortable. My husband doesn't like to rub me either. It is a guy thing. They just aren't nurturers. Like you I am there for him when he is sick. But you know, the world is coming to an end when they are sick!!!!! Your responsibility is to take care of you, Stop "taking care" of him for a while. Tell him he'll get it when you do!!! LOL
2007-03-17 09:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should pay attention to what u are saying because in this moment u need someone who support u. did u talked to a family friend that can listen to both of u in the same time because u should or he is slipping away.
2007-03-17 06:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it were really cold and raining and outside, then, i guess he wouldn't really want to rub your back outside when it's cold and in public. i think he should be paying more attention though, you are pregnant with his child and he should stay with you if you need it.
2007-03-17 06:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Liquid♥Onyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you man is falling short of the mark.
he needs to make you the most important thing in is life.
2007-03-17 20:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right.
It wouldn't hurt him to show some care.
2007-03-17 06:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋