help please!!!
2007-03-17 06:14:03 · 21 answers · asked by caramel chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im about to be 18 in august
2007-03-17 06:27:47 · update #1
what if u just started? how would u tell her?
2007-03-19 08:37:01 · update #2
also your are about 2 go 2 the doctor this month.
2007-03-19 08:41:58 · update #3
it all depends on how responsible you are and if you are really,and truely ready. i would look deep inside for the right answer from within yourself
2007-03-25 06:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by shelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got your whole life ahead of you to have sex...don't rush into it now while you're still young and living with your parents.
As much as I'm sure you hate to hear it, most parents have their kid's best interests at heart when they tell them not to do something. Most of the time they say "no" because they want to protect you (from getting hurt, physically or emotionally). And believe me, there's a lot to be protected from when it comes to sex.
I remember being young and being curious about it. But I also remember that when I finally did do it (at age 21, no less), it was awkward, messy and a little embarassing and I was glad I waited to do it with someone I cared about, who I knew cared about me and would be kind and patient, and wouldn't be a jerk and just run out and tell his buddies "Hey, I just had sex with so-and-so, high five!"
Try and figure out *why* it is you want to do it.
* Just for the pleasure? Heck you can pleasure yourself without any of the extra hangups sex brings.
* Because everyone else is doing it? Ha, you know what your mom would say about if everyone else jumped off a bridge. This isn't a good reason.
* Because you're young and horny? Well...we all were, and many of us survived. Think with your head, not your genitals...they can really get you into trouble.
There are so many downsides to having sex too early...not just the diseases you might catch or the pregnancy part, but the emotional hangups too. Make sure to think about all these things before making your decision.
Good luck!
2007-03-17 13:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by michxenafan 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be quite fun, but it is also a serious thing. If you decide that you are ready emotionally, not just physically, then you should make sure you protect your body, not just your heart. Please use protection and if your mother does not think you are ready yet then you should respect her feelings but you must do what is right for yourself.
But, you should talk to her about what you have done if you feel that she should know. I think if your mother has told you she doesn't want you to have sex yet then the two of you have a close enough relationship to discuss these types of situations and therefore you should also think enough of her to share what is going on in your life. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 20:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't u just wait? is it that important to do it so bad and have to worry about having kids running around? go to school and finish 1st. then you'll make a lot of money and can do whatever ur heart desires. if u already done it then u should of thought of that before. ur mom only wants the best 4 u.
2007-03-25 13:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom doesn't want you to because sex is a big responsibility with dire consequences. Your girl could get pregnant and you can contract diseases-not fun and not worth it. If you are a teen just enjoy being a teen without rushing into it. However if you are gung-ho and determined to do it, PLEASE read up on how to protect yourself and your partner and take necessary measures to prevent pregnancies. Go to Planned Parenthood. If you want to do it, at least be responsible.
2007-03-17 13:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your Mother Is Right, it could be the biggest mistake of your life. Wait until you find the right guy, or he finds you. So many people have sex just so they can say they did. When you find that certain someone (and you will) it will mean so much more. Be patient and wait.
2007-03-25 08:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming you're female; are you ready to accept all the emotional and psycological issues that go with it?
Are you ready for STD's and a possible pregnency?, bc nothing is 100% safe and guys just dont care about you, only what's in those jeans and taking your "P"ower...Mom always knows what'sbest for her girls, but ultimately it's your decision and choice to do what you may reget later..Think long and hard about all the consequences involved or maybe talk to gf's who wished they hadn't done it so soon...most wish they hadn't
2007-03-25 13:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by simon07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mom if you had to ask others opinions you rnot ready for sex. Talk to your mom and then talk to your doctor and learn about safe sex.
2007-03-25 04:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by LiL_MaMa_1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly u are a grown-up and should decide for yourself
Secondly, try to understand why yr mom does not want u to have sex. May be she' s tryed it once and doesn' t want more for herself and those whom she loves.
2007-03-25 13:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Maria Monsegur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Depends on your age, if you're old enough by law to have sex then there's no problem. Also, think about how your mother will feel if you do. You could talk to her about it. It'd your right to have sex if you're old enough.
Scott
2007-03-18 08:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by scott.radley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋