How did you break him of it .
2007-03-17 06:13:36 · 10 answers · asked by maxiumdamage 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isnt for me I have a friend who really really needs to relax around women he stutters spills drinks and actully shakes around them and hes 34 what Im looking for is advice on want to tell women on how to deal with him
2007-03-17 06:22:57 · update #1
Yes. He never changed, but I'm not into changing. I prefer the qualities he has and then I try to enhance these.
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The "Greg" show WB network just did a show about this. Basically, he needs to find confidnece. You might want to see if you can find a repeat of this show.
2007-03-17 06:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looooooove shy men! I have a kinda wild and crazy spirit--so shy and quiet men usually like me alot. I find that shy men are NOT shy at all around me because I tend to bring them out of their shell. Just basically talk to them--if they talk back--cool. If not then move on. But remember this--no man is too "shy" to go after what he wants. If a man is not pursueing you--dont think its because he is "shy". If he is interested--he'll find a way to get to know you better. If not--then leave it alone because hs is not interested.
2007-03-17 13:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I have meet and dated an extremely shy guy. You can't make a guy not to be shy anymore. Tehy'll grow out of it after awhile. If you really like the person than you need to be patient. Be yourself around him and don't do anything dumb to make him stay in his shyness.
2007-03-17 13:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just got in there and took control of the situation. He learned alot and wasn't so shy with the next girl.
2007-03-17 13:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're trying to "fix" somebody. The only thing that's going to make him less shy is time. The longer he knows you, the more comfortable he's going to be around you.
2007-03-17 13:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Nivk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup I did!!My boyfriend was too shy (i mean he used to be shy with me,but now he's not,he's still shy with other persons but not with me)..
We have been together for 3 years,WE used to be shy concerning our relation,but when we got used to each other we felt ok.
Especially that in my daily life i'm not that shy person!!
When you're used to someone,you're not shy anymore.
2007-03-17 13:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omigod, my bf of 4 years was so shy when i met him. he wasn't shy around any guy or even most girls but he was so shy with me. even after we started dating i had to ask him to do things like even put his arm around my waist. needless to say he is not shy anymore at all. you just have to be patient and don't make him feel bad cus then he'll feel uncomfortable which will make the situation worse.
2007-03-17 13:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, my really good friend is like that especially when he's around girls that he likes. we I see it I usually wait tell him to relax, take a deep breath, give him a hug and tell him " go for it, ask he out, she seems cool".
2007-03-17 13:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by J Vize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I'm actually shy myself and find it easiar to talk to shy men. If your outgoing, you might scare them off. Just talk to them but be patient. It takes time for them to come out of their shell.
2007-03-17 13:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-03-17 13:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by in despair 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋