Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

I have a crush on this guy at school. He's really friendly to me, and we hug and have fun all the time. My friends say that we flirt but I think he treats me the same as all his friends who are girls. We're already really good friends, but I'm not sure how to give myself that extra something that makes him see me as girlfriend potential. Any ideas? Thanks! :-)

2007-03-16 13:57:36 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Singles & Dating

I REALLLLLLLLY like this guy and want to get to know him better and start talking. But...the thing is my best friend likes him too. And so my best friend and I are trying to give "fair shots" at him. But I can't let myself go through with it. I mean, I can't bear the thought of losing her and him. I really like him and see something between us, but I love my best friend. What should I do?

2007-03-16 13:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by The Random Blonde 2 in Singles & Dating

what kind of girl stays with a guy for a long time and makes him feel like he is the only one for her and that she truly loves him but as soon as she finds someone she thinks is better she leaves the guy with no hesitation?

2007-03-16 13:55:43 · 16 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2 in Singles & Dating

What questions?
I want to ask myself questions to find out if I truly love someone...I'm not sure what to ask myself though...

Help?
Guidance?
Suggestions?

2007-03-16 13:55:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i am sitting here in my university dorm room alone-like i usually do, and i am feeling really lonely-especially since it is a friday night and it seems like everyone has somewhere to go or something to do but me-i don't have many friends and i am just wondering how you make friends-i've never been able to understand it. i am feeling so low and alone right now. can someone help me?

2007-03-16 13:55:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want a guy that I can be myself with. That will always be happy to see me. That will wipe my tears away, and will never be the reason I cry. A guy that will call me ever night, and tell me he misses me when I'm not around. I want a guy that will always hold my hand, and whenever I'm cold, he'll wrap his arms around me, and make me warm. I want a guy that will never make me dought if he really does love me. Who will send me flowers and write me love notes. Who will give me all the kisses I could need, and always think I look beautiful not matter what. I want a guy that will always be honest with me and kiss and tell. Who will find all my weird and annoying habits cute, and will love me more because of them. I want a guy that doesn't pressure me and will respect and listen to everything I have to say. Who does all the things he tells me he'll do and won't leave me waiting. I want a guy that won't mind just cuddling with me, and will suprise me. Who will pick up the little things I say and do. Who will love me, and most importantly, Never break my heart.

2007-03-16 13:55:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a sophmore and im a football player and i run track.
She is a freshman who plays forward in JV soccer.
I liked her and i started talk to her by asking about art homework after school since she is in my art class . SHe is pretty nice and explained it to me.
Then i was walking down the street with my friends and i see her standing there waiting for her mom.
I walked up and talked to her about soccer and stuff. I see her face getting redder and she is blushing. I was smiling.
After a few min i just said have a nice weekend and left.
What should i do next? Should i try to talk to her more on MOnday or is it too quick? She is very shy and never talk ot guys so am i except around my friends. I caught her stare at me sometimes in class.
Please help me guys and girls
Thanks!!!

2007-03-16 13:54:54 · 14 answers · asked by scofield24z 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm nineteen, a college student, and a virgin...am I too young for adult relations? I'm very muture for my age... I know that I am legally eligible...but do you think that most nineteen year old females are mentally ready for the next step?
I'm not waiting until I'm married or anything... and I get MORE then enough offers!!!
Really I don't know why I haven't done the deed yet!

2007-03-16 13:54:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 13:54:21 · 3 answers · asked by cheese 1 in Friends

Mine was to move out of my parents' apartment years ago. What was yours?

2007-03-16 13:53:42 · 18 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if they are HOT

2007-03-16 13:53:32 · 10 answers · asked by gymnasticschick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 13:52:59 · 3 answers · asked by Fancelll79 2 in Singles & Dating

any kind of answer whether ur in the bed or talking on the phone or even thru emails what does she say or do thats makes u hot and so turned on.....girls tell me what u say or do to your guys that gets them so turned on and stuff lol

2007-03-16 13:52:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like, "extremely" new. I don't want to shock him, he is very "classic" type.

2007-03-16 13:52:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 16 year old boy and my mother has always wanted a girl. I even was given a girl's name(kathleen). But latley she has been telling me that i am going to start becoming a nice young lady. She says that i have to grow my hair out and i am not allowed to go to the barber. I also have to wear girl clothe around the house including underwear. When i go to school though she just makes me wear the girl underwear which is good. She says that in a year no one will be able to reconize me as a boy anymore. I REALLY DONT WANT TO BE A GIRL. This is to weird for me but if i dont do it she'll kick me out and i wont have anywhere to go. I have no choice, but to let her do this to me.

2007-03-16 13:52:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what does it mean if a girl hangs out with emo's and slu ts all the time? and she plays guys herself? what kind of girl is this and why does she do it?

2007-03-16 13:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend, Casey, just got a new boyfriend. She's always been a little insecure about her body, so I think that she feels like no one else besides this guy will like her, which I know is not true. But she doesn't want to lose him. They've been going out for three days and he already felt her up. She didn't say anything about it or try to stop him because she doesn't want him to leave. I'm afraid that she'll do something she'll regret or let him go too far because she doesn't want him to break up with her. She's only in eighth grade. How do I help her to say no? How can I tell her that she doesn't have to put up with that? I'm so worried. Please help if you can.

2007-03-16 13:52:00 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Friends

i was invited to my friends sleepover for the weekend but my dad told me that i couldnt go. i'm 17 about to turn 18 and my parents (my dad in particular)put ultra restrictions on everything that i do. I am a good student, i do everything that my parents ask of me and i hardly get into trouble. I am also getting ready to head off to college and i am so afraid that he will try to monitor everything i do. how can i explain to him, that im not a baby or a little girl anymore and to trust me to make wise decisions for myself?

2007-03-16 13:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by aben1507 1 in Friends

My best friend in the entire world, doesn't believe in ghosts, but if she were me she would. my grandparents were really close to me, and they soon died a couple years ago. they still protect me in spirit. i know who they are, and i know they only want to protect me, but how can i be afraid of my own grandparents? i know that i have to face my fears, but im scared to. no one knows what i have been through, i am liturally crying right now, i love them dearly, and wish they were here right now, but when they come in spirit, i get scared, and wonder if i would ever be able to contact them, and when i say something, can they understand what i say? do they know what i mean when i say i love them and miss them? please help! what do i do? how do i know if they still love me, even though they're no longer here? (*cries*).

2007-03-16 13:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been seriously going out with my boyfriend for 3 years, and I just don't feel the same way about him anymore. He on the other hand says I am the best thing to ever happen to him, and he loves me so much... But I can't say the same for him. I feel like we have nothing in common. Our relationship is now long distance too (I went back home from college, he's still there) and I hate talking on the phone with him. Its just not pleasant, but I can't for the life of me break up with him. I can't do that to him... So I don't know what to do. I know I'm not happy though, but I keep feeling that its a phase and I should be in love with him. Please help me!

2007-03-16 13:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I first met George, I was dating his friend Alex, but me & George hit it off and became good friends. About a year later, Alex and I broke up and I decided to give George a chance. I was George's first girlfriend, and he lost his virginity to me. It didn't work out between us tho & we decided we were better off as friends. Then, me & Alex got back together, but me & George stayed best friends. Alex and I are now engaged, but George is still single & it's obvious that he's still in love with me. It's getting more and more awkward for the 3 of us to hang out, and I know George is still holding out hope of me & him getting back together. I've told him a million times that I only see him as a friend, but he doesn't seem to get it. I really value his friendship, and I don't want to lose him as a friend. People have said that I should not hang out with George anymore, but he's really depressed and says that his friends are the only thing keeping him from giving up on life. Plz help me!

2007-03-16 13:49:28 · 9 answers · asked by Happy go Lucky 4 in Friends

my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but she don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...(when he screws up again).....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.i feel like the fall back to guy.she say im in her heart for marriage.
we do talk ,i do see her once a week.everything looks promising then when the weekend rolls around she disappears...she treats me like,if the relationship shes in now doesn't work i will take you back
i have told her to end it as soon as possible,before to much time goes by and he wont be so hurt...she says its too late for that?/??

2007-03-16 13:49:25 · 7 answers · asked by David 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married on 7-7-07 in a church with rows of chairs (not pews) and I have NO CLUE how to decorate them...nor am I crafty in any way shape or form. Any help is greatly appreciated. P.S. My colors are white & fuschia with silver accents.

2007-03-16 13:49:21 · 3 answers · asked by hvandyk82 2 in Weddings

where is the line between flirting and making converstiaon? i get carried away a lot and tend to talk to my boyfriends freidnds and some of them have admitteied to having a crush on me. i dont watn to be a slut and date aroudn or anything, but i sometimes know wehre the line is especially when im hanigng out with my boyfriends friends. they sometimes want me to break up with them so i can datet them but id never do that.
so guys:
1)what is considered flirting
2)how do i know when my boyfreinds pal is flirting with me
3)should i confront the friend or my boyfriend

2007-03-16 13:49:18 · 1 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

all of her folks wear the best threads for the occassion ,I gotta get use to that all over again I have been duing geology work in Africa for five years. I am a bit rusty in a formal setting she wants to show up at dinner on the new Harley. whats the appropriate attire for this affair on Rodeo Drive ..can you help?

2007-03-16 13:47:54 · 1 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am 11 and me and my boyfriend want to hold hands but i am a little nervous and I dont really know where or when. Please NO criticisizm

2007-03-16 13:47:45 · 29 answers · asked by Savannah H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so here's the deal...my best friend in the whole wide world just happens to be a guy (yes he's gay, no comments from the peanut gallery please) and I am getting married 7-7-07. I really want him to stand with my girls but I am getting weird responses from the grooms family. I don't think that there is anything wrong with this, its not like he is wearing a dress or anything. Any ideas on how to make him mesh better with the whole thing?

2007-03-16 13:46:45 · 5 answers · asked by hvandyk82 2 in Weddings

he is cute he is dating my best friend i want him and i cant go to another guy cuz there is no more guys that r loke him i need him dont be harsh if u dont say anything nice plz dont respond . i need ehp i cant make him i like me i cant i want him to dump my best friend for me bad how but i dont want to ghurt my firends feelings never

2007-03-16 13:44:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So theres this guy in my school who alays pokes me in the back and pretends that he didn't, he always smiles at me, and he said that he liked my pants right to my face. What is he doing?

2007-03-16 13:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by i_like_dinosaurs 2 in Singles & Dating

thats a question

2007-03-16 13:43:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends