Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

My boyfriend & I broke up a couple weeks ago. Today he had a mutual friend give me a note that read:

Hey Erika,
Breaking up with you for *****,I admit it was a very STUPID THING TO DO! do you think for the time being we can be friends? I really dont deserve to ask you that but I thought about it & I just wanted to know. As soon as I get out of my wheelchair & cast do you think we can start over?
Always ******

The friend that passed along the note said he was afraid of us getting back together while he was still injured since its hard for him to do things & he didnt want it to affect our relationship. I'm more than willing to give it another shot, but I'm afraid of waiting 'till late april or early may(when he gets the cast off)to try. Should I just wait until then & risk him finding someone while were friends, or just ask him out again now even though he wants to wait?

2007-03-16 13:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by Erika 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 13:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by hottasha09 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 4 years (on and off) an i'm not in love with him, but i still have soo many feelings for him, and its hard to just up and leave him alone. cause we're talkin 4 years of my life with him, i dont want it all to be a waste.. so does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-03-16 13:42:39 · 8 answers · asked by Im always gonna be me! 2 in Singles & Dating

at the age of 14. both of us, girl and guy

2007-03-16 13:42:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 9 weeks pregnant. I'm sick all the time, I throw up all the time. I'm 100% exhausted but my bf does not understand at all. He thinks if i dont sleep with him i'm showing an attitude. I'm really too overwhelmed to deal with this right now..what should i do?

2007-03-16 13:41:57 · 22 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 13:41:54 · 53 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whats ur most embaresing moment???
Plz Share!?!

2007-03-16 13:41:22 · 6 answers · asked by =) 3 in Friends

you said "I love you"?
if so, details!!!

2007-03-16 13:40:14 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Men I want to especially hear from you about how you can tell if a woman has low self esteem even if you dont talk to her??????

2007-03-16 13:39:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend and her cousin r at a dance and the cousin's BFF was there and ditched the cousin. my friend IM'd me and asked 4 sum ways to get bak at her. the only thinh they thought of was a rumor tht she danced weird.
HELP!!

2007-03-16 13:39:30 · 18 answers · asked by OSUbuckeye3 1 in Friends

2007-03-16 13:39:21 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

ok.
so there's this guy im friends with (he's my locker neighbor and he's in like 4 of my classes)
he's really cute, and we've been friends for like 2 years now
i really like him, but i dont kno if he likes me.
we talk all the time, and we sometimes walk to classes together
should i wait for him to make the first move?
he's really popular (and i kinda am)
he plays basketball, and volleyball, and so do i
recently, he's been giving me a lot of attention...........
if i ask him out, and i get rejected, its TOTALLY gonna ruin my reputation............

2007-03-16 13:38:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mine?............ lets see.......

romantic
a sweetheart
cute
long hair well not like a girl but lke the skater hair
skaters
interest in acting or the arts or music or shopping .........
in a band
not afraid to tell me how he feels
smiles
can make me laugh
does NOT flirt with other girls
not in it just for ONE thing

2007-03-16 13:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by bellelatina1616 1 in Singles & Dating

These are in order of importance. # 1 - Good Health, without it,It's difficult to enjoy life without It # 2 - Family. Wife,husband.childern. grandchildern. # 3 - Religion. Although I'm not religious, I can see the value of faith. # 4 - Relationships. Friends, aquaintences, etc. # 5 - Fiancial security. Yes I'm putting money down close to the bottpm of the list. "Money does not bring happiness", Is so,so, true. The only thing it does is to make life a little easier and less stressful. # 6 - Job satisfaction. Do you agree with all of the above? What would you add,delete, or rearrange?

2007-03-16 13:37:59 · 14 answers · asked by fatstan@sbcglobal.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is there any difference between a gf and a friend?

2007-03-16 13:36:48 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 13:36:42 · 6 answers · asked by the d 6 in Friends

at the end of the day today me and my friend were putting our books in our bags when this guy that we both like comes up and starts talking to one of his friends, and when me and my friend start to leave, i was gonna say bye to him but then he looks at my friend and says 'bye kayla** i love you' and then my friend looks at me and was like 'oh poor ellz' in that beotchey tone and then the guy was like 'bye ellz' and left. and now on msn my friend is like 'ohmygosh! :( im sooo sorry! i know how much you love him! but you know what? he told me that he doesnt like you, im sorry.. he said he likes someone else and he wants 2 b friends' and now im just going CRAZY im in tears and im mad at my friend and im hurt and feel like total crap! i cant believe that my friend would do something like that to me, and she even said that since i liked him first, i could have him and that she would back off, and she even told him that... so i dont know what to tell my friend or the guy i like WHAT DO I DO?

2007-03-16 13:36:05 · 1 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4 in Friends

see theres this girl in my classes, and she thinks shes all that, she always makes bitc,hy remarks to me and says im ugly and stuff and the whole class can see espesially they guy i like and its soooooooo embarsing, anyway i can't do anything about it becouse ill be out numbered becouse theres more people on her side, and i won't no what to say and if she says something bad about me in front of the guy that i like ill be soo embarssed, so basically theres no way out of this what can i do?

2007-03-16 13:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my girlfriend is coming over and my parents(and siblings)wont be home!so i was thinkin about well having sex,but im just a little bit well nervous......so u think u can give me tips on what i should try.....oh i have talked to my gf before and she is up to it we r just waiting for the moment!but she is the type of girl who is willing to have fun and mess arround,and try new things!thanks alot.......

2007-03-16 13:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by aron........ 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a crush on a guy for a few years. His mother began to date my uncle and our families started to hang out like one big family. I started to talk to him. I really like him but now his mother and my uncle have married and we're family now. Is it possible that I would have a chance with him still? Or would it be weird? Would our families be against it? I need some advice.

2007-03-16 13:35:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Myself and my partner are 38. He is kind, gentle, caring, and good looking. He has the 3 qualities I wanted: eg does not drink, smoke or swears; he is a nice boy. We hug lots.
We've been together 2 years and lived together for 8 months. When we moved in together I expected our sex life TO BEGIN BUT IT DIED. WE HAVE NEVER HAD 'FULL SEX' but had great touching before we lived together. At bedtime my partner just nods off within seconds of hitting the bed. I give many hits of my sex desire but get no response or am told 'I'm just so tired.' I find it hard to talk about this with him. I do love him so much though.

2007-03-16 13:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I think i love him, and want to tell him that.
Should i wait 4 him 2 say it 1st, or should I just speak my mind?
we say lol2u (lots of love to you) on every email/note, but we've never said "I love you".
Should I??
we've gotten so close so many times, but have never said it. :-(

2007-03-16 13:35:06 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am dating somebody who I don't even like, but I didn't want to say no and hurt him...I need GOOD advice!!!

2007-03-16 13:34:49 · 9 answers · asked by *~*Alyssa*~* 2 in Singles & Dating

im a fan of movies but the problem is i always had infatuations on the lead role?

2007-03-16 13:34:47 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like my bf but he never talks to me & i never talk to him & when i try to his bestfriend is always there talking to him and even if he's not its still MAD akward, what should i do?

2007-03-16 13:34:32 · 8 answers · asked by twirlgirl17 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 13:34:31 · 8 answers · asked by TLO 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy and everyday he writes me notes and a few days ago he started calling me buddie and we arent really good friends. sometimes we talk face to face but most of the time its thru notes. well one of my good friends told me that he likes me so i asked her how she knows and she said "everyone knows" and my other friend agreed with her. but i dont really trust them a whole lot with that kinda stuff so i asked him and st first he wouldnt answer me and kept stalling the answer w/ a bunch of questions but later emialed me saying something like "i guess so, i havent thought about it that much" and im wondering what exactly that means... so can u tell me what exactly that means? does he like me or not?

2007-03-16 13:34:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this is no so much as a question but an observation. my 2nd grand daughter recently died of sma Spinal Muscle atrophy. my husband doesn't show a lot of feelings of grief, he went to work on Monday I stayed home to get myself together. I of course am not coping well. he is fine. men need to help us grieve. don't just go to work and pretend it didn't happen. it did. he did the same thing when his father died. I know people grieve differently but why are men so aloof. Will his grief be the same when I die or our next grandchild since there is no guarantee that this won't happen again. ok like i said not a real question just an observation...any thoughts?

2007-03-16 13:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by hms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some helpful ideas and advise for a romantic date for my wife and I. We are in our late 20's, eairly 30's and enjoy sports and outdoors, music, movies, and fine dining. I am planning it for this weekend and I would like it to be special.
I only have part of Saturday and Saturday night. We are going to a baseball game Sunday as a family with our six year old son, so sporting event may be out of the question. I'm trying not to do the same old dinner, movie or dinner, dancing, few drinks type date. Thanks for your help.

2007-03-16 13:33:20 · 12 answers · asked by jc22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anybody got any conversation pieces that will get me talking to her more?

2007-03-16 13:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Cowboys and Tar Heels Fan Always 4 in Singles & Dating