I'm 9 weeks pregnant. I'm sick all the time, I throw up all the time. I'm 100% exhausted but my bf does not understand at all. He thinks if i dont sleep with him i'm showing an attitude. I'm really too overwhelmed to deal with this right now..what should i do?
2007-03-16 13:41:57 · 22 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Puke on him...Tell him what is up, if he doesn't understand that right now you not 100%, he needs to take care of himself, if you know what i mean...Dont let him force you, tell him also the stress of this is not helping you....
2007-03-16 13:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this: "I'm 9 weeks pregnant, I'm sick all the time, I throw up all the time. I'm 100% exhausted and you don't even understand. I am not showing you attitude, I'm just too overwhelmed to deal with this right now and I don't know what to do. You need to just stay by me and help me through this okay?"
He's probably acting a little shallow because he's stressed out too. Tell him it will all be okay and not to worry about it.
2007-03-16 13:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your pregnant i am to. 2 months but i would tell him that he is part of the reason why your not feeling well (two to tango) and he NEEDS to understand where your coming from. The last thing you need is for him to leave you and the baby. Sounds like he is a jealous person too. I would try and sleep with him to avoid arguing bc thats the last thing you need and if that does not work move back in with your parents they will be glad to have you........i wish you LUCK
2007-03-16 13:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sheri M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as of now you're damaged up and also you want to stay that way. you want to obtain what you're giving. If he won't be able to provide the actuality or per chance a 1/2 an afternoon to then you definately he should be left on my own. i'm particular there's a more beneficial deserving guy obtainable which will savor you putting aside time for him. leave him on my own and communicate for your flirtatious self. you'll see how briskly you've yet another bf.
2016-12-02 02:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by younan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just too bad for him i guess.My b/f is and was the same way when i was pregnant and it just adds more stress and arguments between us.So you just need to take care of you and too bad throw him a magazine and tell him to deal with it because your too sick and feel like crap-being preg and so sick doesn't bring the sexy back and make you feel like yeah I'll just put on my teddy and act like your little freak.Whatever is how i felt and yeah a little compromising is good but when you feel up to it-he is just being selfish trying to blame your attitude as the issue-when clearly you don't feel too good.As bad as it might seem you just need to keep being strong and tell him you will when you feel better and not just because he wants it when he wants it.Too bad for him!!!
2007-03-16 13:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make him wear one of those sympathy belts that will show him how it feels to be pregnant. Also if this is how he is acting when you are pregnant then you are in for a ride because it can get more exhausting once the baby is here. Good Luck.
2007-03-16 13:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by April F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! Come on he doesn't understand the word PREGNANT.. man guys like that are not even worth it. You shouldn't do anything he is the one that should be acting like a man not a lil boy who starts throwing a fit to get what he wants.
2007-03-16 13:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by star86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im really sorry but u gotta sit your boyfriend down and let him know its no attitude problem at the end of the day your pregnant and its normal.
plus i think he knows how to use his hands so just tell him to go do that for a while!
u deserve more respect hunny
best of luck.
2007-03-16 13:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Devilsadvocate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is immature and does not understand 9 weeks pregnant you 2 need to get other things in line u allready got sex figured out time to get ready for that baby
2007-03-16 13:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel look up information on Internet and email or print if for him.. Men can be very selfish and do not understand the way pregnancy works so teach him about it
2007-03-16 13:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋